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Baldur's Gate 3 - Robes of the New Moon

These Sharran robes emphasise authority and austerity over comfort - a negative, like the black of the new moon.

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poké spa day

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They had no right to make a shot of Luffy eating meat that beautiful

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We need to embrace the fact that the tumblr userbase is aging. What’s everybody’s favorite kitchen appliance?

#the airfryer

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Anyway I saw a TERF blog say "there are hardly any gay men on Tumblr, probably because men don't use the internet except to talk about video games and spread misogyny" djshdjdjdjddn

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Feminism win!

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Hayley Willians 🧡

Source: teardrops-xxx

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Love bombing is not a euphemism for "too much affection too soon," or "high desire for contact."

"Love bombing" is a term originally used in the context of cults to describe a deliberate and coordinated recruitment method that involved feigning friendship and interest in a potential recruit, via flattery, flirtation, physical affection, and very directed positive attention to everything the recruit says in order to lure them into the cult.

Since cults and abusive relationships operate in similar ways and use similar tactics, love bombing in an interpersonal relationship looks like manufacturing closeness in order to trap someone into a relationship in which the abuser has all the control.

And I know these days there's a million bullshit junky articles out there that make you think this is a symptom of cluster b personality disorders, but there is no way for you to be love bombing somebody without realizing it.

If you are an affectionate person and the level of affection and attention you give makes someone uncomfortable, you are not "accidentally" abusing them.

If you are uncomfortable with the level of affection and attention someone is paying you, they are not de facto abusing you.

Love bombing is about using someone's desire for human connection to fast track them into a situation you control that they will feel disinclined to leave.

#i legit struggle with this #I never know if im being too much