I don’t post it often but I love you @ygcutie @lz-01 @letmeshowyouwhatloveis @kpopfan-antics @weiwei-mepgoreg

I love you too woah wkdksksb ;-;

self care is eating mangos

I hate mangoes

oh die then

Actually now I’m angry about this I’m gonna say something. I’m sick and tired of blatant transphobia in this fandom. I’m sick and tired of watching Babyz deliberately misgender B.A.P as a joke. Himchan isn’t your queen or princess, and saying stuff like that as a joke boils down to you thinking that there is something inherently funny about feminine men, or calling people you perceive to be men with female honorifics. Youngjae isn’t ‘pretty enough to be a girl’ or ‘prettier than you despite him being a man’. He’s a pretty man. Men can be pretty. It’s basic fucking biology and social constructs. Men come with all bodies and structures and they can be pretty and they’re still men. 

And I don’t know where you all got off using images of Daehyun’s cross-dressing stage to send to your friends like ‘isn’t she pretty?’ then use it like a big prank when your friend said yes and you got be like ‘ITS A BOY HAHAHAHA!!!! NOW YOU’RE GAY!!!’. Cool thanks you’ve just shown me exactly where you stand on transgender women and how much respect you have for them, as well as how much you think being gay/bi/etc is some kind of embarrassment. 

it’s nice you all get to parade around making jokes about boys in dresses without any repercussions but the rest of us are mocked, beaten, abandoned and murdered because of your shitty attitude. You don’t get to call yourself ‘tolerant’ (already a bullshit phrase) or ‘open-minded’ (also bullshit) or an ‘ally’ if you consider any of us unworthy of basic human respect. You can’t claim you know that society is fucked when you encourage the fucked up aspects of society. You don’t get to be counter-culture while still upholding the prejudices mainstream culture has.

if you read this and think I’m overreacting you can unfollow and block me right now because people like you lead to the violence acted against me and the people in my community. You’re why there’s a closet. 

This applies for every single fucking fandom and person on earth

Things to cherish: Jung Daehyun putting his vulnerable, fragile heart (and soul) into everything that he does - and then sharing it all with us

Unpopular opinion but I‘m actually really glad that Jongup doesn‘t upload as often because that’s what he seems to be comfortable with. I‘m happy that he respects his own boundaries, stays true to himself and doesn‘t cave in under the pressure from outside to upload more selfies. Personally, I‘m just grateful if he uploads when he feels like it, no matter what it is. If he uploads a picture of the new apartment or shoes he got, I‘m happy with that, because he‘s sharing a piece of his life, his every day life, with us, because he shares something with us that he clearly cares about. It’s his way of bonding with us. That actually almost does more for me than a selfie; if I wanna see his face, I can go back to thousands of fantakens and live performances.

Right now, I feel the need to write. I’ve been writting all day. And I want the people who I care about or the people I dont know, to be okay. This is an open letter to Yongguk. Because I’m still worried. I want you to know that no matter what happens in the future, we will be here. We care. Your health is important. The most important, physically and mentally. If you’re having a bad day, please talk with someone about it. Dont suffer in silence. No one will judge you. You are so important. And you deserve to be happy, healthy, with peace in your mind. If you notice that being in front of the cameras is getting harder, please talk with someone about it, we will understand. I hope you’ll never force yourself into doing this you’re not comfortable with. And not stress yourself over things you’ve no control over. You are so loved. And all your feelings are valid. And please, know that it’s okay if you feel too much sometimes. Or if you have a hard day. Do more of the things that help you heal, the things that make you happy… If you haven’t yet found what truly makes you happy, I do hope you’ll continue to search for it. Some days might be hard and overwhelming, but remember that it’s okay. Everything will be okay. And there are people who care and will help you. You are so brave! Im so proud of you. I hope you know that. I know im not close to you or someone important in your life, but even as a stranger, I want you to know that everything will be okay. That however you’re feeling is okay. That I hope you’ll never be ashamed of your feelings. We understand that you’re a human being and have feelings like everyone and suffer. And I want you to know that it’s okay. Treat yourself. Take days off. Do the things that heal you. We understand. If you need to take your time, please do it. We undertand. We’ll have your back and we’ll wait for you. I have so much respect for you. And you’re so brave. I hope you know that. I’m so grateful for all you do for bap, for babyz, for all the music you’ve done. You inspire me. But I’ll never take that for granted, never. Please, be free to be yourself, to feel, to heal. And cherish the good days. I care. And you are not alone. Not now, not never. It’s all okay.