Have you ever felt like you weren’t enough? Your boyfriend broke up with you, and now won’t even acknowledge your presence. There’s a guy who likes you at work but he’s in a relationship and you can’t really pursue anything with him. Your friends won’t hang out with you, or even fucking text you, unless you initiate it. Your coworkers are treating you like shit. You’re being overworked and underappreciated at your job. You’re not even good enough for yourself. You’re too fat, you’re too ugly, you’re not enough.

Why am I not enough? Why am I always second choice? Why am I always settling for second best? What’s so fundamentally wrong with me that I can’t do anything right? Why am I so fucked up? Why does everyone I know want to use me? I just don’t understand anything. I’m just a quick easy fuck to some, an annoyance to others and literally nothing to everyone else. I just want to be enough.

I just want to be enough for myself, is that too much to ask?

10 Things I Hate About You (1999)

Cameron James & Patrick Verona

in case anyone else needs to hear this it’s ok to be more serious. i don’t just mean ‘it’s ok to be serious sometimes’ i mean in general. not everyone has to be funny. it doesn’t have to mean you’re sad or unlikeable. you can just be serious and genuine most of the time and that’s great. i personally think that we’re too focused on ‘funny’ as the primary carrier of likeability right now. i often feel starved for serious conversation, for serious spaces, for a feeling of gravity. you don’t have make good jokes to give people a good time. i say, goof only as the spirit moves you, & don’t worry about it. 

i believe in the healing properties of just laying down in ur bed n rotting

lmaoooooo so a video popped up on my TikTok of a story time of some guy trying to buy his wife tampons and some woman going up to him thinking he was a trans man saying, “see? you’ll always be a woman!”

and he turned to the woman like “I’m buying tampons for my wife because I’m a good fucking husband. do you think if they were for me, I’d look this lost about where the brand is she wants?” he shut her up so fast lmfao. and she walked away looking pale and teary because transphobic people always have to play the victim.

(but also this is what I mean when I say transphobia can affect anyone and being transphobic literally takes over your mind. you cannot think critically at all about anything to do with gender or sex and anyone diverting from the image you have of how things are in your black and white world view is automatically The Enemy)

I hope she’s learned to keep her mouth shut and mind her own damn business

Thinking about how my mom tried to “seduce” my dad when they were in college together by sneaking oranges into his backpack, because she grew up food insecure and feeding someone/sharing food was a big deal with her upbringing with a lot of emotional meaning–

and meanwhile my poor dad is just convinced that he’s been haunted by some citrus poltergeist because why the fuck are there always oranges in his bag he swears he did not put there???

the comments on this tiktok… the unity… the commitment to the bit…. women are so sexy

The immediate unspoken agreement to gaslight every man who sees this is truly incredible

reverse gaslighting where i pretend to know exactly what you are talking about

When you reshuffle the cards, hoping for a better reading outcome, and the deck spits out different cards that essentially mean the same thing-

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ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME

*clicks play in morbid curiosity*

*hammers reblog button*

I think I find this post every April Fools Day and I am so happy that I do

On top of the Yankees field cat there was a praying mantis on top of the nationals players hat tonight. Huge night in baseball

He was keeping the mantis updated on the number of outs, too

Ratatouille

@nadjasloverboy exactly

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a lot of young girls need to realize that keeping friendships alive gets so hard after high school/uni and that you have to actively nurture your friendships if you want them to last yes even the friendships of 2 decades….. your 20s are so disorienting and trauamtizing no one can afford to take friendships for granted… everybody worries about not finding a romantic partner lets start worrying about being friendless by the time you hit 30

This is a real issue I feel we’re not focusing on enough. Friendships are such a crucial relationship because they are separate from “family“ meaning you can choose who your friends are! That commitment to friendship will definitely save yo in the times you’ll need it the most