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Don't Be Afraid

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Sick list of symptoms bro. Now try humanizing your behavior instead of pathologizing it.

Pathologizing: Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive.

Humanizing: Hey, I’m sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didn’t mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me.

Not sure if these guys want to be tagged but everybody in the notes is elaborating much better than I could.

The first behavior (whether you like it or not) can make the other person feel distant from you. (“Oh. Huh. I don’t have that symptom so I guess I could never understand…”)

Whereas describing your thoughts and feelings makes the other person feel connected to you. (“That’s an experience I’ve had before, I’ve definitely made a similar mistake.”)

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mystery-ink

the first behaviour also tips very easily into the mindset of "my brain does this and I cannot change my reactions" which can become "my behaviour is not my fault because of my condition" you are still responsible for your reactions even if your brain makes emotions more extreme and difficult to break out of and describing your emotional journey to your reaction instead of just shortcutting by blaming a symptom will absolutely help others understand you better

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trigunfanart

AT SAKURACON TODAY STUDIO ORANGE SAID SEASON 3'S EXISTANCE DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH ATTENTION TRIGUN STAMPEDE GETS

SO PLEASE

SHARE YOUR CRUNCHYROLL OR HULU ACCOUNT WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY, GET MORE PEOPLE INTERESTED

ORGANIZE ONLINE WATCH PARTIES

RECOMMEND IT ON EVERY PLATFORM AND IN EVERY CHATROOM

TALK ABOUT IT NON STOP ON SOCIAL MEDIA

GIVE IT HIGH RATINGS AND REVIEWS ON IMDB, ROTTEN TOMATOS, COMMON SENSE MEDIA, AND ON CRUNCHYROLL.

SHARE THE FREE 1ST EPISODE OF STAMPEDE OFF CRUNCHYROLL'S YOUTUBE PAGE, THEY HAVE SUBBED AND DUBBED!

POST CROSSOVER FAN ART AND WRITE CROSS OVER FICS, AND COMMISSION POPULAR ARTISTS, TO GET ATTENTION FROM OUTSIDE THE FANDOM

COSPLAY AS THE STAMPEDE CHARACTERS, GET OTHER ANIME FANS TO NOTICE HOW MANY OF US ARE CHOOSING TO COSPLAY THAT ANIME SPECIFICALLY, "MUST BE POPULAR IF THEY'RE ALWAYS DRESSING UP AS IT HUH?"

IT IS POPULAR ACTUALLY! BUT WE WANT IT TO KEEP THE MOMENTUM GOING MAYBE EVEN GROWING

REBLOG THIS POST. REPOST THIS POST. DO WHAT YOU GOTTA DO.

I BEG

This plea is so frustrating and disheartening.

I am biased because I love Trigun, but also Trigun Stampede is objectively good.

It breaks my heart that it’s not getting the attention it deserves. The creators have poured SO much love and attention and effort into this adaptation. It is one of the most thoughtful, well-executed series I have seen in a long time.

If you haven’t seen it yet, I highly, HIGHLY encourage you to carve out 23 minutes of your day and give the first episode a go. The show absolutely slaps right out of the gate. The first episode has so much character, you will fall in love immediately.

I’m really tired of high-quality shows that I’m in love with getting tossed in the bin because they’re not immediately huge commercial successes. I don’t want to see that happen to Stampede. It’s too good.

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