ive recently found out that in the 80s lesbians who were more interested in cuddles and kisses rather than sex were called bambi lesbians
it’s such a cute thing omg let’s bring this term back
the love ace lesbians found for this post warms my heart mind body and soul and spirit
reblog to make an ace lesbian feel happy
There's nothing quite like listening to Blackout during a blackout.
Tell me everything you know about the French Babe™ his birthday's coming up and I want to be ready
Everything I know? Oh dear. I’d have to write a book, I’m afraid. Instead, I’ll give you 10 tips on fun ways to celebrate his birthday.
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And One Time He Didn’t. NC-17. Vlad/Don, Fluff and Angst, Political Intrigue, Fisting
The staff of the hotel I’m at left us 4 towels in our room when we first arrived, that’s nice but there’s only two of us?? Thanks tho
they left us 2 more big towels in a bag in front of our door, so now we’ve got 6 big and 4 small ones..
We told the staff we don’t need more towels. Hopefully this’ll solve the problem
Perhaps they misunderstood what we asked of them, but we opened the door to find twice as many towels than what they should leave. Towel count: 10 big and 8 small towels.
We decided to leave a few towels outside in the bag they brought it in so they’ll take them away. Maybe they’ll get the hint.
For some unknown reason, perhaps encouraged by the number of towels we left outside , we arrived home to discover 6 more towels (4 big and 2 small) on our doorstep. This is getting out of hand.
When we arrived today, we found 4 more towels left on our doorstep. We’re leaving tomorrow, so I’m going to describe the current state of our apartment. As you open the door, the first thing you see are 3 big towels on the top of the coathanger. On the first shelf next to the coathanger, 5 towels, 3 big and 2 small, stocked up. Above them hangs a big towel, slightly used. On the floor , covering the small lights so we can sleep, are 4 small towels laid out. On the shelf where the TV is, another towel covering the small light that comes from the TV clock. On the chair there is one small towel, a big one hangs from the back of it. On the table are 3 small towels stocked up. In the bathroom, a small towel is on the floor, slightly soaked, and 4 big towels are stocked up next to the sink, as are 3 small ones. On the towel hanger are 3 small and one big towels, none of them used. Behind the toilet is a shelf, on it are two towels, both used. For future reference, I’d like to note that a stock of towels that contains more than 4 could easily fall over unless they’re supported by a wall from at least 1 side. Dusting is recommended at least 3 times a week, or they’ll get grey with dust. The future towels will be laid out on the floor , as we don’t have space anywhere else. Have a nice day, and accept the towels that are given to you. Live with the towels.
In the original Pokémon theme song, the word "Pokémon" is the same tune as "What Is Love". Same pitches, rhythm and everything.
fun studying tip: if you’re a procrastinator, play tom jones’s “what’s new pussycat” on repeat while writing your papers and do not turn it off until you are finished, it will motivate you to finish that essay as quickly as possible
make sure to throw one “it’s not unusual” in the middle while u take ur quick snack break
Here you have the Infinite Jukebox that will play an infinite version of What’s new pussycat, randomly jumping through the verses and never getting to the end.
do you ever regret a post and the hell it creates
ok this infinite jukebox thing is … FANTASTIC! HERE’S INFINITE BANANAPHONE Never underestimate how disconcerting it is to hear the wrong number of ‘rings’ in Bananaphone. Or maybe that’s just me.
terrifying your own child into submission makes you an abuser.
watching your child cry and screaming at them to stop and invalidating their pain and reasons for crying makes you an abuser.
staring at your child in disgust and contempt after they displease you makes you an abuser.
threatening to your child to take away their basic resources if they don’t give you exactly what you want makes you an abuser.
forcing your child to feel ashamed for not living up to your ideals makes you an abuser.
using slurs, hateful names and insults on your own child without any regard to what it does to their mental health makes you an abuser.
forcing your child to chase impossible expectations and making them feel like they’re worthless for not achieving them makes you an abuser.
acting like your child is a burden and a waste of space and blaming their illness/disability/depression on it makes you an abuser.
behaving like your child will never amount to anything and isn’t worth any resources and nurturing makes you an abuser.
making your child feel like they’re never good enough makes you an abuser.
if your child’s heart is hurting because they know no matter what they do and how hard they try they will always be a failure in your eyes, you are an abuser.
if your child can’t look at themselves without self hatred because they had to look at themselves from your perspective and all they saw is disgust and hatred, you’re an abuser.
If your child is struggling to believe they have the right to live and to be cared and loved, if they can’t stop hearing your hateful voice putting them down and using their every action to prove they’re worthless, you’re an abuser.
If you watched your child in pain and ensured them they deserved it, you’re an abuser.
If your child can’t love themselves from how badly you hated them, you’re an abuser.
Guys, this NEEDS more reblogs.
People go through this all the time regularly, I can hardly name a family in my town whose children don’t tell me stories like the ones above.
Emotional abuse is a real problem these days and the children in those households don’t know that it’s not normal, or at least it shouldn’t be normal, until they are older. If they ever find out at all, that what they went through wasn’t right.
It is not a tool of effective parenting.
And to those children and teens who are going through this today, you are not alone. I know feels like it but you aren’t. You have to do what is best for you sometimes, if distancing yourself from your parents makes it better, do that. If talking to your best friend about it makes you feel better, please do that. This won’t last forever, you will grow up and move out and see that the world loves you.
You are beautiful and strong and I believe you can make it through this.
I honestly hate how art and media have kind of romanticized the idea of like “going off your meds and being your true self again” because like I started taking antidepressants and like immediately got a new job, found a place to live, improved my relationships with people in my life and completely reconciled with my sort of estranged ex-girlfriend?? Medication can be rad and while I realize that it’s not for everybody I don’t think anything should be trying to convince anyone that being on medication inherently makes you less of who you are
(Most) Medication is for helping you to be you again. The real me isn’t tired by just walking to the train station. The real me is not my anxiety or depression. They don’t define me.
The real me is who I am when I’m not anxious and feeling worthless 24/7.
Medication is supposed to be the chemical equivalent of glasses or a wheelchair, depending on the severity of impairment. It tries to help you compensate for what has been taken, been broken, or is missing.
In particular, i always hear the myth that anti-depressants give you “artificial happiness”… no, no, no. They give your brain the ability to be happy. You won’t always be happy, and sometimes you’ll be sad. But the happiness you’re able to feel when you’re on meds is your own, real, happiness.
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE NEUROTYPICALS IN THE BACK!!!
I mean this is important for neurotypicals but it’s honestly more important for people who struggle with mental illness and hate being on meds for a variety of reasons (aka me).
Take away med stigma! Don’t deny yourself something that can help you live a more fulfilling life and don’t shame people for their choices!
Reblog this post if you’ve been having noticeably more vivid dreams recently (anytime within the last two months).
reblog this it rly works!!1
