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Zeal | they/he, some lesser known species of boydyke girlfag, 20s | about

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mostly: resident evil, the locked tomb, bg3, ffxiv, dbd

please dnf if under 18 tyvm

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yaoiboypussy

“Trans men are pressured to be feminine” “No trans men are pressured to be masculine”

Actually I think trans men are pressured to be cis and that no matter what way we present some cis people will treat us poorly. I think it’s weird how y’all act like transphobes treat any trans men well.

Like yes feminine trans men are treated differently than masculine trans men - I’m not denying that. But sometimes it feels like y’all act like trans men’s masculinity is treated well when it just isn’t.

Trans men presenting in anyway are gonna be treated poorly because people don’t have a problem with how we present - people have a problem with us being trans.

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dredsina

Ive said this before but swear the biggest skill to learn as an adult is how to resist high-pressure sales tactics. You do NOT have to answer questions with anything other than "Sorry I'm not interested." No matter how nice they are or no matter how many follow up questions they ask or even how agitated they get when you stand your ground. Just keep saying I'm not interested. Don't answer their questions. Don't give them an opening to try to push back on your reasons. Be a fucking brick wall of I'm not interested.

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hpdfag

i might be doing really terrible on the emotional regulation front but in my defense ive had a gaping hole in my chest since i was 12

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