Do YOU Still Believe in Twin Flames?
Because I’m not sure if I do.
I followed this movement for 2 or 3 years, maybe longer unconsciously. But the more I was getting into communities the darker the energy got.
I kept seeing women who every time they saw 22:22 or alike it meant to them their twin flame is thinking of them, or they are closer, or whatever they wanted to tell themselves. Many were suffering because they were anticipating something “promised” from the heavens that might never arrive. (at least not in the form they were expecting it to)
The twin flame community was resembling awfully a cult at one point. There was always a leader, a guru, someone who was already in union, or if not, they claimed they knew a lot. I’m not saying it’s a bad thing, I know sometimes people do it out of pure good will, and just desire to help others. I get that, very well.
But this wasn’t working for everyone. It wasn’t producing the results people wanted to see.
Was it completely useless then? I wouldn’t say. It challenged many people to heal from unhealthy tendencies and forced them to heal wounds from the past. It did the same for me. It healed me. Just that. I’m still single, no union or near it, lol.
I don’t know if twin flames are something real or if they exist, I don’t even know if I’ve experienced it, or made certain people and events “fit the picture”. I don’t know anything about this journey. But I do know one thing. It led me to me.
It taught me how to love myself more and how to love others even more. How to appreciate any moment for what is given. It made me comfortable in my own skin. Confident in my own demons and flaws.
Maybe the twin flame concept was just an utopia, because lets face it, it’s hard to witness healthy relationships. There is always some form of abuse, lying, cheating and betrayal. That’s the most common picture we get. We didn’t want to experience that, yet somehow we did the most with this twin flame trial.
The thing is, it was silly to preach about twin flames (myself included) because no one knew anything about it. We were just speculating and trying to make sense of something that made no logical sense. One thing is for sure, there is masculine and feminine. Within all. That’s all I know and am certain about.
But are we part of the same soul? Are unions imminent? Are we promised this heavenly union? Do we even have a counterpart? All of us? Or it’s only for the chosen ones? I don’t know.
I just don’t know. It appears to be God’s will, even for someone as logical as me. The more I look for answers, the less I find them.
I’d love to hear your stories and opinions. It was a long journey.