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Greta | She/Her | 28 | Italian Comic artist wannabe Love talking about OTPs, so don't be afraid to message me whenever you want!
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Concept: Law, a greysexual, being very horny for Luffy but also feeling extremely guilty for it but also it's all in his head Luffy has really 0 (zero) thoughts on sex and will never have and he's totally fine

Law doesn't want to involve Luffy since he doesn't have any kind of interest in it (Law won't enjoy it either), but the sole thought of Luffy just watching and asking questions is enough to make him DETONATE(= he would enjoy it far more for some reason)

NSFWish under the cut!!!

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Oh, yes.

A few years ago I went to pick up a woman I met on OKCupid for a date, and a friend of hers was there. They kind of over-explained “Oh, she just showed up to say hi” and there was a vague nervousness in the air that even my autistic ass was picking up on. Her friend was playing conspicuously with her phone. I went “Ah, the safety. Need to get a picture?”

Dead silence for about a second and a half, then the friend took a picture, looked at my date, and said “Have fun” and walked out the door.

(I would ordinarily have been clueless, but I’d just been asked to be the safety the previous night.)

My advice to male-presenting folks: recognize that this not your problem. By which I mean, this sort of security check isn’t a problem for you. It doesn’t hurt you. You aren’t being insulted or disrespected. And if you treat it like what it is– a reasonable adaptation to an unreasonable situation– and just roll with it, your dates will be more comfortable, and you will have a better time as a result.

The same applies to phone calls mid-date. Let them answer the damn phone without drama.

They aren’t accusing you of being a dangerous person. The very fact that they are willing to go on a goddamn date with you means that they have extended a certain level of trust. But the fact remains that there isn’t really a way to distinguish between “a man who isn’t dangerous” and “a man who knows how to behave like he’s not dangerous.”

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kawuli

there isn’t really a way to distinguish between “a man who isn’t dangerous” and “a man who knows how to behave like he’s not dangerous.”

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lemon-wedges

this was suppose to go with another drawing where hypnos accidently puts than to sleep cause he got too excited seeing him again but im too tired :C

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dilfosaur

i realized this was also lost in the fall of the CH website so

since it’s That Time of Year again, i’m just gonna bring back my Every Christmas TV Rom-Com comic

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