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🚫 Phrases to Avoid Saying to Boost Manifestation

The point of this post is to raise awareness on what kind of pattern of thinking and words we may use during the manifestation process that may cause the process to go slower. These are personal experiences I’ve found while working on manifestations so I thought I’d share. I’ve seen a significant difference in manifestation time because I’ve stopped saying these phrases as much as I can as of lately.

❌ Phrases to avoid:

❌ “I can’t wait” - the universe responds to vibrations and not words necessarily. But if your vibration is representing impatience, or anxiety, rather than excited eagerness and full faith that what you desire is yours, the universe will respond to that and the manifestation process can take longer, thus making you wait.

❌ “I want” - this indicates that what you desire isn’t really yours yet simply because it hasn’t manifested physically. Instead of saying “I want”, practice saying “I AM”. I am loved, I am prosperous, I am successful, etc. Saying it in the present is full confidence that it’s yours already.

❌ “I will” - although you are confident and sure of getting/doing what you desire, “I will” can also indicate doubt or the possibility that you won’t. Again, saying “I am” is more presently active more so than “I will”.

Those are the top phrases I’ve avoided saying out loud, in writing, and in my mind. Of course, this takes practice to undo thinking patterns, but if you are presently aware it can help quite a bit! Feel free to add other things you’ve experienced that can slow the process 🔑 Happy manifesting! 💚

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the greatest skill a woman can learn for herself is self reliance

to clarify … so many strong women in my life rely on men. that dependence is dangerous. ladies here are some good ref resources I’ve found helpful on my journey towards self reliance

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this list is in no way comprehensive feel free to add on

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nerdgul

a lot of ‘man things’ are a lot easier than you think they are. especially considering the fact that most of these things when buying the parts come with directions on the packaging that men usually don’t even look at (and often end up doing it wrong because they were taught by fathers who also did not look at the packaging). 

like i recently had to change my car battery and freaked out cause i thought id electrocute myself but turns out new batteries come with directions and its the easiest shit in the world so long as you can lift the damn thing. 

so yeah, ladies dont ever feel like a man is a necessity for life, you can do this shit on your own its easier than you think!  

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archaeo-geek

I got lucky and my dad has taught me a lot, but I’ve also learned a lot from looking up directions online. I’ve got a hobby farm and do my own carpentry, roofing, plumbing and water system maintenance, basic electrical, minor appliance repairs, yard maintenance, chimney sweeping, tractor maintenance… ladies, it’s awesome to not have to call a guy to do something, and so much of this is a hell of a lot easier than some of the men in our lives might like us to believe! ;) 

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rendzina

over coffee with my mom this morning: “sometimes we hesitate to invite people into our life because we feel like our space isn’t good enough yet. things are a little messy, or our place settings don’t match, or our situation isn’t quite what we want it to be. don’t let that stop you. invite people in anyway.”

Round here acting like somebody promised y’all tomorrow.

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You are the Sun

You are the Sun

You are love and light personified in the human form Every firm you dim yourself Dumb it down Accept less Your light gets covered more and more I’ve had instances in which I’ve dimmed myself Coming in like a ray of sunshine Fine tuning myself to                                      Hopefully be accepted or even loved But it’s never worked any time Dimming and fine tuning         …

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Mellody Hobson is the president of Ariel Investiments, an investment fund that has more than $ 10 billion in assets; She is also the vice president of Starbucks Corporation; She is also an advisor to several brands. Hobson was born in Chicago, Illinois. She was educated at St. Ignatius College Prep high school, and subsequently attended Princeton University, graduating in 1991 with a Bachelor of Arts degree from Princeton's Woodrow Wilson School of Public and International Affairs. Mellody Hobson has also been married to filmmaker George Luccas since 2013, they have a daughter.
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Soft, Positive, Beautiful, Peaceful, calm black girls ... For 2021 how about learning about finance and start investing your hard-earned and rich money in things for your future. Luxury items are great, but having the money working while you sleep is the best solution. For 2021, put it in your head / heart that the best way to have real financial freedom is to have a diversified portfolio of investments (Real estate, health care, Oil and Gas, Pharmacy, Food and Beverage, Automobile industry, Bitcoin and etc. No think that to invest you need to have a lot of money, this is a myth, you can start with $ 10 and so on. Well all you need to do is start reading and studying to invest. And be patient because everything has its time and you you will not get rich tomorrow by investing lol ... Patience, Patience, Patience. Don't forget to do all this in silence, nobody in your circle needs to know. Be strategists.Don't save money to save only.Save and invest💸
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