I've been trying so hard to find motivation to reply to some of the messages I have about the tritype test results, and it's still just not there yet, so if you're still waiting on that, I sincerely apologize.
There's just been a lot going on irl and it's been a MESS. đ€Šđ»ââïž
Since the enneagram tritype test I made and posted on Qzzr has been taken down for a while, I figured that I might as well post the âtestâ here. If youâd like, feel free to send me your answers, (Message/reblog) and Iâd be happy to discuss your results with you.Â
1.) Select all of your fears. - The fear of deprivation and pain. - The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity. - The fear of being evil or corrupt. - The fear of being harmed or controlled by others. - The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others. - The fear of loss and separation from others. - The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless. - The fear of being helpless and inadequate. - The fear of being without support or guidance.
2) Choose your three worst tendencies. - Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults. - Conserving everything for yourself. - Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults. - Becoming anxious about things that might happen. - Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more. - Wanting to acquire what other people have. - Thinking that others canât help themselves as much as you can. - Constantly expressing anger. - Not taking action.
3.) How do you express anger? - Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger. - Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness. - Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing oneâs self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies.
4.) How do you express shame? - Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback. - Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel. - Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain.
5.) How do you express fear? - Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment. - Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown. - Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within.
6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you. - Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive. - Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic. - Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious. - Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive. - Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing. - Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal. - Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive. - Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive. - Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant.
7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Optimistic. Escapist. Adventurous. Extrospective. Compulsive. Hasty. Futuristic. Versatile. Exuberant. Curious. Experiential. Vivacious. Entertaining. Bold. Spontaneous. Enthusiastic. Excessive. Occupied. Materialistic. Pleasure-Seeking.
8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Dominant. Conning. Autonomous. Self-Confident. Direct. Powerful. Willful. Charismatic. Dynamic. Destructive. Insensitive. Exhibitionistic. Assertive. Protective. Honest. Decisive. Confrontational. Strong. Demonstrative. Aggressive.
9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Melancholic. Emotional. Sensitive. Refined. Individualistic. Introspective. Self-Absorbed. Temperamental. Pessimistic. Self-Centered. Socially Awkward. Romantic. Negative Self-Image. Low Self-Esteem. Shy. Idealistic. Complex. Self-Expressive. Self-Indulgent. Fantasizing.
10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Expressive. Interpersonal. Empowering. Intrusive. Manipulative. Nurturing. Histrionic. Caring. Helpful. Supportive. Prideful. Demanding. Empathetic. Selfless. Entitled. Hysterical. Friendly. Approval-Seeking. Needy. Kindhearted.
11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Over-Adaptive. Resigning. Paradoxical. Habit-Bound. Distractible. Easygoing. Self-Effacing. Receptive. Agreeable. Stable. Complacent. Indomitable. Conciliatory. Submissive. Passive-Aggressive. Stubborn. Self-Forgetful. Indecisive. Conflict-Avoidant. Unclear.
12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Alert. Inventive. Isolated. Contemplative. Private. Fearfully-Uncertain. Independent. Self-Motivated. Withholding. Cold. Insightful. Detached. Observant. Eccentric. Cynical. Cerebral. Analytical. Self-Sufficient. Hypersensitive. Intuitive.
13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Success-Oriented. Adaptable. Driven. Image-Conscious. Successful. Paragon. Attention-Seeking. Self-Deceptive. Vain. Deceitful. Superficial. Relentless. Insecure. Self-Promoting. Narcissistic. Competitive. Career-Focused. Ambitious. Opportunistic. Motivating.
14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Self-Criticizing. Critical. Perfectionistic. Controlling. Self-Righteous. Principled. Obsessive. Purist. Realistic. Ethical. Punitive. Disciplined. Rational. Dogmatic. Responsible. Reformer. Fixated. Detail-Oriented. Anger-Rejecting. Serious.
15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. Security-Oriented. Cautious. Suspicious. Trustworthy. Evasive. Cooperative. Doubtful. Rigid. Dedicated. Mindful. Anxious. Reliable. Committed. Defensive. Loyal. Trusting. Ambivalent. Worrying. Perseverant. Concerned.
16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else. - True. - False.
17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to - My self image of a successful, valuable person. - My association/loyalty to important people/groups. - My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world. - None of these.
18.) I am confrontational. - True. - False.
19.) I avoid suffering of any kind. - True. - False.
20.) My emotional guard is - Down, so I can let others in. - Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe. - Up, I donât want anyone to see my vulnerable side.
21.) I wish to be truly understood. - True. - False.
22.) I feel frustrated with - Things that donât live up to my standards, because I care about making things better. - That being different doesnât get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated. - The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience.
23.) To further avoid rejection, I - Try to love others so much that others wonât reject me. - Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection. - Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it.
24.) I often pretend that my fears donât exist. - True. - False.
25.) I will do anything to hear Iâm valued. - True. - False.
26.) I openly express my anger. - True. - False.
27.) I have something missing that I must find. - True. - False.
28.) I donât enjoy introspection, because I donât like what I find. - True. - False.
