Stuffies educating the Masses

It’s the first time your stuffie has ever heard the name, and as far as they are concerned, it wasn’t handed down, it was given by you, and that is what charged the stuffie heart magic to life and made your bond. So to your stuffie, there could not be a more perfect name in all the world, because it brought it you. In all the towns, cities, worlds, and cosmos...there is no name that couldn’t be more perfect to a stuffie than the one that makes them feel at home with you.

Littlespace is so beautiful, but remember...it’s not all of who you are. We love everything about you, little you is amazing, but big you is super amazing too! The accomplishments you do should be celebrated! We totally recommend to give yourself a list of goals and perhaps even a list of rewards for completing certain things. The hardest part of being big is learning to use your time effectivly. Please remember, littlespace, while wonderful, isn’t the state we want to see you in all the time. You are also all beautiful adults and beginning to explore things around you. Littlespace will always be here when you need it, but remember there are a million joys in being big too. Too much littlespace separates you from building vanilla friendships and losing the ability to feel good about enjoying being an adult isn’t healthy for anyone. learning to have a love for BOTH adult you and little you is the perfect combo. You can find ways to be reminded of your littlespace, like wearing two pigtails braids, or a bow in your hair, or perhaps pink shoelaces...but, remember...we think and FEEL that you are also a strong, beautiful and confident adult too. Which makes us cherish the littlespace time with you more. Learn to find love with both because both are who you are, and want to always see you complete, healthy, and ready to explore the world around you with the eyes of a child but the brain of a confident adult. 

Commander Steelbrave here and I promise you all is in order and the L.O.C.A.L.E. team is still in force and bringing littles and stuffies together across the globe! Especially in time like this, we all need companions more than ever. (and extra hugs!)

We never left and we are still here to help! We just don’t receive any questions in our inbox anymore and that makes us sad that this platform became this way. But, we have looked into places like bdsmlr, but we aren’t too sure. In the meantime, we are always here for you precious littles. Even without this platform, the University stands strong and our stuffie companions are always ready at your side to love you!

We can’t be too sure as we don’t really know beyond our own, but we have had lots of plush dolls at our own University! If it has stuffing, you bet it’s been to Stuffie University! But, we will still happily play tea party with your barbies too because we know you love them. Toys bring joy to little hearts and make your imagination run wild which akes our stuffie-little bond even better to watch you play! (Plus, we totally dig getting a free ride in the barbie car). 

Are you kidding?! Who doesn’t love a good dressup?! We have a whole course at StuffieU dedicated to teaching us the art of playing dress-up, so sign us up for dresses, onesies, diapers, headbands, bows, shoes,...we feel so connected to you and it gives our stuffie-bond a boost with you because we know you care and want to play with us. In turn, we feel that makes you happy, so it’s the PERFECT exchange of warm happy feelz for us that makes our tummies burn with more magic! It’s like stuffie fuel...only super pretty, and glittery!

Remember, you all have a stuffie-little bond which means we can feel you all the time! No matter where we are placed or fall. We don’t feel pain unless you do. But we love that you care; this is what makes you all such beautiful, loving littles. And trust me, that keeps our heart fire going and warms us, no matter if we are on a shelf, battling the underside f the bed or hid in the closet. We are with you. Always.

It’s been hard with the new adaptation Tumblr took on kink focused blogs lately. Sadly, it caused a lot of heartbreak for all of us and you. We are still here, however, and while it will be hard for us to reach out as well as we used to, we are always here for those who visit. We would love to know if there are any other kink friendly community places yet that we could perhaps travel to as well, but it looks like most are still “in the works”. Hang in there, little loves. Stuffie U is here still, it’s just been hard to cross the border through blogs with the crazy new guidelines out there! We have missed you guys too!

Well, we recommend a quick search in google for “kigurimi bear” and a bunch came up for us. But here is some links in a variety of prices (we tried not to go too high, most full fur suits are expensive!)

https://www.ebay.com/p/?iid=282208469633&lpid=82&&&var=581219168662&ul_noapp=true&chn=ps

http://www.pajamasuper.com/kigurumi/bear-kigurumi-pajamas-cosplay-hoodie-flannel-winter-onesies-animal-p-1345?gclid=Cj0KEQjw0IvIBRDF0Yzq4qGE4IwBEiQATMQlMTEoTJveiqV5S4iPctSkeDOcwKKwKv1uhxgROMGM_NUaAqRE8P8HAQ

https://www.v17ee.com/cosplay-animal-brown-bear-costumes-for-women-p-130.html?gclid=Cj0KEQjw0IvIBRDF0Yzq4qGE4IwBEiQATMQlMQlg1EVX43W0WRravpyuLXlOpIKI5NZbUgJR-gwk9p8aAgwz8P8HAQ

