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Be Strong. Believe.

@actuallyade / actuallyade.tumblr.com

25. Artist. Non-Binary. They/Them. Queer. Writer.
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When being adopted by the band’s girlfriend and you like the lead singer is that a good sign? Asking for a friend

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Update I just got an opportunity to make exactly $115 and i’m not kidding so like. Reblog to make $115.

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Damn I really want someone I like to also want to date me

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Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

I love my mom.

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I am risking nothing

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I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

omg im so glad to se so many people love their mummy

Why’re you being mean to my mum?

goddamn it

Nope. Googled it. 15 minuets. Nope. Not taking any chances

Koop

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twirliest

This has 1.2 million reblogs … Ps not riskin it

1.4 almost ps not risking it

Fuck this post

2.5 million notes I hate myself

I reblogged this twice now

I’m so sorry this isn’t b99 related and this isn’t real but I can’t not skip this I’m sorry

Not taking a fucking chance

Sorry, guys, but Im not taking a chance

No chances… She’s out… And she must be protected.

How dare you

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riarkling

Whatcha doin to me Farkle!

i can’t risk it

sorry babes my moms just my favorite person ever

Sorry I can’t risk it

Fuck sorry guys  I love my mom

Omg I hate these things but I am paranoid. So sorry guys.

2.8 million notes

CANT RISK IT

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trapbvby

Sorry guys

sorry 😩

IM NOT RISKING IT

I DON’T GIVE A DAMN NO WAY

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alexisreneg

Ow

she’s the only family I have so…

🍀❤️

Two moms can’t risk it

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boldlyqueer

If you only care about and support bi girls when they’re dating other girls, your solidarity means nothing!

Bi girls are still wlw even when they’re dating men! They deserve a happy and loving relationship no matter who they’re dating!

If you imply bi girls don’t experience attraction or love for women as strongly as lesbians bc they’re “available to men,” your solidarity means nothing!

Nobody is “available to men,” ew! There isn’t some type of ‘wlw purity’ scale; bi girls love women and that’s all there is to it!

If you don’t listen to bi girls when they say something is hurtful and/or biphobic, your solidarity means nothing!

Non bi people don’t get to decide what is or isn’t biphobic! Listen to bi voices and boost them!

We need strong and true solidarity in wlw communities; not just empty, feel good platitudes! So:

Support bi girls!

Cherish bi girls!

Uplift bi girls!

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missiur

Reblog if you’d be okay if your friend came out as transgender

let’s see how many transphobics we can weed out

if you can’t reblog this unfollow me right now

If you won’t reblog this, get the fuck away from ME and the others on this blog.

Admim Jackson ❣

I will love them for whoever they choose to be ♡

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ladepanda

Reasons why I like tumblr

1. None of my family is on here

2. Barely anyone in my life knows the website even exists.

3. employers won’t ask for my tumblr handle

4. Can post into the void and no one will read it

5. Memes

6. Gay

7. learn the absolutely weirdest shit and thats my very specific jam

8. People like me more for being obnoxious as opposed to being repelled

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actuallyade

9. I get to be whoever I want to be without fear of hatred

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taylorswift

For years I asked, pleaded for a chance to own my work. Instead I was given an opportunity to sign back up to Big Machine Records and ‘earn’ one album back at a time, one for every new one I turned in. I walked away because I knew once I signed that contract, Scott Borchetta would sell the label, thereby selling me and my future. I had to make the excruciating choice to leave behind my past. Music I wrote on my bedroom floor and videos I dreamed up and paid for from the money I earned playing in bars, then clubs, then arenas, then stadiums. 

Some fun facts about today’s news: I learned about Scooter Braun’s purchase of my masters as it was announced to the world. All I could think about was the incessant, manipulative bullying I’ve received at his hands for years. 

Like when Kim Kardashian orchestrated an illegally recorded snippet of a phone call to be leaked and then Scooter got his two clients together to bully me online about it. (See photo) Or when his client, Kanye West, organized a revenge porn music video which strips my body naked. Now Scooter has stripped me of my life’s work, that I wasn’t given an opportunity to buy. Essentially, my musical legacy is about to lie in the hands of someone who tried to dismantle it.

This is my worst case scenario. This is what happens when you sign a deal at fifteen to someone for whom the term ‘loyalty’ is clearly just a contractual concept. And when that man says ‘Music has value’, he means its value is beholden to men who had no part in creating it. 

