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Merciful Death, How You Love Your Precious Guilt

@gothic-chicanery

Al, 23, he/him. Vampires, horror, and whatever else I get obsessed with. 18+ content and discussion
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get-more-bald
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cromerholt

all the gay people on here are always posting screenshots from like an alternate universe version of seinfeld where every episode is about george costanza lounging on sofas and in restaurants and monologuing his fearful explorations of the nebulous corners of his gender and sexual identity

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aussie-bookworm
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yaoiboypussy

I dont know what trans guy needs to hear this. But please cut off that cis girl ‘friend’ who gets weirdly uncomfortable when you start transitioning and being masculine. She is not your friend.

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gothic-chicanery

Note that this is also true if the person isn’t a cis girl

#mine was a nonbinary lesbian who I think was a bit bitter about losing me for the lesbian team#and like told me explicitly at one point like why don’t you just use he they pronouns he theys are so sexy#and I finally was like. can you please tone it down a bit and she went off at me for having white male privilege and I’m like#I’m not on t!! I don’t fucking pass!! every day I go to work and everyone calls me a girl for 8 hours straight#and talks about how much trans people suck and how they expect people to just bend over and accommodate for them#and then to open my queer friend group chat and it’s like. I can’t believe you guys would have relationships with men#youre just going to get emotionally abused#which like. complicated issue obvis and like as a lesbian they don’t have to date men or even like them#but you still shouldn’t treat your friends like shit and they did#they NEVER got mad at cis men or gave them shit#but they gave all the rest of us who were trans or attracted to men in any way a lot of it#again nuanced issue and this isn’t saying like any lesbian who makes a men suck joke is evil bc also like#similarly to how there has to be space for me to be happy about and love being a man#there should be space for lesbians to talk about how much they love not really fucking with men#but when that gets weaponized more personally it’s a bit nasty#I HADNT EVEN TRANSITIONED AT THAT POINT#GOD THAT WOULDVE BEEN SUCKS IF THEY HAD STAYED IN THE FRIEND GROUP#(my friend group pretty much went hey this person sucks we’re going to stop talking to them once school starts up again bc Issues#and I was like guys that seems mean and so tried actually talking when I hit a problem#but jokes on me that shit instantly went SO BAD#like it was your opinion is not valid bc you’re a white man#and I was like ok first of all a shred of nuance to that and like even if you view me as the evil white man like our friends who weren’t men#or white#were also like. the issue is you being a dick#and then I brought that up and it was like WELL WHY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT ME BEHIND MY BACK#BECAUSE THATS WHAT PEOPLE DO WHEN OTHERS ARE ASSHOLES WE COMPARE NOTES#AND CHECK TO MAKE SURE WE ARENT OVERREACTING#anyway turned into a bit of a rant but I stay silly
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jacqueattack
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charlottan
Anonymous asked:

Get the forcefemme and forcemasc enjoyers on opposite sides of a field and we can score them based on the final gender of the dozen people we put in the middle

charlottan answered:

this should be added to the olympics

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langernameohnebedeutung

you heard of "hating female characters for traits people would find interesting and morally grey in male characters", now get ready for "calling female characters annoying for traits they would consider interesting or quirky in a male character" and its twin sibling "accusing a female character of 'holding grudges' and 'being selfish/unforgiving' over something that people would consider 'traumatised' and 'still feeling hurt' in a male character"

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