reading, writing, and thinking about books on this rainy, rainy day
Due to personal reasons I will be ignoring canon completely and creating my own au
sir this is my emotional support canon divergence
Girls get made fun of for everything might as well do what you want lol
not to be dramatic but this mentality literally freed me
so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god
okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post
things that made me stop wanting to die that require no effort whatsoever
- change the color used to highlight text on your laptop
- move the pictures on your wall
- stack whatever clutter is in your room into piles even if you don’t have time to clean it all
- slightly vary your commute, even just by one street
- change where you sit and scroll aimlessly on your phone even if it’s only to the chair in your room instead of your bed
- drink water or juice out of a wine glass in the morning because nothing is real
- shower with the lights off, without music
- buy $3 flowers at trader joe’s—they look bad next to the more expensive ones but they look so good in your room
- start typing things you don’t post into your notes. your thoughts can be worth documenting even if you don’t deem them worth sharing
- wake up super early just once. you don’t have to make it a habit it’s just extra satisfying to go to bed that night
- listen to the entirety of your favorite album from 2015
Almost all of these are about variety. Humans need stimulation! We need enrichment! We literally cannot do the same thing every day!
The other day I was feeling miserable, so I hopped on a bus and rode it all the way back to where I’d started, and my brain, which had finally had some proper stimulation via new environments, was suddenly ready to go again!
This is why taking walks/drives and trying new hobbies are good for you! Don’t turn yourself into a sad zoo animal! You need some pumpkins to roll around in your enclosure!
i wrote half an essay in 20mins today when it’s not even due for another 4 weeks, reblog this to have a productivity lightning bolt strike you like it did me today
honey you’re getting caught up in things that don’t matter, take a break.
anyone else read a paragraph of academic prose and then stare at it blankly with no idea what you just read because it’s so clogged with jargon
this is an academia call out post and i’m here for it
🌻 little habits/things to do more of 🌻
dailies
- make your bed. (no, really.)
- set your top 3 to-dos for the day.
- do your top 3 to-dos for the day. (heh)
- stretch.
- unpack your bag when you get home.
- prepare your things for the next day before sleeping.
- skincare. (your basic cleanse and moisturize)
- sweep the floor of your bedroom.
- talk to your plants. (if you have plants)
- update your financial report/expense tracker.
- take a good photo.
- meditate.
- hug at least three people. (seriously.)
weeklies
- polish your school shoes.
- mop your bedroom floor.
- dare i say, laundry. (don’t put it off!)
- exfoliate.
- take a leisure walk.
- review your past week and plan your next week accordingly. (a part of your routine may not be working–try something new)
- make a piece of art. (a sketch, a collage, a quote in pretty lettering, a god-awful poem..)
- sanitize your gadgets. (whip out the wet tissue and wipe away at your phone, your laptop, your mouse, your earphones–just don’t forget to IMMEDIATELY follow that up with a dry cloth to prevent fogging and short circuits)
- watch a TED Talk.
- make a new playlist.
monthlies
- wash your bag.
- wash your shoes.
- change the sheets of your bed and your pillows.
- clip your nails. (honestly)
- wax/shave. (if you want. i just really like how fresh my skin feels after i torture it with razors and wax strips)
- wipe your shelves/the tops of your furniture clean. (try to avoid dusting. it just scatters the dirt everywhere. use a damp cloth instead)
- see if there’s anything in your storage that you don’t need/want anymore and give stuff away or sell them.
- review your month and plan the next one accordingly. (just like your weeks. remember to refer to your Life Goal/Year’s Goals page)
- finish reading at least one book. (and review it!)
- discover new songs.
- 🍂
hey this thing has more than 20, 000 notes. how even..??
just wanna remind y'all that these are just ideas on things you can do everyday to improve your life a bit. it’s not an all-or-nothing situation. they’re supposed to be choices to pick from, not a checklist for optimal living routine™. if you can’t do them all, you’re not hopeless or a failure.
IF YOU CANT HANDLE ME AT MY WORST, JUST REMEMBER THAT I HANDLE ME AT MY WORST AND THAT MAKES ME STRONGER THAN YOU
Oh my goodness this makes me feel powerful I hadn’t even thought of it like this.
i love Legally Blonde so much. all of the women are so supportive of each other im??
- when Elle was supposed to get engaged, none of the girls were jealous, they were genuinely happy for her n helped her get ready for the big dinner
- when her bf broke up with her they were supportive
- when Elle says she wants to go to harvard the counselor lady is like but ur major is fashion, do u have any backup plan? n elle is like nope im going to harvard n the lady is like okay then here’s what u gotta do.
- her friends didnt get why she wanted to go to law school but supported her anyway, and helped her study
- when she got 179 on her exam (more than her goal), they treated her like a queen
and that’s only in the first 18 minutes of the movie
Legally Blonde is a “girl power” movie with killer inspirational and positive attitude disguised as a stereotypical blonde movie.
things you deserve this 2018:
- pure love
- a kind heart
- prosperity
- genuine happiness
- honesty and transparency
- softness
- hope
- good art
- clear skin
I’m sorry I don’t post much here but I hit 100k followers today and I’m??? Thank you so much 😭 here have a spread from my personal journal to maybe get to know me better!! (I was inspired by Lavendaire) I love you!! ♥️
it doesn’t matter how good you’re doing, those sad nights will creep up on you from time to time and that’s ok. doesn’t mean all your progress is gone
i’m going to reach my goal this year. i’m going to work so fucking hard and make no more shitty excuses.