When I left my masters in Scott’s hands, I made peace with the fact that eventually he would sell them. Never in my worst nightmares did I imagine the buyer would be Scooter. Any time Scott Borchetta has heard the words ‘Scooter Braun’ escape my lips, it was when I was either crying or trying not to. He knew what he was doing; they both did. Controlling a woman who didn’t want to be associated with them. In perpetuity. That means forever. 

Thankfully, I am now signed to a label that believes I should own anything I create. Thankfully, I left my past in Scott’s hands and not my future. And hopefully, young artists or kids with musical dreams will read this and learn about how to better protect themselves in a negotiation. You deserve to own the art you make.

I will always be proud of my past work. But for a healthier option, Lover will be out August 23. 

Sad and grossed out,

💔

Taylor

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aidashakur

“congratulations you’re hired!”

“congratulations you’re approved!”

“congratulations you’re accepted!”

“congratulations you’re promoted!”

is all i want to hear 2019 🥳🤩

reblogging because I heard one of those today 😁

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just once I want to see a good post critiquing makeup culture that doesn’t turn out to be made by some janky radfem blog

oh hey!! I’m not a janky radfem I can do it myself!

makeup culture is wack and normalizes a ludicrously high bar as the bare minimum women can do. I saw a “lazy"makeup tutorial the other day that listed 22 separate goddamn products. you’re supposed to buy and know how to use 22 different things on your face just for the privilege of being considered lazy and that’s uuuuuuh what’s the word? bullshit.

Really, five products could work, even 3. Just frame the face, eyes, lips, and you’re done.

0 products also works great

because I’m gonna be real here, the idea that 22 products is a minimum sucks but it’s really upsetting that any amount of makeup is the bare minimum at all

I would really just suggest some powder foundation, concealer, mascara and lipgloss/lipstick, or tbh just mascara works too, but that’s up to you

I’m sorry if I didn’t express this clearly enough in the original post but I’m not really looking for more concise makeup regiments. my intention was to point out how it’s Bad that makeup is considered a bare minimum at all, regardless of individual feelings on the matter

no face should be “required” to have “a minimum” of makeup. makeup has no health benefits and does nothing but fill the pockets of companies that prey on women and our insecurities.

makeup should not be seen as hygiene because it isnt. get that shit out of your head.

this post: makeup culture is ridiculous and 22 products should not be considered a minimum requirement for someones face. no one should have to do that

the notes: so like……. what youre saying is……. we need to make the minimum about 5 or 6 instead… i gotcha

Really the only makeup you need is eyeliner but that’s just my personal opinion

okay

where did we lose you

why are people like this

the beauty industry fosters self hatred/a feeling of inadequacy in women so they buy their products. if you can’t see why zero makes sense then they’ve got you too.

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“Age is just a number” means senior citizens can still find love.

“Age is just a number” means middle-aged people can still find love.

“Age is just a number” means 30+ people can still find love.

“Age is just a number” is not an excuse to be a pedophile.

Nothing is an excuse to be a pedophile.

So don’t.

Just don’t.

also “age is just a number” means i’m buying that stuffed animal and y’all can’t stop me

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inkinflux

BRIGHTER SUNS, DARKER SHADOWS MASTERLIST

Credence Barebone x Reader | As Grindelwald gathers power and followers, he plans to hit his archnemesis, Albus Dumbledore, where he least expects it. He abducts his favourite student just after her graduation and plans to use her as leverage to draw Dumbledore out of the protected boundaries of Hogwarts, yet he doesn’t know that this student has a secret power. While imprisoned in Nurmengard, the student somewhat befriends a man claiming to be Aurelius Dumbledore, and with each passing day they come to realise just how interwoven their fates appear to be.

CHAPTER 1 - A SECRET SKILL CHAPTER 2 - DARKNESS PROWLS  CHAPTER 3 - FOR THE GREATER GOOD CHAPTER 4 - PATRONUS CHAPTER 5 - REUNION CHAPTER 6 - KINGS AND QUEENS, SNAKES AND DREAMS CHAPTER 7 - NO ONE MOURNS THE WICKED CHAPTER 8 - SON OF BLACK CHAPTER 9 - A THOUSAND SUNS

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