29.) I get angry at and criticize myself. - True. - False.
30.) I can relate to, âI have value in the eyes of othersâ. - True. - False.
31.) When confronted with a problem, I - Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account. - Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent. - Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own. - None of these.
32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can. - True. - False.
33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want. - True. - False.
34.) I try to keep myself distracted. - True. - False.
35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger. - True. - False.
36.) Others notice my anger before I do. - True. - False.
37.) I refer to my anger as resentment. - True. - False.
38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful. - True. - False.
39.) I feel annoyed when others donât follow the rules. - True. - False.
40.) I try to never show my anger. - True. - False.
41.) I tend to hide the fact that Iâm vulnerable behind anger. - True. - False.
42.) I can relate to, âWhy not be angry? Itâs only an emotionâ. - True. - False.
43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone elseâs problems. - True. - False.
44.) I need feedback from others to know Iâm valued. - True. - False.
45.) I feel hurt if someone doesnât give me the validation I need. - True. - False.
46.) I avoid the shame I feel. - True. - False.
47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others. - True. - False.
48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive. - True. - False.
49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others. - True. - False.
50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am. - True. - False.
51.) I feel deficient, since Iâm not like everyone else. - True. - False.
52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity. - True. - False.
53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it. - True. - False.
54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed. - True. - False.
55.) I detach from my emotions. - True. - False.
56.) Iâm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions. - True. - False.
57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty. - True. - False.
58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure. - True. - False.
59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior. - True. - False.
60.) I am suspicious of the unknown. - True. - False.
61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world. - True. - False.
62.) I choose to adapt in order to - Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation. - Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security. - Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony. - None of these.
63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal - Autonomy; Perfection and self control. - Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me. - Security and contentment; What awaits. - None of these.
64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is - My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can. - My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated. - My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength. - None of these.
65.) I get into conflicts by being - Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed. - Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful. - Too willful, defiant and confrontational. - None of these.
66.) I get into conflicts by being - Too clingy, worried and self-important. - Impatient, irresponsible and excessive. - Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn. - None of these.
67.) I get into conflicts by being - Too impatient, rigid and critical. - Too competitive, insincere and boastful. - Too detached, isolated and provocative. - None of these.
68.) In terms of needs, I tend to - Reject my own in favor of the needs of others. - Reject the needs of others in favor for my own. - Try to balance the needs of others with my own.
69.) I am non-confrontational. - True. - False.
70.) I donât like to acknowledge that I get angry. - True. - False.
71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive. - True. - False.
72.) I express my anger to get what I want. - True. - False.
When someone catches onto the fact that you're someone who likes to help others and starts to ask you for 10 million things and you start to get overwhelmed but you can't tell them to leave you alone because they might get upset and you don't have enough energy to deal with the conflict because they used up all your energy so you hope they'll eventually get distracted long enough for you to attempt to recharge, but then they call your name again and your dumb ass walks in like:
"I am ebola, but emotionally, I am not even here. I talk like I'm never completely sure what's happening, but express my energy in a completely untethered way. In love, I want a partner who is a misunderstood butterfly with broken wings. Before they get to know me, people perceive me as a disappointed dad".
Go look under ne-thing-mbti 's enneagram tags--whoever they are they know they stuff and can help u know what u enneagrams is. They did me!
Will do, thanks!
Whenever someone says Iâm kind and patient:
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take this zodiac personality test and then tell me your sun&moon + Â what you gotÂ
im a Cancer Sun & Pisces Moon, and i got Scorpio lmao, nice
iâm a taurus sun + aries moon, and i got scorpio
Iâm a Cancer Sun + Aries Moon, and I got Gemini
taurus sun + capricorn moon, i got aries
Pisces sun + Pisces moon. I got Aries.
me: hey ni user: what the fuck does that mean,,, What does hey mean what are you trying to say I bet youâre trying to say something you are trying to say and Iâm going to assume that by hey you meant greeting but I just I know what you mean I think,,,, I know,,,,,,,, what you mean
Core
1: Goody two shoesâŠ.
2: Clingy helperâŠ.
3: NarcissistâŠ.
4: Emo artistâŠ.
5: NerdâŠ.
6: Anxious normieâŠ.
7: Perpetual childâŠ.
8: Scary tough guyâŠ.
9: Chill boring personâŠ.
Wing
w1: âŠ.who has a stick up their ass
w2: âŠ.who only wants to be loved
w3: âŠ.who wants to be noticed
w4: âŠ.who wants to be special
w5: âŠ.who is pretentious and intellectual
w6: âŠ.who is anxious
w7: âŠ.who likes to have fun
w8: âŠ.who sometimes starts fistfights
w9: âŠ.who would rather take a nap
People are too obsessed with excavating their emotions . Sometimes there is no insight to be wrought youâre just melodramatic and a bitch
No. There is always a reason behind emotions and feelings. You just suck at finding why. Or overthinking when you need a moment of your time to just feel. But if you are really over reacting and âbeing a bitchâ, it is even more a reason to me to question why. Something somewhere is not going well within you if you become such a mess.
