the dothraki thoughts on family hold slightly differently to the western ones, but these are more my thought relating more specifically to drogo and his experiences because i can only really speak on that. his father was KHAL. it is not a spoken rule that a son will follow father to the lead, and is only employed when the son is strong himself, but it is expected. he grew up knowing that he would prove himself, that he would be a great warrior to follow on and he would lead. his father was hard. he pressed steel into his son’s hand and taught him to fight, but he also gifted him his first horse and told him that he thought their people could be more with the right leader. his father died older than most khals. he kept winning battles to the end with his son right by his side. his mother is DOSH KHALEEN, and he thinks of her with pride. she was soft and she whispered words of who he would be to him and he never knew belief like he saw in her eyes. she had visions of who he would be and pressed leadership into his mind so he knew who he would be. his mother is wise. she leads with pride and intelligence and when he is in vaes dothrak he sits with her and asks for her advice. she leads him and he leads his people. his sister is GONE. they never expected her anyway and she was born sickly but he loved her enough to make up for it. his father would not look at her. his mother could not hold her tight enough, and the little drogo watched as she came and faded from this world. he still thinks of her. there is a mare with her name that he cannot bear to look at some days and he thinks about her whenever another girl is born to them. here and then gone in six days, and a lifetime on his mind. his bloodriders give LIFE. they are the brothers that he never had and the only family he holds close around him now. a warrior’s life is filled with danger and he knows he will watch them fade from the world one day, they cannot stay forever with steel in their hands. he rides with them and laughs with them and there are days when they see his fears. they say he is a good khal, and he thinks that he could only be that with people by his side.