[ENG SUB] Stray Kids EP. 1
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cr. to Team DSML (myhyunjin and seungmnis)
dailymotion: https://t.co/bXHsBu3w2q (password: straykids)
mega dl: https://t.co/4vMQ5eEpn7
cr. to Team DSML (myhyunjin and seungmnis)
remember when
people where calling out Chris for saying the n word in a 3RACHA song
and then he wrote a whole song to address the fact that he actually said ninjas
I love a respectful unproblematic leader
Ok now I have three hours left to sleep thank you Stray Kids
what if the aliens are here but they’re too tiny for us to see
What if our entire universe is in a tiny glass jar placed neatly on a shelf in some alien kids room as a science project.
Hi, I don’t believe in aliens
You had me at “hi” you lost me at “I don’t believe in aliens”.
Me reading fan fiction at night
Me during the day
Look at how casual it is in our society to promote female abuse towards men. We think nothing of it. Imagine if the genders here were reversed. Imagine if this was the gamifying of abusive and control behavior of men towards women. It would be a fucking shitstorm and the gaming company would have to apologize but this? Nah because society is HYPOCRITICAL when it comes to toxic behavior. That’s why I roll my eyes hard at all the “toxic masculinity” talk because it’s pretty damn clear that overwhelmingly those who are quick to say that shit only have a “toxic radar” that works on men. If males are doing dirt, they are ready to yell to the mountaintops but women and suddenly they are deaf, dumb and blind. suddenly all those stances just go away. suddenly all those belief just disappear. that’s when the excuse parade starts marching in. fuck that. and don’t give me that bullshit excuse about men cheating cause guess what? WOMEN CHEAT AS MUCH AS MEN (here, here, here, here and here)! So unless you’re ready to tell me that as a woman you expect and welcome the invasion of your privacy, the destruction of your personal property and/or other likewise behavior because women cheat, shut the fuck up.
Dudes if you find yourself with a girl or woman like this, dump her toxic ass immediately. Do not even waste your time trying to make her see how fucked up and abusive this behavior is. Get the fuck out of there and find you someone who is secure enough to not freak out cause you have other females in your life besides her and your family. And if you’re about to enter into a relationship with a chick, have the talk. I always tell chicks straight up “I have many female friends and some are among my best friends in the world. We talk, chat, hang, go out and etc. I am NOT going to jettison them for you. They are my friends and they are going to remain my friends. Tell me NOW if you can’t handle that and we will go out separate ways no hard feelings.” I ALWAYS MAKE THAT SHIT CLEAR! Girls and women will fucking demand you get rid of your female friends for them but try asking them to do the same with their male friends for you and they fucking lose their shit. Fuckouttahere!
“Toxic femininity” is too fucking real and the fact that we don’t call that shit out is why “toxic masculinity” is mostly an exercise in misandry.
but notice all you can do is leave. you can’t actually give a reasoned response because you know you don’t have one.
THAT’S FUCKING WHY!?!?!
i’ve seen my boys get caught up with crazy ass controlling evil chicks doing shit like this and yet our society is hellbent on giving them a pass. we never call them out. we never put their feet to the fire. we never roast their asses but we always got something to say about men tho. always. yet women are carrying out all manner of abuses in relationships. shit is disgusting. and when we sit back and allow for the above and we don’t call it out, we normalize the idea that abuse from women to men is okay. this is how you normalize an idea and a concept. you keep repeating it in as many mediums as you can until people see and/or hear it so much that they accept it as fact, as logical, as normal. think about how we talk and treat domestic violence in this country.
remember these domestic violence experiments to understand how differently we act depending on how the aggressor is?
how do we get to a place where we think abuse and/or domestic violence against women is unacceptable but abuse and/or domestic violence is funny, entertaining and thus acceptable? we normalize the idea that it is so and the above is one of the ways we do it. and it’s all funny until you realize 40% of domestic violence victims are men at the hand of women.
i had a friend who was in physically abusive relationship with a girl who was the mother of his son and it was as fucked up as anything i’ve seen happen to a woman. the scratches to the face, the punching, having things throw at him and shit… it was fucking crazy. but it’s all funny right? we’ll put in everywhere that if a woman is mad at a guy, it’s okay that she slaps him. in games where it’s funny that a woman invades your privacy or wreck your personal property because “some chick texted my man.” however we all know if the genders were reversed it would be all types of shit! this is called normalizing and it’s fucked up. that’s why i’m mad. fuck @amandaseales. hotep. the fuck does this have anything to do with hotep? fuckouttahere with that bullshit!! bunch of fucking hyprocrites.
