i honestly love adhd friendships??? infodump abt ur hyperfixation, interrupt each other and detour high-energy conversations 30 times, yesssss!!!

i understand when ur 13 and u just realized u have a mental illness and ur so relieved to know there are other ppl going thru the same thing as u, its easy to slip into the idea that your newly labeled thoughts and behaviors are normal and okay.

they are not. suicidal thoughts arent normal. violent impulses arent normal. delusions and hallucinations arent normal.

now that you have a name for this behavior you need to seek help. dont let tumblr trick you into thinking unhealthy coping mechanisms are the only ways to deal with your mental illness. dont let it fester, dont let it worsen. seek as much help as you can. actively try to better yourself.

Billion Dollar Man Masterlist

beautiful banner done by the beautiful @rotisserierogers 

Summary: Sugar Daddy AU - After mounting bills and debt cause you to look at alternative means of making money, you’re thrown into a whole different kind of life when one of the most famous billionaires on the block offers to be your sugar daddy, of course in exchange for a different from of payment. 

Tony Stark x Reader

Warnings: NSFW (+18 Only), Language, Sugar Daddy/Baby Relationship

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Does anyone else have like 5+ tabs of different fanfiction open and it gets to the point of when you finally go back to one of the older ones you have no idea what’s going on? Cause this is me. All the time. I need help.

I need to know if there are still good marvel fans.

So reblog if you don’t hate tony

Reblog if you love tony, steve and Bucky

Reblog if you also love Wanda.

Reblog if you’re starting to wish that civil war never happened so everyone can be happy again.

If you see this on your dash, it’s too late

((Reblog or Halloween won’t be celebrated. If you reblog this in 50 seconds, you’ll have the best Halloween and be blessed by the spoopy skeleton gods.))

((This skeleton will also break all chain mail or reblog or die posts and you’ll live a happy life.))

i feel like someone’s done this already but whatever

y’know how Pepper broke up with Tony right 

and how the avengers kinda left

his godfather betrayed him and left him to die

Yinsen died

and how Tony never really said goodbye to his mother

have you considered that the main theme of Tony’s story isn’t his redemption

but abandonment? 

Why are you doing this to me?

(finally, this post came back in from the cold.) 

Howard died, and left him with a legacy Tony had no choice but to preserve

Obadiah betrayed him, left Tony with trust issues and a literal hole in his heart

Yinsen sacrificed himself and forced Tony to live with that guilt

Pepper, one of the few close relationships he had, left Tony with a bad taste in his mouth, because if she couldn’t handle him, who could?

Steve, the man he grew up being compared to, lied to him and left him in the cold

And yet

Tony made the Stark Industries far more successful than Howard ever could

Tony didn’t break - not the way Obadiah expected

Tony became Iron Man, someone Yinsen could be proud of

Tony kept going 

Abandonment was Tony’s origin story, but rising from the ashes is something he’s always been good at 

Tony is a phoenix. I wish I could art so I could draw Tony as a phoenix. 

The first part of this post gutted me.

The second part sewed me back together.

@digdipper09 I love your art, so could you draw Tony as a Phoenix?

But like imagine when we’re all old and it’s like 2060 and they start remaking all the “old/classic” marvel movies. I’m gonna be the old lady shaking my fist at the screen saying they’re not as good as the originals.

ADHD (in a poem)

Always tired Always moving Usually trying Usually losing

Always thinking Seldom tracking Usually speaking Rarely practically

Always surrounded Always overwhelmed Seldom toned down Never calmed

Few who know Few who care Sometimes gone Sometimes aware

Never in the know Usually out Seldom alone Always lonely

good job everyone

we’re doing great guys keep it up

we’re doing amazing sweeties

We are doing fucking amazing 

PSA if you’re medicated or are new to medication: do not stop medicating cold turkey without supervision from your psychiatrist or without letting them know you’d like to quit. these things need to be done gradually, doing it abruptly can fuck you up really, REALLY bad, long term. please please please don’t be reckless about your mental health.

don’t sleep on this post and spread it if you can because it’s a good way to send your brain into a frenzy.

in school/at work: can’t cope because it’s all too much, too many things craving attention, longing for some sweet alone time without school/work: can’t cope because no schedule, also Boredom™, if i spend one more minute alone doing nothing i’ll lose it

That point in a piece of fanfiction where you can tell something embarrassing is about to happen so you start fucking around on tumblr because you’re a huge baby with a crippling overabudance of empathy.

I do this with every media I consume. I pause movies and have to walk around and prepare myself for second-hand embarrassment sometimes.

This is mE

Secondhand embarrassment. I’ve got it. 

I sometimes mute movies or tv shows to avoid it. Especially if I know it’s coming. 

I TOTALLY DO THIS.

if you read this you’re cute no take backs

ADHD Problems

-People telling you to ‘Calm down, this isn’t you’ when you’re off your medicine(YEAH, THEN WHO AM I? WHO AM I IF I’M NOT ME?!?!)

-Your family mistaking your medicine’s side effects for personality traits(Picky eating, trouble sleeping, anxiety attacks, depression, ext.)

-Trying to read when all the words look like scribbles

-People asking if you have OCD, Dyslexia, or Autism

-Unable to focus at the slightest colorful movement or anything out-of-the-norm.

-People telling you to ‘Shut up’ before you even start speaking simply cause they know you talk alot

-People who think ADHD is fake

-Walking into a room and forgetting what you’re doing

-Side Effects of Medicine

-Identity issues after years on personality-changing medicine

-Unable to organize thoughts

-People who think ADHD is fake

-Useless advice from people who don’t have ADHD(just organize better! Focus harder! Try harder! You grow out of it! Use an agenda!)

-People who don’t understand mental disorders come in different forms for each person

-Lost friends from medicine side effects

-People who think ADHD is fake

-Doing something I don’t want to physically hurts

-Crying in frustration when no matter how hard you try, your brain is jumping from one thought to another too fast to register anything, your eyes are moving to fast to read more than jumbled scribbles, your ears picking up too much noise and too many sounds too fast to actually hear anything. The saying Jack of all trades, master of none? It’s applicable right here. Basically, you’re hypersensitive to everything to the point your brain can’t keep up with itself.