Aww fatphobia got you down?

Everyone has their preferences when it comes to dating. So, that's a hot take on that.

It's a privilege to date/have a significant other. It's not something that is necessary. Being consensual is always a plus. If the person doesn't like ya they just don't, and no amount of convincing will change that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don't understand what your asking for the second?

So, imma take it as why I say that phrase usually at the end. Just want people to be healthy mentally and physically, but I know realistically that can't happen all of the time just due to living life. Everyone goes through different scopes of life. That's pretty much it....

Have a blessed day. Stay healthy and continue on.

Not sure if this is a troll or not but ok...?

Good for you?

Just don't binge on food, eat till your content. Take stomach pills if it goes wrong...

Hmm could be body dysmorphia.

I went through that myself and am still having a touch and go with it. I used to be smaller and healthier. Now I have gone through yo yo stages. I've gotten stretch marks and skin hang from losing from what I gained.

Would this be considered fatphobia maybe a little since there are people who don't want to have to go through the consequences of being overweight or obese. Since it usually comes with a lot of health issues.

But a quick take is that to start loving yourself to where you feel comfortable with the body you have and go for both mental and physical health. Take your time with it and not go for quick fixes, because in the long run they usually make situations worse off than what it was in the beginning.

This is just from my own experiences along with some research as well.

I hope that whatever journey you take will bring you happiness and comfortability.

I love the trolls.

Clearly they are triggered by the pic of the blog pic. 🤣

Wow alot to unpack here.

All the information I have you can find online in the .gov or either public research medical studies that you can read. Such as

Any people who have done the research and testing can be found there.

This has nothing to do with the "right wingers". Just because you don't agree with it doesn't mean that there wasn't researched done on it Hun. They are also credible.

As for mental health well that's still new in regards to research. Last I checked only 5 dos volumes have been made. You see it takes time to figure out what the heck is going on with the human body let alone the brain. As we keep on living there is an adaptation process as well. Not to mention environmental/social changes that cause different outcomes to how humans react. Heck depression wasn't even a thought until recent. There are just too many factors to what could be causing mental disorders, and it's not just because someone's feelings were hurt. At the end of the day they are just words on here, so why get triggered? Unless it was something that happened in the past, and from there you just do deduction. I literally have had to do that myself. I figured out that I have suppressed certain things that have happened in the past, and reasons as to why it caused panic attacks or binge eating. There isn't a pill to make that disappear unless you actually have a chemical malfunction in the brain, and those cases aren't as common as once thought. 🤷🏻‍♀️ You have to do the work on yourself and use exercises to help with the process, and it's not a short period of doing this but years possibly.

As for the tearing down monuments blog I did. The full article shortened, was me stating that since we are getting rid of certain parts of history we are doomed to repeat. That's a saying for a reason, and hurt feelings isn't going to change what happened in the past.

Fascism has nothing to do with the health problems that people are facing due to unhealthy eating and living. It's hard work to not take shortcuts for health. I'm not saying that I haven't fallen into it, because I have and am still trying to get healthy before it becomes irreversible. Once your health goes down it goes down fast. There have already been a couple pro fat activists that have either changed their livelihood or just straight up die. Being fat is not sustainable, and comes with more cons than pros.

Facts have been served to your wishy washy anon comment/question.

Alrighty then. Hi?

Have many different hobbies thanks for the thought. You know knitting, sewing, baking, watching anime, and being a wife. Along with doing research and getting different ideas for school again. Cuz pandemic kinda fudged alot of plans I did have. 😁

Life as someone who isn't super social. Many things have changed since the pandemic. Loss of a few close family members either to cancer or they just died of old age complications.

It's a blog that I come back to every so often. Usually just to answer questions like this.

🤷🏻‍♀️ give er take who knows what's gonna happen next. Life is weird like that.

Kudos to you and your exciting life on Tumblr where you're literally doing same thing probably. It's ok to be a shut in the closet. Hope you have a wonderful self discovery of who you are 🤗

I'm on here every so often. Life getting busy. Xp

Congratulations on getting to a weight that makes you feel confident and healthy.

