Peer Support Wellness Discussion Group

Wednesday, August 24, 6pm – 8pm ACT, 543 Yonge St, 4th Floor Meeting Room C

OurSpace is proud to present the Wellness and Peer Support Group, a monthly discussion series where young cis and trans guys who like guys can come together to talk about their experiences with specific issues and provide each other with support to improve their overall well-being.  Our first topic is “defining community.”

For more information, please see our Facebook event.

SOLIDARITY STATEMENT WITH BLACK LIVES MATTER – TORONTO

July was a challenging month, especially for those members of our communities who identify as Black. There has been a great deal of backlash against the political demonstrations made by Black Lives Matter – Toronto (BLM-TO) during Pride festivities. In addition, numerous accounts of police violence against Black people have made the headlines. In response to all of this, we (OurSpace) want to acknowledge that we stand in solidarity with BLM-TO – and Black Lives Matter (BLM) more broadly – and support them in their work against the ongoing systems of racist violence and anti-blackness that continue to impact the lives of so many people, including many of our members.

In our values, we state that we apply anti-oppressive principles and practices to create safer and affirming spaces for all guys who like guys. To fully realize the goals of anti-oppression, we recognize the need to speak out against issues like racism and anti-blackness, and the need to create spaces where Black and other queer and trans guys of colour can feel safe and have their voices heard. And so we raise awareness about racism and other issues via social media and we facilitate a queer and trans guys of colour discussion group. But we recognize that these efforts will only reach so many people. We are therefore grateful for BLM-TO and BLM for raising awareness and mobilizing a much wider range of people through the power of protest.

Protest has an important role in the history of queer and trans communities, a history that many of us are unfamiliar with because of our age, lack of access to older queer and trans mentors, and the exclusion of queer and trans history from classrooms and mainstream media.  A few of us have managed to overcome these barriers and, in the process, have learned about major events like: the riots at Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco and the Stonewall Inn in New York City; the demonstrations against police that followed the 1981 Bathhouse Raids in Toronto; and the political theatrics of AIDS activist groups like the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP) in the United States and AIDS Action Now! in Canada. BLM-TO lived up to their role as the Honoured Group during the Toronto Pride Parade this year by holding a demonstration that honoured this history of activism that has been integral to many queer and trans communities.

However, there has been a great deal of backlash to BLM-TO’s actions. In particular, many people have opposed BLM-TO’s demand to remove police floats from the Pride Parade, describing this act as one of exclusion. We, however, support each of BLM-TO’s demands. We recognize that many queer and trans people, especially Black and other queer and trans people of colour, have had negative encounters with the police, and that being around police officers who are in uniform can trigger histories of trauma. The well-being of young queer and trans guys is at the core of the OurSpace mission and vision, and so we support any actions that can make queer and trans people feel safer during Pride. We also recognize that everyone’s identity is intersectional, meaning that police officers are not exclusively police officers and can therefore march in the Pride Parade with contingents that reflect their other identities as queer and trans people or allies.

The work that BLM-TO and BLM are doing is important for all us, especially the many people in our communities who continue to experience violence and oppression as a result of systemic racism and anti-blackness. We will do what we can to support this work to the best of our ability so that we can achieve our vision of building a unified community where young guys who like guys take care of themselves and each other to live happier and healthier lives.

Pride can be a very fun and empowering experience, but it can also be chaotic and challenging in certain ways.

To help make the most of your experience, we’ve compiled the top ten Pride tips from the OurSpace community. Check them out and let us know what you think!

What would you add?

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We’ve never done this. We swear. 

Members of OurSpace have been sharing their tips for Pride. Here's Tip #4: Don't forget to take a nap. You'll thank us tomorrow.

This week we’re sharing Pride tips from members of the OurSpace Community. Pride can be hectic. It’s not always possible to watch out for yourself. There’s strength in numbers. That’s why our Tip #3 is go out with friends. 

Pride tip 2 of 10 from our members! Keep your body safe while losing your mind!

Kick your ‪#‎PrideMind‬ work-out into high gear with 10 Pride Tips created from discussion with our members!

Today’s first tip: Drink a lot of water.

How do you stay hydrated during Pride?

Come celebrate the start of Pride week with the OurSpace crew at Toronto's coolest park, Trinity Bellwoods on Sat. June 25 at 12:30pm! It may be outside the village, but the sights are worth travelling for - we're talking shirtless tennis, tight-rope walking, you name it, it's happening there! Event details in bio! • • • #ourspacetoronto #pridemind #gay #bi #queer #trans #lgbt #lgbtq #gbt #gbtq #instagay #instaqueer #toronto #gaytoronto #guys #gayguys #youthleaders #gaymenshealth #instagood #instadaily #prideTO #pride #gaypride #trinitybellwoods

Looking for some afternoon delight? Join us today at 1130am at the Inside Out film festival for a short films series on sex. Event details in bio! Image from @insideoutfilmfestival • • • #ourspace #ourspacetoronto #gay #bi #queer #trans #lgbt #lgbtq #gbt #gbtq #instagay #instaqueer #toronto #gaytoronto #guys #gayguys #youthleaders #gaymenshealth #instagood #instadaily #insideout #filmfestival #film

#tbt for our next #PrideMind installation: When @dailyxtra asked "How do young queers build community today?" We answered: "Our main goal is to develop and build a community that can create ways to support each other. We hold workshops and discussion groups, but we also plan activities like just hanging out at the park or the beach. The idea is to get together and have fun, while also providing an opportunity for an exchange of ideas and experiences.” Link to article in our bio! • • • #ourspacetoronto #pridemind #gay #bi #queer #trans #lgbt #lgbtq #gbt #gbtq #instagay #instaqueer #toronto #gaytoronto #guys #gayguys #youthleaders #gaymenshealth #instagood #instadaily #prideTO #pride #gaypride

We all know about the pressure to get your "Pride body" ready every year (whether we buy into it or not), but what about our Pride minds? What attitudes and actions make a healthy and sexy #PrideMind? OurSpace wants to find out! For Pride month we'll be sharing on topics important to cultivating love, respect, and unity in our various queer communities. Join in on the conversation and let us know what's important to you in these discussions. Comment on, like, and share our posts - help us spread the word about what matters to young gay/bi/queer/trans guys today! Link in bio! • • • #ourspacetoronto #gay #bi #queer #trans #lgbt #lgbtq #gbt #gbtq #instagay #instaqueer #toronto #gaytoronto #guys #gayguys #youthleaders #gaymenshealth #instagood #instadaily #prideTO #pridetoronto #pride #gaypride