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hhhhfhdhgsooohhh my god

@visforvalid / visforvalid.tumblr.com

hey if all those gods up there could stop absolutely tag teaming my life thatd be real snazzy
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IVE BEEN WAITING ALL YEAR TO POST THIS YOU DONT EVEN KNOW

I’m crying. 

i scheduled this a year ago..

I put this on my queue a year ago today. Let’s see if I still use tumblr as much a year from now.

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visforvalid

the current year is 2015, when this posts it will be 2020. I have scheduled this for every Halloween for the next 5 years. Hello future me, it is me from 2015. I hope you have more self esteem in 5 years.

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Dear 2020 me

Hey, it’s 2016 Tyla here. I’m not sure if you’re still on Tumblr, but if not, oh well. If you are, you’ll probably see this which is good. Um, I hope you are doing well, I hope you’ve recovered completely from depression and social anxiety. I just thought I’d write a little message to you, kind of like a time capsule for myself.

Well, right now things don’t look so good. No one in my family accepts me, or is even trying to, apart from grandma. But even she is apprehensive. I’m still absolutely certain I want top surgery, and there seems to be more surgeons than the two I found, so where ever you live now, if you still want the surgery, you should look into that.

I still don’t know what job I want, or anything about my future. Suicide is still a viable option for me right now, so maybe you’ll never get to read this because of that. But if you do get to read this, that’s good. I wonder what job you’re doing? Are you serving food (like a waiter) as a general job but studying to become a game dev or something? That’s what I think I might do. I don’t know yet though. Everything’s a bit daunting to me.

Mum is still being a bitch, I’m guessing she hasn’t changed for you. I can’t wait to move out and away from here, to somewhere it snows, like victoria or something. Maybe I do save up and move completely to england or america. probably england. hmm. There’s probably more work opportunities there, and plus, assuming Dan and Phil still do tours and stuff, I can meet them. idk.

Some advice I’ve learnt that you might have forgotten: No matter what you do, in the end, you die, so make the most of it. For most people I guess that’d be depressing but for me, right now at least, It’s inspiring.

So um, I really hope you’re still openly genderfluid and telling all those people who said it was just teenage mood swings to go shove a cactus up their ass. You might be scared to go through with the top surgery, so Im gonna say just do it, you’ll feel so much better. Remember your dream? A lovely apartment somewhere it rains often. A beautiful girlfriend, wife even, living with you. Flat chest, without a binder. You’re hot :P and you’re finally happy with your hair. With everything. Remember that? Stick to it. Don’t lose sight of that. I know you’re asexual so it might be hard to find a partner, maybe you’ve just gone through a bad breakup, but don’t lose hope. I love you, ok. Stay strong.

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theforce

The thing that gets me about the whole James Charles thing is that increasingly it’s coming off more like “straight rights!” Rather than about someone exhibiting extremely predatory behavior. Even when Tati was going over what happened at her birthday dinner and how James was talking in a very sexual manner she says “I told him the waiter was straight” AS IF the waiters sexuality had anything to do with not wanting to be verbally sexually harassed! By anyone! Ever! I don’t understand why everyone is like STRAIGHT BOYS STRAIGHT BOYS when it should just be about James Charles making unwanted sexual advances and preying on people using money and power.

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Normalize apologizing to children.

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crissle

Normalize doing right by children.

Normalizing telling children YOU were wrong

Normalize listening to children when they see the solution to a problem.

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whoever keeps putting the cheshire cat on disney villains merchandise….. damn you. damn you, to hell. i hate you. he is NOT a villain. heis fucking. just a weird little stupid creature. fuck you. FROLLO deserves that spot. FROLLO . this is a warning. re evaluate. or die. this post was made by Catholic gang

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dspressed

Just a reminder that Vincent van Gogh did not eat yellow paint to make himself feel happy, he ate paint, and drank different chemicals because he was suicidal and this is why he was not allowed in his studio while having breakdowns. He also did not paint starry night and his other great works because he was depressed, he painted most of them while he was in recovery and demonstrated his hopefulness and love of the world through this. Most of his great works were painted from his room at a hospital. Van Gogh’s depression should not be glorified. His hope and effort toward a better life, as well as his recovery from depression should be glorified.

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I just heard my younger brother say under his breath as he was cleaning the kitchen “hit or miss, Nazis still exist huh? gotta crite spranberry yeeted at your face huh” and I have never been more horrified at what the youth is becoming

fuck you op that is pure POETRY

Bars

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My friend works two jobs and doesn’t tend to specify which one he’s talking about, so he’ll say stuff like “a lady died at work today” and the rest of us have to play a fun little game called Nursing Home Or Yankee Candle.

Today he goes “someone threw a candle at me at work >:(” and I think I can finally reliably pin down one of his anecdotes but nope! It was the wretched nursing home!!!!!

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kaitobromota

imagine going through your tumblr experience only knowing komaeda as the fingers in his ass guy. imagine not knowing all the canon things komaeda as done. dude blew up his school to prevent a test from happening. tried to shoot a god. played russian roulette with 5 bullets. threatened to completely disintegrate an entire island. babysat a bunch of maniac kids for basically no reason. cut off his arm. is an absolute gay disaster

THE FINGERS IN HIS ASS GUY DID WHAT

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Hot take but girls who have a yellow aesthetic and play ukulele, keep succulents in their room and talk about saving the bees aren’t “cringy” They’re just happy or trying to be happy. You guys are just assholes.  

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I don’t care if I lose a thousand followers overnight, but if you think “tranny” or “shemale” are remotely acceptable ways to refer to a transgender person, please unfollow me.

The number of notes on this pleases both my ego and my fragile faith in humanity.

Adding on, “extra hole boy”, or “pussy boy” are equally abominable ways to refer to trans men.

Dont use Shim, shehe/heshe, chick with a dick d*ckgirl or c*ntboy either

and if you use “it” to dehumanize any trans person i will personally come to your house, break down your door, and piss on everything you own

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nothing--new

‘Sissy’ and ‘trap’ are also utterly reprehensible…

Also if you call a trans woman futa I will kick your fucking teeth in

Please yes, im fucking sick of people looking at and consuming futinari culture and think that’s what we are

is it okay for a person who is not trans to reblog this?

Given the fact this is a legit list of words that trans people don’t want to be called/don’t want to hear, I hereby decree this post may be reblogged by everyone who wants to spread the word that these words are NOT ACCEPTABLE.

As somebody who literally had to tell one friend that “tranny” is a slur and “fem-boy” is not what you call a trans woman, I agree with this hardcore

Reblog if anywords that degrade, disrespect, dehumanise Transgender people is NOT ACCEPTABLE. AT ALL.

I HAVE THE PERFECT MEME FOR THIS POST

As a non-binary person who has been called ‘it’ and ‘that’ as “jokes” this post needs to be shared

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one of my top 10 favorite childhood memories was going to the garden store with my parents as a kid where they had one of these bad boys

holy trinity

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