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Blue-Eyed-Boss

@blue-eyed-boss-blog / blue-eyed-boss-blog.tumblr.com

26. NYC. Music saved me.
Zeppelin & JSE inspired me.
Malcolm.
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This may be triggering for some, some please if it is, do not read this. I don’t want to put anyone in a bad place. So before I get into it, I just want to remind you it’s okay not to be okay. And it’s okay to seek help if you need it. I also ask that you please keep the family and loved ones of this kind and beautiful soul in your thoughts as they have lost a son, brother, nephew, cousin, friend.

Unfortunately, today I received the news that someone I have know for quite some time took his own life after a long struggle with depression. I’m at a loss for words. I’m absolutely heartbroken over this news. I can’t stop thinking about the pain he was in and about his family and loved ones, the heartbreak they must be feeling during this time. He was such a kind person, nice to everyone. I’m not kidding, I have never heard a bad thing about him. And he has never ever said a bad thing about anyone. He always tried to look on the bright side despite his struggles, which he proved each time we discussed his mental health struggles. Maybe because I had my own mental health struggles, he felt comfortable talking to me. I just really never, ever for a second this would be the outcome.

Please be kind to each other. You don’t know what someone may be going through. Don’t judge someone who may be going through a personal struggle. What you may not seem real to you, is so incredibly real to them. And please, if you need help, please ask.

Thank you for being so kind to me especially during a time where I felt so alone and needed someone to talk to. I am so, so sorry your struggles were so heavy on your kind and beautiful soul. I hope you are at peace. Rest in eternal peace.

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Just A Small Update

Hi everyone!

It’s been quite some time hasn’t it? I hope you are all doing well and if you are going through a tough time, hang in there! I promise things get better in time. I just wanted to give a small update on where I’ve been this long hiatus. 

I’ve been taking a lot of time to focus on my mental health. Mental health issues are not an easy thing to deal with, but it’s something that should always be a priority. Your mental health matters! So of course, I have good days and I have bad days, but ultimately I am living. 

I decided to start a side blog that’s going to be me opening up on a personal level regarding mental health and honestly just life in general, while navigating back on here. I do still check tumblr quite frequently to see what everyone’s up to. If you choose to check it out, here’s the link: https://katiescarlettx0.tumblr.com/

On that note, it’s time to head to bed. Today was a bad mental health day unfortunately, but it just keeps me hanging on to the fact that tomorrow should be a much better day.

Be well and continue to spread love and kindness! :)

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gentle reminder

remember tomorrow - no matter how bad today was, you never have to live it again, and tomorrow will come, and it can be better

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You can have every joy in the world and mental illness will have you believe that you have nothing at all. The battle is fighting that lie.
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Jackieboy Man: Into the Jackie-verse - #EgoArtWeek3

So I decided to take part in the ego art community displays, so here I am contributing with a couple of my own takes on Jackieboy Man. Enjoy and tell me which ones you like the most.

@therealjacksepticeye If by some slim chance you see this, I hope you like these takes on your character.

Version 1 - A mercenary/bounty hunter-based take on JBM. I gave him a more militaristic getup and provided him with a wrist-mounted dart launcher that fires tranquilizers.

Version 2 - An urban vigilante take on Jackieboy Man. Since Jack himself said here on Tumblr that JBM has the greatest physical strength of all the egos, I figured I would come up with a way for the character to demonstrate this. So what better way to show off strength then to casually pull a street sign and a chunk of asphalt or concrete out of the ground? No idea what Jackieboy Man’s upper limit is, but this would probably be on the lighter end of his strength range.

Version 3 - The futuristic cyborg. Since I normally make my own OCs as sci-fi characters, I wanted to give Jackieboy Man that same design treatment. Much of his left arm, most of his face, and his heart and brain are the only remaining organic components this version of JBM has. I like to think this version ended up becoming a cyborg after barely surviving a battle with Antisepticeye. In his new form, he obtained a new cybernetic eye that can see on all spectrum, a new arm, and replacement legs. JBM and Anti had a rematch, in which the newly-improved JBM managed to win by just barely being able to beat Anti into submission. Behind him is the hoverbike he uses to travel from place to place.

Version 4 - Jackieboy Mage, the Septic Sorcerer. Yeah, I know the Doctor Strange inspiration is obvious with him casting the runes, but I thought it would be cool to have a more mystical take on Jackieboy Man. The Septiceye marking on his head represents the eye-shaped entity that Jackieboy Mage draws his powers from.

Enjoy, anyone who’s seeing this. Let me know what you guys think.

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To donate £5 to the charity supporting the male victims of domestic abuse, text the message: MKDV46 to 70070

yogaboi

At first I though this was a joke

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hypo-thermic

Don’t ignore this Tumblr

Yet they still do even when it’s right in their face.

This reminds me of how a friend of mine was abused by the mother of his child. She was mentally unstable and used to berate him constantly and would smack him in the head all the time. It really pissed me off. Then one night she threw hot coffee in his face and tried to stab him with a screwdriver. The cops hauled him off to jail because she made up a sob story that painted herself as the victim.  Once he left her, he stayed with me and it was a nightmare. She stalked him and me. She would drive by my house obsessively at all hours of the day and night (her muffler made a weird sound so I know it was her). She started showing up at my job, showing up at the places I frequented around town, and filling up my voicemail with dead air. The cops were no help. One day she got bold enough to talk her way into my home by conning my elderly grandmother, whom I was taking care of, while I was out. She went in my room and went through my stuff (creepy), then found him napping on the couch and attacked him. My grandmother witnessed the whole thing. He grabbed her by the arms, forced her out the front door, and locked it. The cops were called again. They said they’d go and ‘talk’ to her.

