No Off Switch

Ancient Egyptian stele depicting the god Amun-Ra as a man, goose, and ram.  Artist unknown; 25th (Nubian) Dynasty (ca. 700 BCE).  Found at Abydos; now in the Ägyptisches Museum, Berlin.

Amun-Ra (Finally did art outside of commissions haha)

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this is beyond stunning! Do you sell prints??

Here’s Amun and Sobek! Took me so long to get color palettes i liked for these boys. (the first draft of Amun was SO ugly trust me)

Due to financial hardships I have to part with this glorious AGI Amun.

Please help me find a good home for him

“Often [Legolas] took Gimli with him when he went abroad in the land, and the others wondered at this change”

Yesss :’)

wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims

no, seriously. victims of emotional abuse have it hard because they do not have the physical marks or the records to “prove” to someone they were hurt and are hurting. most people will not take emotional abuse as seriously as physical abuse, saying “you should get over it” or “sticks and stones”. thats fucking bullshit.

emotional abuse victims who have been forced to do or say or be things you never wanted to, i love you.

emotional abuse victims who have been gaslighted and manipulated to the point where you no longer know what is real, i care for you.

emotional abuse victims who are told they will never be loved by anyone else and they are not a good person, you are amazing.

emotional abuse victims who feel manipulative and often catch themselves mirroring actions of their abusers and feel sick to their stomachs because theyre “turning into them”, you are not them and never will be. you are so much better than that.

emotional abuse victims who have to live every day suffering because nobody understands how messed up you are from what they said or did or made you do, you arent alone.

anyone who reads this, i care for you. please support all victims of abuse every single day because they deserve it just like they deserve the love and care those in the past have failed to provide them

I really needed to read this and so do you.

Oh my god, thank you so much

friend who lives on the other side of the world: someone was mean to me today

me: want me to come beat them up for you

constantly torn between being seduced by a masked, gentlemanly thief in Victorian era England or being the masked, gentlemanly thief in Victorian era England

So true... Oh so true...

I found it on one of the many fan accounts on Instagram.

Reading about abusive men and the way they think. Very unsettling and an incredible book so far. Here are my very professional notes.

what book is this?

This is from “Why Does He DO That” by Lundy Bancroft.

I’m so glad I’m seeing more and more Lundy Bancroft quotes on my dash because this book CHANGES THE LIVES OF ABUSE VICTIMS. The programs run for rehabilitating abusive men through the courts? Bancroft DESIGNED THEM. His programs are replicated ALL OVER THE WORLD. He literally wrote THE book on abuser rehabilitation.

Here’s a link to a pdf copy. If you haven’t read this book yet, read this book.

Can we talk about how it seems like the entirety of the book is online on PDF, this making it accessible to anyone with an internet connection?

That is how we stop abuse.

We enable everyone to know what it looks like, so that when it happens, they can shut it down.

Arm yrself with knowledge!

Changed my life, would reccomend.

Reblogging for the PDF link.

—BB

Always reblogging because this isn’t just a partner abuse thing, this is a common abuse tactic PERIOD: Parents, siblings, bosses, general assholes, etc…

http://www.pdf-archive.com/2014/07/20/why-does-he-do-that/why-does-he-do-that.pdf

new link (the old one is broken)

Pretty sure I’ve reblogged this like eight times, don’t care.

Link to pdf

This is so incredibly hard hitting.

My ex had a psychotic break and destroyed things in the house (and a few other places) but the majority of things destroyed?

All mine. Incredibly important sacred things like religious icons, paintings that held the only good memory of my bio father, my tablet etc.

I cleaned and my other partner and a kind dollar general employee cleaned the mess.

Then I cleaned the mess with the other property damage

It wasn't random psychotic violence.

His PC was fine.

He broke his phone. That's it.

Please this is so important and I'm still dealing with it YEARS later.

my grave