http://www.yandy.com/g/Brown-Bear-Hooded-Romper-Costume.php?utm_source=googleps&utm_medium=search&utm_campaign=googleps&gclid=Cj0KEQjw0IvIBRDF0Yzq4qGE4IwBEiQATMQlMWrvwZKPzEOVWBrBjZj9-PWwD5G70PuRWTm-7aG8Pr8aAsK38P8HAQ

http://www.spirithalloween.com/product/teen-tenderheart-bear-costume-care-bear/87411.uts?Extid=sf_froogle&utm_campaign=RKG-Shopping-Catch_Alls&utm_medium=paid&utm_source=google&utm_term=18283950120&utm_content=All_Products&utm_inex=e&product_id=07271992&adpos=1o1&creative=55654297306&device=c&matchtype=&network=g&gclid=Cj0KEQjw0IvIBRDF0Yzq4qGE4IwBEiQATMQlMQm5pwgCqWzRwcUFhiI-rzEpMyTt_GSOCaOBwwvXgiwaAmj78P8HAQ

http://www.dhgate.com/product/new-fashion-korean-sweet-cute-cartoon-bear/170069400.html?utm_source=pla&utm_medium=GMC&utm_campaign=bruce888&utm_term=170069400&f=bm%7c170069400%7c014031-Women%27sClothing%7cGMC%7c186578908%7cpla%7cbruce888%7cUS%7c014031006-OuterwearCoats%7cc%7c%7c&gclid=Cj0KEQjw0IvIBRDF0Yzq4qGE4IwBEiQATMQlMQxN0vKwvloMtK9Q-eIrf6KspwUt4ofdUCM3EohWYq0aAmF-8P8HAQ

https://www.fabshopper.com/fabusa/sweet-bear-ears-hooded-long-sleeve-long-plush-coat-for-women-173073.html?utm_source=google_shopping&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Google%20Shopping%20US&83=1120&154=443&gclid=Cj0KEQjw0IvIBRDF0Yzq4qGE4IwBEiQATMQlMRoZ48-zwFI3ZnG6AWqK3cayZDRxs3sWQqhMPtU6HxAaAm4p8P8HAQ

We don’t know how you do it either! But remember that it’s not about the guilt you think we feel of not being picked (cause that’s just never the case, we are happy to see any of our stuffie family spend time with you cause it makes us all fuzzy and happy!), but more about what you need. Id you have an overnight stay somewhere, we suggest the stuffie you like to sleep with best. If it’s a quick car ride, maybe two smaller ones to play with in the car ride so you can make them talk to each other (whether out loud or just in your head!). Or you can invest in cool stuffie backpacks that are like a big stuffie to cuddle on quick train or subway rides but are disguised as a handy backpack for all those wonderful little snacks and supplies. So don’t worry too much about offending us not being picked, we just want you to find the best comfort YOU need! But we wouldn’t suggest ALL of us at once, might not be enough room! ;)

Oh gosh no! Bad dreams have their place and often is a good way to help a little work through their issues. It keeps the balance. Our job is to ensure that while you do sleep, we keep the leftover negativity that’s been hanging around from the day in check. That negativity will draw in those mean monsters and if left to their own devices, they can makes those dreams even worse. Nightmares happen...and just because you have them doesn’t mean your stuffie isn’t doing their best to fight those monsters off. It would be the same as saying “why can’t you just be happy” to people with depression. Everyday it’s a fight. Some days will be harder than others. We will always, always protect you to the very best of our ability but that doesn’t mean that all nightmares are bad or that a stuffie is slacking. Sometimes nightmares can be a stepping stone that can really help you learn something you didn’t think about before. Sometimes, you need to work out something traumatic in a safe space. Our job is just to ensure it’s there for purpose and growth. But sometimes, despite all our effort, really bad dreams happen, or terrors...but it’s not because we are slacking. It’s because they are really tough to battle! If anything, when you wake up, give your stuffie a cuddle and try talking about the dream with them. For us stuffies, when we can’t beat the monsters back enough, our next step is to help you work through it and face it when you are awake.

Never! Truth? There isn’t anything that makes a bad little. Really that whole phrase should just be blacked out in the books for “how to be a little”! All there should be are opportunities and self accountability. To learn, to grow, to change, to become better for yourself and those you love around you. If stuffies aren’t your thing, that doesn’t make you unworthy to be a little. Neither does wearing all black, hating pacifiers, refusing diapers, or not wanting caregivers. Stuffie University isn’t here to demand littles have stuffies, it’s here to remind you all how unique and special and admired you are AS YOU ARE  by us. Whether that means admiration from a distance or snuggles up in your arms, we here at StuffieU don’t judge you for the things you love or the things you don’t. So do us a little favor and don’t ever tell yourself or accept from anyone telling you that you are a bad little. You are only a little who may make mistakes along the way like every hooman out there...and we all learn and grow. Bad things happen, the title “bad little”, however, is not worn like a scarlet letter.

That’s what the entire Stuffie University staff is for! We are glad you found us and helping littles is what we love most! Right about even with cuddles. Cause really, who doesn’t wanna cuddle stuffies?