Agreed on the fat positivity statement.

Again congratulations and hope everything keeps going well for you Hun! 😁

Cravings, that's a broad statement in all honesty. 🤷🏻‍♀️

You could crave liquids, solids, or certain vitamins that could be missing from your daily intake that your body wants.

I'm guessing what the FAs is stating is that you shouldn't say no to any food that you want and when you want it. Which is a double edge sword, because that depends on your health. Because there is disordered eating, such as being a binge eater, which is pretty much consuming regardless if your full or not. Wouldn't say that this is fat phobic, but pretty much adding more problems to your health. Especially if you don't have a healthy relationship with your food.

As for your steak scenario. You could go with a lean steak and instead of butter use a pam type of spray for the oil to fry it. If you need that much steak to feel full how about adding fiber such as squash, cauliflower, broccoli, green beans. Which those could be steamed with added seasoning for flavor. (Also would help with your cholesterol) Plus it helps you go poop really well. If your doing it before bedtime then would wait a while before going to sleep, because then you would get indigestion. Also, if you're wanting to eat that much before bedtime it could be that your not eating enough during the day.

Also be sure to stay hydrated by drinking a good amount of water, because sometimes when you think you're hungry it could be that your actually thirsty.

Hope this helps. Have a good day 🤗

Ok mixing two things here. Fat acceptance is an occult that does glorify obesity, and the body positivity movement was swarmed by people of fat acceptance. So that cause is not what it was when it started.

Also, are you for real? I mean for real though you are gonna compare racism with y'all wanting the fat acceptance to be accepted?! You can't change the color of your skin, but you can change your weight boo boo. Racism and what y'all perceive as fat phobia is Not The Fucking Same Thing!

Also, in no way did I say that racism was ok in that post! Just stated forgetting the history and following what the media and gov are saying is what's bringing racism back! We were almost done with that shit, but nooo cancel movement want to act like it didn't happen along with the media which is controlled by the gov wants us to be at each others throat!

I suggest you educate yourself and figure out what exactly you perceive as discrimination, because boo boo this is not the same!

Fat acceptance is toxic asf. To me it's a literal occult, because being ok with being fat is like saying I'm waiting here to die.

body positivity had it right until the fat acceptance swarmed in and took over. There are so many people who think being unhealthy is ok. There are way too many health issues that come with just staying fat.

Also, people with mental issues have to take medication that literally fucks up their hormones or other severe side effects. They can't help what happens to their bodies entirely, but they do try to get healthy physically as well. As for the people who are disabled they try as well to get healthy, and there are exercises that were made to help with that!

It's not being virtuous on my part just stating the facts, and from what I've witnessed with friends, families, and coworkers. 🤷🏻‍♀️

You're right on the whole we can't tell if someone has an eating disorder or disability.

It's the people who are just fine with being fat and ignore the science that are the problem. Like Tess holiday with her whole jig of saying that she is healthy when she isn't. Not to mention literally making a cult of people who openly harass you if you try to get healthy. In their group they will treat you like the enemy if you try that. Meanwhile, when she started to exercise she said that was fine? Yea, pretty much hypocritical, and not to mention she robbed her followers as well with the t-shirt incident.

As for the bmi it's a tool not the end all be all. Just like a weight scale. It's the doctors who go by it as a reference, and if they are using it as the end all be all then I would just disregard it. bc not everyone will have the same structure that was used for it. It's best to go with your judgement as well, because we know our bodies as well.

I get it it's frustrating as hell, because there are people who will openly insult you. Especially when they don't know the full story. All in all there are alot of assholes in this world.

Hope you have a better day! ☺️

They're weird and like to seem complicated. I mean technically they make things overly complicated for themselves by trying to be something that they're not. To me all in all the fa community seems more like a cult that doesn't wanna face reality.

Well have a good day and stay blessed.

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