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it's okay

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and if it's not rn it's going to be, eventually janek | he/him | 21 | polish&lost
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fagcrisis

we need to figure this out now can yall please tag where ur from (if ur american please for the love of god tag the country i dont know what a connecticut is) and whether or not you have a dryer + think having a dryer in your house is like a normal thing

okay so far what weve learned is that every american has a dryer and posh british people think every british person has a dryer

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getting teary eyed thinking about gerda gottlieb's paintings of her wife after she transitioned

thing is, for a lot of these paintings it wasn’t “after” lily elbe’s transition. there was no after to it. the one op posted was painted in 1928. this was 2 years before lily legally changed her name and began undergoing revolutionary gender affirming procedures. unfortunately she died due to complications of an experimental uterine transplant in 1931.

up until that point, during the day lily continued to dress in masculine clothing and even attended galleries showing gottlieb’s paintings of her. which was kind of iconic. she got to stand in a room full of people who were marveling her beauty, not knowing she was right next to them. it must have been such a cute little secret for them as a couple.

here’s gerda and lilly together

not to mention that for most people there is no real “after” to a transition. especially for these trans historical figures who had to balance identity and safety at all times.

i think having a wife paint these portraits must have felt really amazing for lily. to be able to see herself through the eyes of someone who loved her. i’m very much seconding op on the getting teary eyed.

here are some of my favorite gottleib lily paintings

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thegenderal

Dni if you: have never shoveled snow. Are afraid of horses. Dont know how to drive. Don’t like children or teens (double if youve made it a personality trait). Have ever identified as a theatre kid. Don’t like or are afraid of chickens. Have never held a baby. Enjoy arguing. Are a bad driver or other people tell you you are a bad driver. Don’t like the outdoors. Have only lived within walking distance from a supermarket. Don’t know how to cook. Don’t like cats. Have never worked retail/customer service/front of house. Have never been on a road trip. Have never been gifted a book. And lastly, if youre an only child ❤️

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