Archive. Moved to @widowsdarling

Alright yeah. I set up a new blog to test how it would feel and I'm already infinitely more comfortable with the new vibes over there and having much more fun. So I'm gonna commit to a blog move! I'll start refollowing mutuals soon but otherwise if you wanna beat me there and join me in my move feel free to follow me over on my new blog @widowsdarling!! I hope to see you there!!

Alright yeah. I set up a new blog to test how it would feel and I'm already infinitely more comfortable with the new vibes over there and having much more fun. So I'm gonna commit to a blog move! I'll start refollowing mutuals soon but otherwise if you wanna beat me there and join me in my move feel free to follow me over on my new blog @widowsdarling!! I hope to see you there!!

Alright yeah. I set up a new blog to test how it would feel and I'm already infinitely more comfortable with the new vibes over there and having much more fun. So I'm gonna commit to a blog move! I'll start refollowing mutuals soon but otherwise if you wanna beat me there and join me in my move feel free to follow me over on my new blog @widowsdarling!! I hope to see you there!!

Alright yeah. I set up a new blog to test how it would feel and I'm already infinitely more comfortable with the new vibes over there and having much more fun. So I'm gonna commit to a blog move! I'll start refollowing mutuals soon but otherwise if you wanna beat me there and join me in my move feel free to follow me over on my new blog @widowsdarling!! I hope to see you there!!

Alright yeah. I set up a new blog to test how it would feel and I'm already infinitely more comfortable with the new vibes over there and having much more fun. So I'm gonna commit to a blog move! I'll start refollowing mutuals soon but otherwise if you wanna beat me there and join me in my move feel free to follow me over on my new blog @widowsdarling!! I hope to see you there!!

Alright yeah. I set up a new blog to test how it would feel and I'm already infinitely more comfortable with the new vibes over there and having much more fun. So I'm gonna commit to a blog move! I'll start refollowing mutuals soon but otherwise if you wanna beat me there and join me in my move feel free to follow me over on my new blog @widowsdarling!! I hope to see you there!!

Alright yeah. I set up a new blog to test how it would feel and I'm already infinitely more comfortable with the new vibes over there and having much more fun. So I'm gonna commit to a blog move! I'll start refollowing mutuals soon but otherwise if you wanna beat me there and join me in my move feel free to follow me over on my new blog @widowsdarling!! I hope to see you there!!

If there’s one thing I learned since I signed up on 09/26/2020 9:56:15 PM, it’s that #otp: made up my mind takes up too much of my time.

wlw in self ship, it's 100% okay for you to headcanon your fem f/os as lesbians or see them as clearly lesbian coded even if others do not. it's also okay for you to be uncomfortable seeing men ship with those f/os.

mlm in self ship, it's 100% okay for you to headcanon your masc f/os as gay or see them as clearly gay coded even if others do not. it's also okay for you to be uncomfortable seeing women ship with those f/os.

lgbtqia+ self shippers, it's 100% okay for you to headcanon your f/o as bi, or aro, or ace, or trans, or anything in between. it's beautiful if you see the coding in your f/os' character, and there is nothing wrong with being uncomfortable seeing men ship with certain fictional women or women ship with certain fictional men.

it's important to remember that there are cis lesbians in this community, straight trans men, he/him lesbians, she/her gays, those who identify outside of trans men/trans women/nonbinary, nonbinary or agender people who use gendered pronouns, lesbians who ship with fictional men or gay men who ship with fictional women. there is nothing wrong with any of these things.

your self ship blog is your space. you come here to be happy for yourself and no one else. we all have our personal boundaries and things that affect our feelings badly. we can be uncomfortable seeing certain types of ships because it causes us dysphoria, or discomfort in our orientation, or reminds us of trauma, or anything under the sun.

being uncomfortable seeing a man ship with your fem f/o doesn't make you bad or a ~man hater~. being uncomfortable seeing a woman ship with your masc f/o doesn't make you bad or a ~misogynist~.

it is only when you go out of your way to bully, harass, vague, gossip, send hate, spread rumors, stalk, etc about someone that your true colors show. that's what makes someone terrible and their intentions disgusting.

please self ship for yourself.

We're supposed to be moving into our new house today but we're having a bunch of legal trouble and waiting around and it is stressful BUT I have been brought absolutely unrestrained amounts of joy by the fact the the old owners of this house left their small son's swing set in the backyard because now I'm thinking about Natasha and I messing around on the swings and pushing each other 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 thinking about small lighthearted moments with her give me so much life 🥺

WE'RE IN THE HOUSE GANG WOO time for my daydreams to promptly shift to Natasha and I moving in together and messing around in our new empty home together :) I just think it would neat if we put on music and it was echoing through the house and we started dancing in the empty kitchen :3