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All the love. C

@allthingsharryyy / allthingsharryyy.tumblr.com

18. trying to get a life but also a writer on the side
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Understanding your Aquarius friends

In my opinion, AQUARIUS is the most misunderstood sign of the zodiac.

From the people I’ve spoken to and the things I’ve read, people tend to misread aquarius and don’t take the time to really figure them out (they’re tricky and extremely private people, you do have to make an effort to understand them, or else you’re just going to see their outer shell)

Here’s some things to keep in mind:

1). Space is important to them. These are not the kind of people who can spend all their time with others. At a certain point, they are going to need a break to collect their thoughts on their own. So don’t be surprised if they come across distant, especially when you first meet them. It really has nothing to do with the company they’re with, it’s more about needing time alone because they don’t want to lose theirselves in the company of others. Aquarius is one of the most independent signs, so needing constant human connection is simply not one of their traits. They are comfortable with distance and are comfortable maintaining relationships with people they do not see often.

2) An aquarius will not go out of their way to win over your affection when you clearly aren’t interested. Many people don’t realize how Aquarius fears rejection. They don’t want to be made to look like a fool, and they certainly do not want to look desperate. So if they know you aren’t interested, they are going to play it cool and act uninterested theirselves. This is why Aquarius can have trouble with commitment. They are only going to make a move if they are 100% comfortable with you and have an idea of what’s going through your head. If they don’t know, they won’t act. They will always prefer to appear unaffected and unbothered than lonely and desperate.  

3) The way to their heart is through their mind. You really want an aquarius to love you? Stimulate their mind. Aquarius loves to learn something new, and are drawn to people who can broaden their mental horizon. They are turned off by close minded individuals who are committed to remaining in their own bubble. Aquarius will appreciate flirting that is carefully worded and will really fall for the people who can carry meaningful, substantial conversation.

4) Their healthiest relationships start off as friendships. If you’re interested in an aquarius but are frustrated with their mixed signals (or lack their of), you should try being their friend first. Once they have a sense of who you are, they can trust you. Once they trust you, they can open up to you. And once they open up to you they will be much more willing to begin a relationship.

5) You need to be strategic if you want them to open up. The bottom line is aquarius is not the type to wear their heart on their sleeve and certainly not the type to express their feelings on their own. They will be turned away if you are insistant about wanting to know their feelings  (most times, they don’t even know their feelings!) So here’s what you do: be lowkey. Start an unrelated conversation and slowly bridge into what you want to know. Never out right ask aquarius what they’re feeling, but rather set the tone so that there’s an environment where an aquarius feels comfortable enough to make their emotions vocal. This will take time! Be patient. Be someone who is unjudgemental and unbiased. If they get the slightest idea that you will freak out about what they have to say, they won’t say anything at all.

I love aquarius even though they can be frustrating and aloof. They can be the outsiders on the zodiac because they aren’t afraid to be different– which often leads to them being misunderstood and neglected. But like every other sign, learning about their quirks can better your communication and relationships with them in the future.

This sums up everything about me. It couldn’t be any more true

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Can y’all help me? I’m stressing out

So I bought Harry tickets for the first show in LA at the Forum and I am in section 1 seats 2 and 3. Now my dilema is, is my seat closer to stage B or on the other end. The map on Ticketmaster is this

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Which says I’m on the closer side to stage B! And there’s other venues just like this but on others it’s like this

Idk which one it is and I need some help!!!!

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Reblog this or you wont meet Harry Styles

Ain’t taking no chances

Cant take any risks.

No rainchecks on this

Shit fuck shit

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colorstyles

gotta reblog y'all

the only time I’m doing this😂

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tokyoharry

i need to meet my husband

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“A man can’t be raped or abused by a woman-”

“Men are physically stronger than women so they can take abuse-”

I bet he enjoyed it-“

“Male rape is less common so it doesn’t matter-”

You’re not a true feminist if you address male problems too-“

They’re men. They’ll get over it-“

GIVE THIS MORE NOTES AND GIVE IT MORE NOTES RIGHT NOW

THIS NEEDS ATTENTION

I reblogged this two times in one day just because this post deserves to be seen.

no, they can not, this is something that everyone needs to know! Males can be just as scarred as females after abuse or rape!

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finehoney

im so ready to be in a relationship so whenever the universe is ready hmu with a keeper

i posted this yesterday then today this cute boy held my hand and now he is sending me memes

Reblog for love

i reblogged this yesterday and my crush kissed me today

I’ve been dating my boy for 2 years and today he sneezed directly on my face and got a booger on me :’) Love is just so beautiful

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Happiness Will Come To You.

when tho

When You Least Expect It. Probably Late March

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wizardshark

reblog for happiness to come for you in late march!

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Anonymous asked:

I used to have sex every single day since I started dating my boyfriend but I just got a new job and I’m working 8-5 and my boyfriend works until like 10/11 at night but I’m asleep by 9 because I’m so exhausted and now we haven’t had sex in two weeks and I think I’m gonna go insane this weekend I’m locking him in a room and doing it as much as we can in 48 hours

Omg I am so sorry 😂😂 hopefully you have the chance to do it soon hahaha

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I want to have this problem 😂

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okay y’all I need your help once again. So I have liked this guy for a while now, like almost a year, and recently over the summer I DMed him and asked about school and we stopped talking like three days after. He also found out that I liked him on the 4th of July and I thought it was over, like nothing was going to happen between us. Well he adds me on snapchat a couple days later and I freak out but then realize that nothing will happen. Well last Friday he snapchats me and I was at a party and he asks me to send him the address of the party and I do. When he gets there he keeps staring at me and when I walked by him he reaches his hands out and says my name and goes for a hug. Anyways we talk for a bit and then when he thought I left he left. We snapchatted a bit and his friend who is also my friend texts me saying why I didn’t go up to him and he was interested and he wanted to hook up with me. Anyways what I need help with is if I should snapchat him again today. The last time we snapchatted was on Wednesday because I didn’t know what to respond since it was his face and no caption so i left him on read. He is a very reserved and shy dude and I am just scared of him not being interested or just not responding back. If i should make a move what should I do? Please help 

So I need more advice, I haven’t talked to him since Thanksgiving when we wished each other a happy thanksgiving and that was it. I’m still really into him but we don’t talk at all anymore. Recently he hasn’t liked my pictures, but he’s at the top of my instagram story views about a week ago (it goes in the order of people who interact or view your profile the most) and his birthday was about a week ago but I didn’t wish him a happy birthday which was when it all started of him not viewing my story and liking my pictures. I’m not sure if I did something wrong by not wishing him a happy birthday or if he generally doesn’t care and wants nothing to do with me, but recently I’ve been wanting to start talking to him again but I don’t know if I should judging by his behavior. I need your guys’ advice on what I should do. Please help I know I’m stupid and young (19) but I don’t know what to do. PS HES ALSO A YEAR YOUNGER THAN ME

This is my side blog please help me out and give me advice

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I’m so mad because this worked

help me roger

Reblogging myself because… what was that? Five minutes?

O_O

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riskpig

………my friend has made me curious

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maryburgers

help me roger

Update: after I reblogged this someone messaged me offering me tickets to the sold out Hausu screening with a Q&A and autograph session with the director

let’s do it, roger

Roger helppppp

I need you Roger!

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