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Eyes like a starless Void

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They hurt you. You will likely carry that for a long time. It wasn’t fair. You’re allowed to say that.

I get so tired of people who respond with “life’s not fair,” or “you’re letting them win by holding onto the past.”

Yes, it’s important to move on and not let it run your life, but it still wasn’t fair. And sometimes, we need to let that out.

Denying us that or making us feel bad about that is very invalidating. It’s okay to be angry, sad or whatever else and acknowledge the wrong that was done to you.

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Theodore Roethke, from "What Can I Tell My Bones", The Collected Poems of Theodore Roethke [ID'd]

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Lack of Empathy starters

"Why is everyone so upset about that?" "Crying won't bring them back. Move on already." "I don't understand why you're so worked up over a simple mistake. Get over it." "Honestly, I can't be bothered to care about what others feel." "Why are you looking at me like that? It's not my problem if they're hurting." "I heard their sob story, but I just couldn't bring myself to care." "You expect me to sympathize with them? That's a waste of energy." "They're making such a fuss over nothing." "Empathy is a weakness. I don't have time for weakness." "You're upset, but it's not my responsibility to make you feel better." "I don't care how it affects them. I'll do what I want, regardless." "Stop being so sentimental. It's a dog-eat-dog world, and I'm just surviving." "Why bother with their feelings? It won't change anything in the end." "Feelings are a distraction. I focus on what needs to be done." "I don't get why you're making such a big deal out of this. Move along." "Sympathy is for the weak. I'm not wasting my time on that." "I don't care if they're happy or sad. It's irrelevant to me." "Empathy is a luxury I can't afford. I'm here to succeed, not to feel." "Why should I care about their feelings? It's none of my business."

[IGNORE] The sender witnesses the receiver crying but continues with their activities, showing no concern. [DISMISS] The sender hears about the receiver's struggles but brushes it off as unimportant. [MINIMIZE] The sender downplays the significance of a traumatic event, failing to acknowledge its impact. [INVALIDATE] The sender responds to the receiver's emotional expression with dismissive remarks, invalidating their feelings. [NEGLECT] The sender is aware of the receiver's suffering but neglects to offer any support or comfort. [BELITTLE] The sender mocks or belittles the receiver for expressing vulnerability or emotional pain. [EXPLOIT] The sender exploits the emotional vulnerabilities of the receiver for personal gain.

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Anonymous asked:

"Breed You" ~ Made-Defective

PROMPT ( accepting )

❝ What!

The abrupt request surprised the ravenhead and made their gaunt cheeks blush.

❝ I mean... I'm not opposed to it ❞ They stammered on their words, and getting as red as a lobster. They tried lots of fucked up things in bed together already but this was definitely a first one.

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They're blushing? Cute. Honestly, he's a little flustered himself, he'd thought about this plenty, but hadn't acted on it. Nor talked much about it, it had been a struggle. He'd been ready to believe he'd never want to fulfill his 'purpose' ever again. But...Eerie made him want more than a few things he'd been ready to abandon and forget. Love and friendship being a large part of it.

He steps closer, placing his hand on their hips. Rubbing soothing circles with his thumbs, for her and himself.

"...ya sure, love? I... this is tha kinda shit I was literally made fer. If we do this, it'd be a miracle if ya didn't get knocked up. An.... honestly not too long ago tha' thought woulda freaked me out. ...but I want this with ya. Jus' you. It ain't got much ta do wit heat. I love ya, an ya make me want all kindsa shit I nevah woulda thought I'd want or need eva again."

He gives them a soft kiss on the lips, then forehead.

"...but I can wait if ya need. It's yer call, honey. It'd be th hardest on yer body."

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Bigtop Burger season 2 sentence starter

25 starters

  1. « i hope nobody dies. »
  2. « you look great buddy! »
  3. « you're one tricky bitch. »
  4. « i brought you a little… gift. »
  5. « COOL, I DON'T EAT FOOD!! »
  6. « why do they hate us so much? »
  7. « YEAH!! ENJOY!! BON APETTIT! »
  8. « am i losing my goddamn minds? »
  9. « we got a man down, a good man!! »
  10. « i'm sure my reputation preceeds me. »
  11. « GET. UP. You're EMBARRASSING ME!! »
  12. « i'm gonna miss you guys so much. not. »
  13. « i have decided to make peace with you. »
  14. « i didn't know that! i didn't know that part! »
  15. « no, it's… weird. definitely weird. and potentially illegal! »
  16. « i don't mean to spy on him, i just thought it was weird. »
  17. « don't listen to a WORD they say, they're all theatre majors! »
  18. « i will crash this butch mechanism into an embankment wall!! »
  19. « can't we- can't we just get along? this seems… a bit much, right? »
  20. « i could swear you said something about it being "THE DAY I DIE". »
  21. « we need two spots- we need THREE SPOTS, this is a BIG automobile. »
  22. « the boss says we got to act EVIL and WICKED when we're on the clock. »
  23. « i don't make the calls for who's a MENACE, but you've been on our radar for a looong time! »
  24. « i've grown old and infirmed. i'm… ancient now. i'm different. i'm older. i'm peaceful. i'm an old hag. »
  25. « if you guys don't look as weird as me then i'm going to stick out like a horshoe crab in a freshwater environment. »
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