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To This Day

@apileofpans / apileofpans.tumblr.com

Arby, She/they - abuse survivor
Phantom of the Opera / Underworld
I tag everything so feel free to block what you dislike!
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apileofpans / PotsAndPans

Figured I should do a quick introduction with links to my stuff for a new pinned post, since there are multiple things to be discussed.

First and foremost, I write! Currently write a TON of Phantom of the Opera, but also have works for Underworld (the campy movie franchise).

I am also very active in trading for Phantom of the Opera and Love Never Dies audios/videos! My Encora - my list

If you want to trade, you can do it through Tumblr direct messages or contact me on Discord (arby).

If you really like Phantom (like me) and are looking for a fun Discord server, check mine out below! People of all ages are welcome and we discuss fanart, shipping, and everything else Phantom (yes, including all versions! Y/K and others welcome :) ) The name of the server has nothing to do with the genders welcome, everybody is welcome as long as you’re normal <3

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wyldstallyn

this post is for broccoli fans ONLY 🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦🥦 broccoli i love you

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I’m gonna say it.

It’s unhinged to assume that someone’s taste in fiction equates to what they believe is moral or good, or is something they want to see or experience in real life.

That is a bonkers assumption to make.

I’m tired of humoring people with long arguments about it when the simple fact is it is a totally fucking absurd reach to accuse someone who enjoys something in fiction of being in favor of it in real life.

I’m tired of pretending like this is a legitimate position to hold– that they should be afraid of fiction’s dire influence on a reader’s moral decay or that it’s a sign of what the author secretly wants for realsies in real life.

I promise you it is still getting me death threats in 2024.

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thinking about how when you experience a lot of shame in your formative years (indirectly, directly, as abuse or just as an extant part of your environment) it becomes really difficult to be perceived by other people in general. the mere concept of someone watching me do anything, whether it's a totally normal activity or something unfamiliar of embarrassing, whether I'm working in an excel spreadsheet or being horny on main, it just makes my skin crawl and my brain turn to static because I cannot convince myself that it's okay to be seen and experienced. because to exist is to be ashamed and embarrassed of myself, whether I'm failing at something or not, because my instinctive reaction to anyone commenting on ANYTHING I'm doing is to crawl into a hole and die. it's such a bizarre and dehumanizing feeling to just not be able to exist without constantly thinking about how you are being Perceived. ceaseless watcher give me a god damn break.

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scarf-it-box

In case you’re uninitiated:

These are the current female volleyball uniforms

The Norwegian team on the left got fined a ridiculous amount of money for wearing shorts to the games

When you compare the men and women, it becomes very clear how sexist the uniforms are.

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ssjdebusk

“Sexism is dead women are so annoying to keep talking about it”

*professional athletes get fined for wearing shorts*

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pjharvey

baby fever is the most foreign concept to me in the world. when i found out women don’t have to have children if they don’t want to i was like YAYYYY!!! I’M FREEEEE !!! ^_^ i was like 13 and i have never looked back…

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