Either people need to learn how to tell the difference between an “I’m sorry” that takes direct responsibility and an “I’m sorry” that signifies sympathy, or I’m gonna start responding to unfortunate information with a solemn nod and a “Sympies,” because I am tired of receiving a “Why? It wasn’t your fault” every time I try to vocalize compassion.
I'm forwarding all of you my next therapy bill.
I so vividly remember learning in English class that English people say “I’m sorry” to express sympathy only to watch hundreds of movie and tv scenes of characters responding with “it’s not your fault”. So clearly people do say it but for some reason not one person interprets it correctly.
[ID: tumblr tags: #my sympies for the unforchies :( /end ID]