For The Masses:
no one coulda reblogged this a month ago when i spent 500
Look at KB coming through
Every time you see this, reblog it. There is always someone in college that will see this.
everyone else always seems to fucking get cool shit and i always get like âgel manipulationâ and âusing dust along w/ your fighting styleâ
Vampire immunity and pain embodiment.
Omniscience bestowal and benevorous
Hyperspace travel and function impairment.
"According to these articles I read, pessimists see reality more clearly than optimists!"
Okay, but:
Pessimism: "A tendency to see the worst aspect of things or believe that the worst will happen; a lack of hope or confidence in the future."
Optimism: "Hopefulness and confidence about the future or the successful outcome of something."
Regardless of whether you're an optimist or a pessimist, you don't see reality "more clearly" or really "clearly" at all.
Pessimists fail to interpret reality correctly because their interpretations are often negative, bastardized versions of 'truth' and are insanely quick to dismiss/doubt something that sounds even remotely positive (Often without taking those things into consideration because they're 'shallow').
Optimists fail to interpret reality correctly because their interpretations are subject to skip over the situation and into 'What if's', thereby sometimes leading to flat out ignoring of issues that are even slightly 'problematic' or an 'inconvenience' (Also without taking those things into consideration because they're 'restrictive').
Main point being: Seek out perspectives that contradict your own and allow you to improve yourself.
would an sp blind ever care about fitness or eating healthy?
Yes??? I think people forget that variants donât dictate every single aspect of your behaviour and life
I think a good explanation for all those kind of asks would be your blindspot doesnât mean youâre actually incapable of doing or seeing the things which are associated to it (ie: sx blinds having bonds/friends/hobbies, so blinds seeing obvious stuff or being capable of some so in order to get a job or something and sp blinds being capable of living decently). It might be a blindspot but you still have that instinct, the problem is that its presence and your interest on it are very limited. Itâs something youâre not naturally interested in and youâre not very good at it either. Sp blinds will find sp stuff boring and tiring but theyâre capable of doing it if itâs really necessary. Sx blinds will see sx stuff as unstable and confusing but that doesnât mean they cannot create meaningful bonds with other people. So blinds will see so stuff as overcomplicated and stupid but they can use so to not to get fired from their job for example.
Still the instinct of your blindspot will never be as good as a dominant or a secondary instinct and unless youâre overfocusing on it, you wonât have much interest on its matters either. Sort of a âuhhh yeah I know itâs there and I should probably try to learn more about it but nhhhhhh maybe laterâ.
So yeah, itâs your blindspot but youâre not actually blind.
I've been trying to figure out whether I use Fi or Fe for so long, and I'm so lost on how to determine if I use Fi. Do you know how to describe Fi usage that I could spot in myself? (If I use Fi).
Spotting Fi use in yourself can be difficult, and hereâs why: Fi is similar to Si in that itâs very, very subjective - the resulting identity is built around various things the user has latched on to, so individual users might not identify with descriptions of the functions at all because, by the time they discover typology, itâs been a very long time since theyâve experienced the workings of these functions in a raw format.
While Si latches on to whatâs familiar to it, Fi latches on to what itâs deemed as âimportant.â So, if an Fi user has decided at some point that itâs important to be accommodating and socially aware, they may identify more with Fe descriptions (for example).
However, Fi is easy to spot by outsiders who are familiar with the functions. Fi users, like Ti users, are concerned with specifics, but while Ti users are interested in systematic specifics, Fi users are focused on personal specifics. Fi users are put off by generalizations and will want people (themselves included) to fully get to know others before deciding what they are like - a strangerâs inner workings are not their business. For example, we donât want to jump to the conclusion that someone is in a bad mood if they arenât smiling - weâll think âoh, well, what if theyâre sick? then, if I make the conclusion that theyâre an all-around irritable person off this one impression, Iâll feel like an asshole.â Things like that. Anyone can feel/think this way under the right circumstances, but for Fi users, itâs a pervasive trend.
Fi (like any function), has some âbuzzwordsâ. Fi users tend to be concerned with whatâs âhumaneâ and âmature.â Fi users will have little trouble parting from or acting against the will of a group if they dislike the groupâs ethics and behavior. Most other types must learn this skill as they age while Fi users have it from early on, so, one judgment we *are* quick to make is that people who go along with group mentality even when itâs cruel or stupid are âimmature.â
I hope this helps!
If both parents are as example so-blind, theoretically their child canât be so-blind since they wouldnât force so-activities on it right? So basically kids canât have the same blindspot as their parents or at least 1 parent
Reblog with ur parents and your iv
Dad- sp/so // Mum- Sx/so // Me- Sp/sx // Older sis- sp/sx // Younger sis- so/sp // Youngest sis- sx/so
Mom - So/Sx. Dad - Sp/Sx. Me - Sx/So.
My siblings are Sp/So, Sp/So, Sp/Sx, and So/Sx.
