Okay, I'm sorry this was so long coming but it kind of took me a minute to get there. First off, thank you for clarifying this isn't for kink. Secondly, this was a tall order. Pretty much Everything online available is ddlg. I'm sure you know that. I did find... This website, which sells pacifiers with "larger" nipples, made for ppl "13 and up". Here's the thing abt this website. I get a really really WEIRD vibe from it, but not..nessecarily a kink vibe? Just real fucking weird. They also sell regular baby products along side adult sized versions of the same products. So, do what you will with this information, it's about as vanilla as I could find. Perhaps my followers will know better. http://www.baby-pants.com/pacifiers.php