‘In a mad ass rage at my partner. Just want to punch him in the c*ck and stab him in the leg with a fork. Bad b****es, I want to know what is the craziest thing you’ve done in a fit of rage?’ one woman posted on Friday.
The post garnered hundreds of likes and prompted a colourful discussion about domestic violence.
‘Threw a chair at him through a glass door. Door smashed and cut him the f*** up. Needless to say he didn’t smart mouth me again,’ one said.
The post and the ensuing comments were shared with all 173 thousand members of Bad Girls Advice.
this is what is considered being a “bad bitch.” and y’all fucking telling me i’m overacting? we send the message that this is acceptable through every medium so it’s no shock that 170k+ women gathered around thinking this is acceptable. fuckouttahere with this “you overacting” bullshit. social engineering requires that a message be sent over and over and over and over again through all meduim and channels great and small so that it becomes just standard thinking and the result is THIS. And damn I feel sorry for these dudes cause most probably just stayed with this crazy shitty women or didn’t defend themselves. Let a chick think she can hit me and just keep on keeping on. Bitch you thought!
Ask yourself how many male abuse victims are on this website right now seeing people fight so hard to justify and normalize the abuse we went through? Why is it okay for us men to be abused?
This post doesn’t have enough notes
This will never get the notes. Anything on Tumblr that calls out the toxicity of femininity is ignored. Even when there’s mad evidence like this.
True. But I’ll keep reposting this.
@nunyabizni didn’t you or lastonlost make a post on this kind of shit?
@radfemtori I wanna hear your take on this.
Me too tell her to unblock me
Good Lord that’s horrifying.
Probably the radfem answer will be something like “it’s patriarchy that excuses female violence uwu nothing we can do”
As someone who was in a mentally and verbally abusive relationship with a terrible person I can’t not boost this.
imagine having sex with a ghost and then someone walks into your room and they see your asshole widening and narrowing for no reason
imagine praying to God and going to church
Almost every gay person I’ve met likes pokemon
if you’re lgbt what’s your favorite pokemon
Reblog this if you pronounce “.gif” as “GIF.”
NOT JIF,
GIF.
WE SHALL SEE WHICH ONE PREVAILS.
someone tell youngjae that he can post on his instagram story instead because it will delete in 24 hours and i will expect it and there will be no trust issues caused
PART ONE
Here’s a story for you.
Last April I co-founded a sorority with a few girls that, then, were people I loved and trusted. I never saw myself joining a sorority, but we all wanted to create an organization that gave girls like us that weren’t too keen on Greek life a sisterhood. A group that you could rely on in times of trouble. A group to have fun with. A group to share your dreams with.
In November, I was suspended for a semester because I started dating Nick–the President-at-the-time’s ex. It was written NOWHERE in the bylaws that this was not allowed, and yet I was suspended anyways, because they called it “unsisterlike conduct” after preaching to all of the pledges that the organization would never dictate who you date. This has nothing to do with third-wave feminists and I certainly don’t blame the movement for this, however, I thought it would be important to mention that there was already some conflict between me and the org.
Fast forward to a month and a half ago. Two semesters worth of new pledges had joined. New blood is always healthy in any organization. We were growing, and it appeared we were happy. I was supposed to be let back into the sorority this coming August. And then, this happened.
The first two pictures are me complaining about aspects in the third wave feminism movement. The next six are my “sisters” subtweeting me because they’re all feminists. Women that I thought were my friends. The ninth picture is the current president messaging me about a meeting.
In this meeting, I was told to delete my Twitter and everything in it or else I would be expelled from the sorority. I simply did not allow that to happen. I would not be silenced for having an opinion. So I left. And I posted the last picture to let my friends and family on Twitter know about my decision.
I’ll continue shortly in a separate post.
EDIT: Link to part two here: https://vivairi.tumblr.com/post/161402713572/part-two-but-even-after-i-left-they-didnt-stop
Apparently it’s okay to silence woman if they have the wrong opinions. Yay feminism!