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This is Sri Lanka.

To all those who would mill and mine Sri Lanka’s Easter Sunday massacre for your own divisive ends. Who seek to place our people in boxes and brackets to score political points or worse, to bolster your own racist, extremist ideologies - please know this, we reject you. You do not know us. You do not know Sri Lanka. 

My family members are Muslim, Buddhist, Hindu, Christians, of all denominations, agnostic, atheist. We are LGBTQA. My cousins are American and Australian, my nieces and nephews are British and Canadian. We have relatives and ancestry traced from China, India, Iran, Germany, France, Singapore, Malaysia, Morocco. Many families on our island are like mine. 

This is Sri Lanka. A true melting pot of 21 million. A richly-woven shared land, shared culture and shared food. Lots of food. At Christmas we eat Christmas cake. During Ramadan it’s Biriyani. Last week it was Kavum (oil cake) and Kokis (dutch sweetmeat) for Sinhalese and Tamil New Year. This is week was Easter, Easter means chocolate egg hunts and Hot Cross Buns.

Everyone awake yesterday, as the attacks began to unfold, had someone to call, someone to check on. An attack on our Christian community is an attack on all of us, not because they are a part of us, but because they are us. Family, friends, colleagues, who attend early morning Easter services at any number of Churches or Easter breakfast at one of our many hotels. 

When the inevitable, devastating list of those murdered is made public, there will be people of all backgrounds on it. Because we all mark Easter, together, as a nation. And as a nation, we will protect those who celebrate it, this year, next year and forever. We will protect the right of all to be safe in their houses of worship, in our hotels, for our people and guests of our country to be safe at a f*cking buffet. To be safe at places they should be safe. Happiness and security are things we are willing to fight for. This is Sri Lanka, this is the nature of us.

The tragedy of Sunday, April 21, 2019 is overwhelming. I went to bed horrified and I woke up horrified. On this new day, there are many things that are still unclear. The scope of this is massive, it will take years to come to terms with it all. There are issues to be dealt, severely if necessary. But the hard truth is that we know how to do this. Despite 10 years of relative peace, 30 years of brutal civil war has taught our people many lessons. We as a country know how to deal with this.

One positive outcome is that we have enough experience to be fair. Sri Lankans know to separate the terrorist who commits atrocities from the people who share their ethnicity and/or religion. We know how to act. We know how to help. We are kind and generous and courageous. The kind of people who will line up for hours in the baking sun, as bombs continue to go off around the country, to donate blood. Some of these people were eventually turned away yesterday. Thank you, but the blood banks are overflowing, our wounded can be treated, we have enough. This a place where, despite the horrors of our past and the uncertainty of our future, the good will always outweigh the bad. Fear will be conquered through humour and prayer. Peace will prevail. Our people will live and die together as we have always done, side by side, surrounded by the ocean and all that it provides and carries to us. 

This is Sri Lanka and everyone is welcome here, but your divisive BS is not. Keep that shit away from my replies, away from my inbox and away from my country. 

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Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

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xaldien

“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.

Yowch, disgusting.

If I don’t reblog this, assume I’m dead.

Always reblog this

If you Dont reblog this if u see it then i cant call u my friend

IF ANYONE TELLS ME THAT MEN CAN’T BE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND RAPE, I AM SICKENED BY THEIR MERE PRESENCE ON MY BLOG.

If you disagree with me, unfollow my blog, block me and never look at my blog again.

If you want to debate about this or send anon’s about this, I will reply but your actions have consequences.

Out of 19000+ followers I have, only one of you actually reblogged about this issue, yet a lot of you have reblogged and liked a picture by playboy about catcalling and that how men should never do it.

Additionally, I have received abuse in my ask box (which I will be answering when I can) and threats. In particular death threats and rape threats.

I can see the real problem here already. Male domestic violence and rape is just invisible in our society because we don’t want to talk about this because it just damages the status quo of this fucking website.

I’m a male victim of child sexual abuse. We matter. Please, reblog this.

Please never forget male victims are real and it can happen to everyone/anyone

Make sure the romance is there on both sides people

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Reblog if you don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend.

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freekahzoid

1.7 million ppl are single

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jebsrifle

1.8 million

1.9

2.0

2.2 million. We’re all in this together 😂

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I have stretch marks.

Reblog if you do too. Just to prove that it is more normal than what people actually think.

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Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

I love my mom.

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I am risking nothing

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I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

omg im so glad to se so many people love their mummy

Why’re you being mean to my mum?

goddamn it

Nope. Googled it. 15 minuets. Nope. Not taking any chances

Koop

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twirliest

This has 1.2 million reblogs … Ps not riskin it

1.4 almost ps not risking it

Fuck this post

2.5 million notes I hate myself

I reblogged this twice now

I’m so sorry this isn’t b99 related and this isn’t real but I can’t not skip this I’m sorry

Not taking a fucking chance

Sorry, guys, but Im not taking a chance

No chances… She’s out… And she must be protected.

How dare you

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riarkling

Whatcha doin to me Farkle!

i can’t risk it

sorry babes my moms just my favorite person ever

Sorry I can’t risk it

Fuck sorry guys  I love my mom

Omg I hate these things but I am paranoid. So sorry guys.

2.8 million notes

CANT RISK IT

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trapbvby

Sorry guys

sorry 😩

IM NOT RISKING IT

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mydogisabutt

MOMMY

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omamaha16

NEVER RISK IT

MOM

I’m sorry guys. I had to

No today Satan

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Say it with me:

The riverdale writers did not do disservice to Toni’s bisexual representation because she kissed a male. They did a disservice to Toni’s bisexual representation by making people believe they perpetuated a degrading bi stereotype.

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Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

I love my mom.

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I am risking nothing

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I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

omg im so glad to se so many people love their mummy

Why’re you being mean to my mum?

goddamn it

Nope. Googled it. 15 minuets. Nope. Not taking any chances

Koop

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twirliest

This has 1.2 million reblogs … Ps not riskin it

1.4 almost ps not risking it

Fuck this post

I am sorry…

I fucks with my moms too heavy to be playing games. REBLOG

Hell no.

Sorry

Y'all really got a porn blog out here doin it.

I couldn’t live with myself if something happened to my Mom lol

ricanass

I second my husband’s emotion! Lol

This is supposed to be a porn blog but NO

Scrolled past but got paranoid

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astrologin

EU TE AMO MÃE 

WHY IS THIS POST BACK?

Omg this my second time seeing this shit I hate these

Eh too late

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