On 2017, No-Platforming, and This Blog
As some (or many!) of you may have heard already, as of today, there is a push starting to no-platform people who hold the ahistorical and insulting opinion that aces and aros should not be included in the LGBT+/MOGAI/other acronym of choice community.
This does not mean that we will stop debunking the harmful rhetoric they use, or the misinformation they try to spread. It does mean that we are not going to spread their posts, and give a wider platform to their nonsense.
With that in mind, I fully intend to keep running this blog as usual (which, unfortunately, has to mean something like “sporadically, when I have both time and energy”). However, it means that I will not be reblogging from people who feel they get to decide who to exclude from our community.
Which means I have a request for all of you.
As of today, please do not reblog exclusionist rhetoric or hateful, inaccurate posts (whether these posts were originally made by exclusionists or are add-ons to another post) to tag me into a discussion. Instead, please send me links, or simply topics that you want me to address, and I will continue to make original posts about them.
You can do this via ask (by saying, for example, “hey, can you look at post/155251105407 on historicallyace’s blog and do a historical accuracy check?”), via Tumblr IM, or via fanmail (if that’s even still a thing? I haven’t gotten any fanmail in a long time and tbh I need to check the settings for it on this blog). If I’m not responding quickly enough, because like I said, I’m only here sporadically, feel free to message me on my main, which is currently @snowenby (but if you’re finding an empty blog there, check back to the original version of this post because I will update it as my URL changes).
Let’s all have a wonderful, peaceful, and historically accurate new year!
As a side-note: this absolutely includes addressing additions made to my own posts, whether as replies or reblogs. You want to tell me I’m wrong? Go for it. I’ll listen.
But?
If you’ve got the gall to come here and tell me I’m wrong about my lived experience, or that other aces are wrong about their lived experience, I don’t have time to deal with your bullshit. I have a life to get back to.
There is no conversation to be had about this. If you were not paying enough attention, or simply weren’t there to know where aces were, what we were doing, and who was including us, and you’re not going to listen to us telling you that you were wrong, that we were there, and that we were included, I’m not going to take time out of my day to hold your hand and walk you through my life story again.