I get to leave school early the week before my final exams. It feels good to be on the number 3 bus again, like I am home. The sun is out and the air seems almost warm enough to take of my leggings from under my shorts. The first real push of summer after it snowed on May Day.
I am on my way to my wilderness guiding company, and like I do often, I am reflecting on how strange it is that I always find myself there. My life goes in circles. At fifteen I have my first “coming of age” experience, do something that none of my friends are doing, and six years later I am back in that place. Guides led me across the stones at Itasca State Park where the Mississippi starts; six years later I am the guide, bringing other 15-year-olds over the same rocks.
The guiding company warehouse felt like home when I first saw it–everything open and big and ready for adventure. I feel this way now. I hope the feeling stays in me the way it has stayed in the warehouse, with its cedar-strip boats and oldies playing on the ancient mounted speakers on the walls.
My bus crosses the Mississippi River on the Washington Avenue bridge and there is a stone in my stomach. We cross the Mississippi River and I am suddenly reminded of its power over me. We cross the Mississippi River and the river never even sees us. It wouldn’t care, even if it could.
A week ago, Chris, a coworker, was swept over Saint Anthony Falls. No one has seen him since. They are doing a foot search along the riverbanks on Friday, his friends from the University and his family. I will probably be at the warehouse, seeing him between the shelves–bright neon hat that we all wear, braces on his teeth bared in a genuine smile. Another coworker, a park ranger, wrote a piece more eloquent than I ever could. I think, I wrote a book about someone who disappeared; I can rest my voice. I can stay quiet about this one.
But I can’t, no more than I can keep my silence about Wade, a poet and friend of mine in Austin, Texas who killed himself days after I learned about my coworker being lost in the water. And Joe himself, subject of the only book I will probably ever write, his ghost seeming to get stronger the closer we get to the day of his death. They stand somewhere inside my head, and every time I turn to greet them, I find that they have just left.
On Friday, I get to paddle the river for the first time since October, and in another life, Chris will be in the backs of our canoes with us, his stern paddle proving his power over the water, at least for a while.
On Saturday, it will be a year without Joe, and my best friend and I will spray paint the walls of the overpass until we feel better. My boyfriend and I will walk around his neighborhood until the sun comes up. In another life, Joe will be laughing at us and shouting obscene suggestions about what to draw, will be walking with us and deciding which way we should go in the dark.
In less than two weeks, I’ll be in Austin, where I once stood on the tiny balcony of Wade’s apartment and could stare straight at the capitol building down the street. In another life, Wade will be there with his baseball cap on backwards and a cigarette to lend me, if I want it.
One day I will stop coming back to the rocks in the river. There will be new teenagers crossing its head, new guides making sure they don’t slip on the rocks. Chris will still be laughing on the river. Joe will still be grinning somewhere in a tree. In a bar in Austin, Wade will be having a drink with his fake ID. Time will flow on without them, until it has swept over them enough that they will be sand, and no one will remember their names.
No one but the river. Nothing but the stones.