The next day we were watching a movie and there was a knock at the door. The police had come to arrest him. She filed a complaint against him and shown off some bruises on her arms from the altercation that she swore were completely unprovoked. My grandmother saw the whole thing since she was in the living room too and testified on his behalf. He still ended up serving jail time. No one takes male domestic violence victims seriously. They only see males as perpetrators.

This is important. Just… everyone needs to see this.

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sleep paralysis tips:

- try not to panic or hyperventilate, it’ll make the experience 10x worse. this has been the most effective thing I’ve done. try to get really affectionate about something instead, like your cat, or your otp.

- I know everyone says to move your fingers or toes but honestly, it just reminds me I’m mostly paralyzed, so instead I lie very still, which means I can pretend I can move, which offsets the panic

- seriously, you can’t wake up out of it by trying to fall out of bed or getting someone to shake you. your body will wake up when it wants and not before. just stay still and pretend it’s your choice to do so

- that auditory hallucination? that’s just the edgy hot topic preteen in your subconscious you thought you buried ten years ago.

- keep your eyes plastered shut. keep them shut. if you can’t control your eyelids, then try to sleep so that something covers your eyes. my brain’s a lot less creative when it can’t see any dim shapes in the room that it can morph into something terrifying

- things that mess with your melatonin levels can have weird effects on sleep paralysis

- naps or “I just woke up two hours ago but now I want more sleep” can be more susceptible to sleep paralysis

- don’t try to go back to sleep right after sleep paralysis. it sucks but it’ll usually just come back and that’ll leave you even more tired. go look at memes

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Anonymous asked:

Pride 🏳️‍🌈 Month 🏳️‍🌈 PMA 🏳️‍🌈 train 🏳️‍🌈 has 🏳️‍🌈 come 🏳️‍🌈 to 🏳️‍🌈 visit 🏳️‍🌈 you!!! 🏳️‍🌈 Choo 🏳️‍🌈Choo! 🏳️‍🌈🚂

Happy Pride to all my followers!! 🏳️‍🌈 Be proud to be who you are and celebrate!

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Not once has anyone in the LGBTQ community made me feel like I should be ashamed to be straight.

Not once has anyone in the LGBTQ community attacked me for my sexual orientation.

Not once has anyone in the LGBTQ community tried to take away or limits my rights due to my sexual orientation.

Yet, there are people who identify as straight who attack, judge and ridicule those in the LGBTQ community. This “Straight Pride Parade” concept is embarrassing and horrific.

We NEED to do better.

As a straight female, I hear you. I see you. I respect you. I accept you for you. You have a safe place here on this blog.

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Obtaining an Abortion in a State That Has Banned It

Rule Number 1: take an at home pregnancy test, pay for it in CASH at the store

Rule Number 2: tell NO ONE. Not over text, phone, social media, or even in person. No trails.

Rule Number 3: Obtaining an abortion.

Option 1: There are online options to obtain an at home abortion if applicable through AIDACCESS.ORG and WOMENONWEB.ORG. Of course, do ensure that there is no trail and all evidence is destroyed just to be safe.

Option 2: take a vacation to another state. Plan to visit family, go camping, to a conference, to a museum or national park, etc. DONT EVER tell anyone anything else.

Rule Number 4: When obtaining the abortion at a doctors DO NOT sign any waivers. You will be safe if you don’t sign any waivers giving consent for even providers to communicate to other providers. Also, use cash as much as possible throughout the trip and for medical expenses.

Rule Number 5: HIPAA ensures that your information is federally protected. If the one and only person who knows you had an abortion leaks it, THEY will go to prison. Why? Because they violated HIPAA.

+ use a secure vpn, proxy, or onion browser to avoid your web history being linked back to you.

Download the browser Tor!! It’s a free browser that acts as a VPN and doesn’t save ur browser history!! People use it to get on the black web a lot so as u can guess it’s pretty good at keeping things from getting traced back to you unless they specifically know what to look for and how to find it (which is very rare)

So yeah, go get Tor or a good VPN.

Never did I think I would live during a time where we actually have to help guide a woman on how to get an abortion without legal consequences.

We are moving backwards in women’s rights.

My heart breaks for women.

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when she says she doesn’t send nudes

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when guys objectify women and expect them to send nudes

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when someone asks you about your nuclear plans for russia

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hikingnerd

When Russia sends you nudes

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onwardwall

This is my favorite post in all of tumblr

reminder that this post is now illegal in Russia

reblog it, because Russia can´t

maradaisykat

Thanks Obama 

When Russia makes this post illegal

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Putin’s expressions in the middle….I can’t…

oh my god it’s back

I can’t stop laughing oh my god-

Reblog for Russia

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Anonymous asked:

hi hi!! just wanted to let you know that there ARE men with periods and period cramps! trans guys exist and i keep seeing us get excluded from the conversation, so im just trying to spread the word. sorry if this sounds mad!!! cause im not!!! i just wanna inform people that it's not women that are being affected here!!

Hi anon! I respect trans men as I see them as who they are. And I fully respect that they do go through the joys of periods (completely sarcastic because we all know it’s far from joyful lol).

And I also know that trans men aren’t the ones who would ever tell another person what to do with their body especially placing restrictions like the ones that were placed. Unfortunately, we live in a world where the people who want restrictions placed on women are the same people who aren’t accepting of the lgbtq community which also is NOT okay. It’s not okay to tell women what they can and cannot so with their bodies just like it’s not okay to shame someone based on who they are. It’s a fight we all need to keep fighting!!

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