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lovely mural by the coffee shop this morning
Anonymous asked:
I have a question,
I was born female and have always used she/her pronouns, I am comfortable with the pronouns I use but sometimes I feel more masculine then feminine. What I mean is sometimes I want to like wear a binder or just appear like a man but I still want to use she/her pronouns no matter what 'gender' I want my appearance and body to seem like.
Is there a name for this??? I'm really struggling with already being bisexual since I can't really talk to my parents, so I just need some help with finding out my gender identity.
I'm no expert, but maybe gender non-conforming could fit you? I don't know how you feel, but this reads to me as more how you like to express gender - that is, you're a woman who likes to present as masculine sometimes. If so, then yeah, I would suggest GNC. GNC isn't usually a gender identity in itself; cis and trans people can identify as such :)
However if you feel this goes deeper into identity and not only do you feel more masculine sometimes, but more like a man (or less like a woman), I encourage you to look into nonbinary identities! As someone who doesn't necessarily identify that way, I don't feel I should give you any more advice on that subject, but there are plenty of people with more experience and articles by people who know more than me out there!
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God Loves His Lesbian Children (Digital Media, 2023) by salmonbyte
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Billy Lane, winner of the Seattle Mr. Leather contest in 1998 and first trans man to compete in the International Mr. Leather contest.
Hey! i'm a feminist/sapphic positivity blog. Would you do a promo for me? :)
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This is Ash and I (she’s on the right). The first picture ever taken of us and one of the last.
She failed her first year of uni the first time around, and God am I glad she did. Because that meant she was held back and joined my class. We immediately hit it off and had a friendship based on taking the piss out of each other, bitching about other people, and laughter.
The last time I saw her was the day of that second photo in July. We had a tearful bawling goodbye, slow-dancing to some pop song in a nightclub. The same club the first picture is from, actually, the first place we met. I will regret for the rest of my life not making more of an effort to speak and meet up with her after uni. We spoke a little and had some plans, but I’d often leave it a long time to respond (as I do with everyone) and the plans just never happened. The last we spoke was in January. Never in my life did I think I wouldn’t see her again.
I can’t do anything to change what’s happened. I just needed to let out a fraction of what I’m feeling, because this vortex of emotion inside me is confusing and suffocating and it just hurts so much.
Her family is trying to raise money for her funeral. A 23-year-old healthy woman isn’t exactly a funeral you prepare for. Please, please donate and share if you can.
Rest in peace, Ash. I love you. Always.
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I’ve made a couple posts about my friend who died. Her name was Ashleigh, or Ash. Ashers, as I’ve recently found out some of her family called her.
She was 23, this obviously came as a massive shock. Her family is trying to raise the funeral costs. She was such a unique, amazing, hilarious, beautiful, and loving girl - she really does deserve an @ashmazinglyonfire send-off.
Please share or donate if you can.
i know this isn’t positive but hey, this lgbt+ star was positively fantastic. she brightened my life and the world around her.
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I’ve made a couple posts about my friend who died. Her name was Ashleigh, or Ash. Ashers, as I’ve recently found out some of her family called her.
She was 23, this obviously came as a massive shock. Her family is trying to raise the funeral costs. She was such a unique, amazing, hilarious, beautiful, and loving girl - she really does deserve an @ashmazinglyonfire send-off.
Please share or donate if you can.
i know this isn't positive but hey, this lgbt+ star was positively fantastic. she brightened my life and the world around her.
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Valentine's Day questions BE NOSY PLEASE
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
3: Longest relationship you’ve ever been in?
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
7: Have you ever cheated?
8: Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating?
9: What’s the most important part of a relationship?
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on “breaks”?
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
13: What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
15: Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”?
16: Do you believe in “love at first sight”?
17: Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
19: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
23: How many relationships have you had?
24: Do you think love can last forever?
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
29: What do you notice first about another person?
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
33: Do you want to get married one day?
34: What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed?
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
36: Are you still a virgin?
37: What’s more important: Looks or personality?
38: Do you enjoy love films?
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
41: What’s your imagination of a “perfect date”?
42: Have you ever read “Romeo & Juliet”?
43: What’s more important: Your partner or your friends?
44: Would you consider yourself “romantic”?
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
46: Have you ever been “friendzoned”?
47: Which “famous couple” is your favorite?
48: What’s your favorite love song?
49: Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
50: If you’re single, why do you think you are?
51: Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag or someone who’s poor but a nice guy?
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
53: Are you jealous of couples when you’re single?
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
55: Would you consider yourself “clingy”, “overly attached” or “jealous”?
56: Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship?
57: x
58: Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” part in a relationship?
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary?
60: What’s your opinion on open relationships?
61: Who’s more important: Your partner or your family?
62: How do you define “cheating”?
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
64: Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated?
65: Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”?
Please ask!!
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i hope every lgbt person has a good valentines day :)
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✨💕happy valentine’s day everyone~ 💕✨
happy lgbt history month!
i'm so thankful for all those who came before us and all that they did.
know that our future shines!
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happy anniversary of Gay Mac
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hello everyone, just so you all know, your local bi blog runner has a paypal and a ko-fi now due to hefty money struggles (unemployed even though i’m applying for jobs daily… i soon won’t be able to pay rent). i’d appreciate your support! i’d be up for doing something in return too, whether that’s generating more content, more specific content… you let me know. thank you!
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Gay culture is being just a little bit in love with all your friends
It’s what they deserve
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