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Lex

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✨Mars Atmakaraka✨

Mars Atmakarakas are the forgotten ones. They have to constantly prove themselves because people constantly doubt them. They’re constantly misunderstood by being called aggressive and violent, but that’s not the case. Growing up they had a hard time making friends because they were cast-typed as weird for their huge personality. They either had to tone down their personality to fit in or they unapologetically loved themselves.

They were often ignored by people growing up which made them learn they have to raise their voices in order to be heard. Depending on what house and placement their Mars Atmakaraka is in they sometimes have to use violence to be heard. People with a Mars Atmakarakas aren’t aggressive or violent. They’re constantly push to extreme when people constantly dismiss their feelings and make them feel small. In order for people to respect their boundaries they sometimes have to act in harsh way.

People with this Atmakaraka have a hard time expressing how they feel. Sometimes they explode and regret behaving that way. They constantly learning and working on expressing how they feel in a more verbal way. Their parents had a huge impact on them. They’re usually closer to their dads. If you’re a Mars Atmakaraka that identifies as a women you grew up as a tomboy. Their parentd relationships a little rocky, because their dads played into the manly manly archetype.

Even though their dads were considered manly manly they were extremely sweet to them. If that’s not the case than their dads could have been extremely abusive and they detached themselves for them. Their childhoods really shaped their way of communication. They could have been picked on for the way their body looked. It was either about them being too skinny or too big. They sometimes struggle with their weight. They’ll eventually maintain their weight as they grow.

They tend to be extremely athletic and good at sports. It’s the perfect way for them to release stress. Even if they don’t work out as much they still have a toned or an athletic looking body. They’re usually average height people. They’re outgoing, funny, friendly, sweet, innovative, if you’re really close to them you’ll see they have a heart of gold, but due to the hardships they’ve experienced they tuck it away from society.

Some Mar Atmakarakas have a gothic fashion sense. People sometimes think that they’re scary for dressing this way, but they don’t care because that’s who they are. As they grow they don’t care about anyone’s opinion but their own as they age. They become self-assured and gain confidence. People often talk bad about them out of envy. They realize they’re the main character in their own world and the rest of us are just extras.

They’re truly beautiful people that love to share their energy with others. They always stick up for people because they know how it feels to be considered weird by others. They don’t like it when people feel they’re not good enough. That show you you’re good enough.

If you feel like you learned here’s my tip jar💜

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what no one tells you about being autistic is people just don’t like you. maybe you make friends, but they get tired of you fast. even if you’re not actively bullied, your peers just…. don’t pay attention to you. something about you is offputting and weird to mostly everyone, and you literally cannot stop it no matter how hard you try.

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“If you want to leave, you can. I’ll remember you, though. I remember everyone who leaves.”

—Lilo Pelekai

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Elle Woods is Autistic!

Here's why:

Elle woods doesn’t sense when she’s being socially different from others and talks about her interests regardless of if the people around her express a desire to hear about her interests.

This scene in the courtyard is a great example of her not being able to read the social cues that are being given off. The preppy, staunchly academic kids are trying to one-up each other with schools they went to and academic achievements, whereas Elle just wants to get to know them and see if there are any shared interests among the group.

Elle comes from a very wealthy family, in a very wealthy area. She mostly is friends with people who are pretty and have a lot of money. However, she does not have the stuck-up attitude that one might expect her to. She doesn't recognize status as a social tool to decide who one hangs out with and is just as comfortable with the hairdresser (who is a much different social class) as she is with her sorority sisters. She sees kids who are treated differently for their appearance, and she is confused by why they are treated differently for their looks if they are nice.

In addition, Elle is very trusting and stubborn. She doesn't believe that the client she and her legal team take on would lie to her and is less focused on court room manipulation than she is focused on proving the truth. She exhibits black and white thinking in this way. She trusts the accused woman, she likes the accused woman, and so obviously this woman cannot be lying or be a criminal. She ends up being right in the end, showing that her trusting nature, stubbornness, and honesty are all positive traits.

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Who here is from Louisiana and has been mistaken for being from the islands? 🙋🏾‍♀️

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Hey. 🫠

I’m a chronically ill (PCOS & HS) queer parent looking to raise funds for the month.

My mom is having hip surgery Nov 10 and I’m having ovarian surgery Nov 28. I’ve been unemployed since July and my fiancé has only just started FT work again.

Currently looking for remote work but only receiving interest from in-person jobs.

I’m available for tarot/playing card readings & have candles for sale on my site.

If you’re interested in Astro services contact me on the site or directly as they are not currently listed.

The goal atm is trying to pay down my card balance & I also need money for gas, toiletries & pain/anxiety management up until my surgery.

Card balance is currently $447.90 & I’m looking to get $200 more for everything else.

Will update if I’m able to receive help from my fiancé or funds from other sources. Hit me up with questions about my current offerings.

Thanks 🙏🏾✌🏾

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If you’re not interested in offerings but are able to throw something my way -

$/slangincardss ✅

V-app: @/slangincards

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I’ll be recording & sending out readings throughout the week 🙏🏾 thank y’all for keeping this going

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Thank you to everyone who’s donated so far!

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i think "take a hike" is like the funniest response to someone. like dude just get outta here. and go experience the wonder of nature for a bit

ancestral form of touch grass

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