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are you sure...?

@arevousure / arevousure.tumblr.com

this is where you ought to be
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y’all will call healthy coping methods ableist (going outside & getting fresh air, cleaning your room, taking a shower, journaling) but then say lashing out at your partner or friends is an okay coping method so do you ACTUALLY want to get better or do you just want an excuse to be an asshole

I just want an excuse to be an asshole and see who still wants to stay bcz fake friends yknow. 💁🏻‍♀️

In that situation, you’re the fake friend. If you actually gave a shit about your ‘real friends’ you wouldn’t abuse them lmao.

I will say it as much as I need to hon.

YOUR FRIENDS ARE NOT OBLIGATED TO STAY YOUR FRIEND IF YOU ARE BEING AN ASS BECAUSE AT THAT POINT THEY ARE MAKING A DECISION THAT IS BEST FOR THEM, FUCK Y’ALL LMAO.

Like you wouldn’t stay if someone was being an ass to you, and if you do you’re subjecting yourself to shit you don’t need to. They don’t need to subject themselves to it either. Better on them for leaving lol

There is a real culture of “I’m going to abuse people and they better stay or else they’re ableist/selfish/fake friends, etc” and it’s vile

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appreciation post for myself because i have tolerated myself for every second of my existence

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