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I’ve had people asking me about plus-sized binding tips, and I’ve been at a loss because I’m, like, the toy version of a transgender?? So these r for u!

Welcome to Big Brother’s Little Brother!

This blog is for all you transmasculine people out there to find like minded people for advice or just as a friend. If you’re looking for a big or little brother fill in the form in the submissions and send it off. 

Anyone can be a big brother; just as long as you feel that you’re in the position to give advice! 

If you have any questions or suggestions don’t hesitate to send in an ask!

@bigbrothers-littlebrother

-Louie

@transfriends is a blog dedicated to helping transgender people find friends that are also trans, you can sumbit an application or look through who’s already submitted theirs

Here’s to the trans men who can’t come out because of their parents.

Who still have to wear frilly blouses and girls’ jeans because they have no boys clothes.

Who don’t have binders yet.

Who can’t start hormones and aren’t allowed to have hormone blockers.

Who get deadnamed by strangers.

Who still have long hair because they aren’t allowed to get it cut.

You’re still manly, and handsome, and I’m sorry you were born to people who don’t deserve you. Hang in there boys, because someday you’ll be able to escape this awful closet. You won’t be stuck like this forever, I promise.

transfriendly jobs

 i’ve been doing research about jobs/companies that are accepting of trans and the like since i’m going job hunting again next month, and i found this list, which lists trans-friendly businesses. it links to this page, a directory for employers.

tagging so people can see it, i figured this might come in handy for some people!

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOST

Hey transmasculine and gender-variant folx! If you wear a chest binder, I made an Android app that you can use! It reminds you to take off your binder at the end of the day and also to stretch out your back during the day. You can find it in the Google Play store here. 

If you’re having issues with it, or have any feedback for me, I’d love if you could email me at binder.reminder.team@gmail.com. And if you like it, feel free to rate and review it!

Friendly reminder that it’s okay for trans women to still sympathize with the struggles some men face, that it’s ok to still love and feel some level of kinship with some of the men in your life. You were raised to relate to them, and you have certain common experiences.  It’s also okay to feel no connection to any men and to hate the idea of masculinity intensely.  Neither of these invalidate your identity or womanhood.

The story of Jordan Blisk, as told by Jess Ruliffson. I love reading trans stories with a happy ending.

for every trans boy who had a hard time realizing they were trans because they liked stereotypically feminine things: it’s ok and you’re supported

for every trans girl who had a hard time realizing they were trans because they liked stereotypically male things: it’s ok and you’re supported

for every nb person who had a hard time coming to terms with their identity because of the things they liked: it’s ok and you’re supported too

you can be:

and not experience gender dysphoria.

gender dysphoria does not determine if you’re trans.

ATTENTION TRANS PEOPLE

if you are looking for a name change but cant afford the basically $400 like most people then go to your local court house and ask for an “indigent form” that form you will state that you cant afford to change your name. so then it will be free if very little.

feel free to add to this if other states have any more information

Landon told me to do this so when I went to the county clerks office I asked for a fee waiver, I had to go to the law library to get the right paperwork then filled out my income and my monthly expenses and they waived my $290 court fee. I still had to pay for the notary and fingerprints and whatnot before all that but it ended up being around $50 total rather than $300+ definitely look into it if you need some financial help with this process!

Additionally this link had all the info for name changes in TX that I needed: http://www.transequality.org/documents/state/texas

(I think you can go on that site and select other states as well so it should be helpful!)

I know this isn’t exactly fashion but I like rebloging other resources for you lovelies too.

All my nonbinary/trans family

I am here. We are here. 

You are not alone. You are loved. 

I cannot promise anything but my unending work to keep you safe. 

Please don’t give up. 

this vine made me 100% more emotionally stable

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“I can predict the future! …  And you’re going to be OK.”

in case you need this today

November Binder Give Away!

It’s that time again!  On November 15th (some time not long after midnight EST) I will pick three winners using a random number generator.  The winners may pick any binder top from Underworks or gc2b (I’ve used both personally so I’m familiar with them, and can answer questions if you’re unsure which you’d rather receive)

You can check them out at their websites here: www.f2mbinders.com www.gc2b.co

I really want to see more cis boys who like boys being actively supportive of trans boys who like boys bc I’m tired of being afraid to flirt or form friendships with other queer guys bc I don’t know if they really see me as a guy

reblog so more cis boys who like boys can see and support trans boys who love boys