im going to come out and say it: isolating is a self-destructive behavior. it might not be as obvious and immediately self-destructive as say, impulsive spending, drug use or risky behaviors, but it gradually decays relationships and can deepen your mental health issues. often, our impulse is to retreat from others and responsibilities for “self care” or to “work on ourselves” and obviously sometimes we need mental health breaks, but there’s a line you cross from “taking a break” to full on neglecting your relationships with others and your social needs that can be incredibly damaging to yourself and others over time

I did this for 4 years.

Not a fan 😪

MISAMO do not touch (2023) ↳ for anon ♡

LAY | happy holidays

**Reminder that "smudging" is part of a closed practice. Please call it smoke cleansing.

“Black Lives Matter*

If this offends you you’re racist”

Sticker seen in Fullerton, CA

The purest form of love, I think, is having someone who wants to learn about you, from you and with you.

Don’t be scared, no one can hurt you now Love, pain It’s all just in the moment Believe in yourself

I'm not arguing about why Black people deserve to live anymore.

I'm not arguing about the obvious racism that actively and systematically hunts and hurts Black people from our country's government to the racist with a pistol and the slap of wrist they get off with when they murder and hurt Black people.

I'm not arguing about how we are only given quiet settlements and half assed excuses instead of justice.

I'm not gonna argue about my protest Nor the protest of my people who are tried of people foaming at the mouth to justify why black people need to be violently murdered and too suffer.

My Black Life Matters

My Family's Black Lives Matter

BLACK LIVES MATTER!

That the end of the argument, no more "well he ran". No more "Well she got a parking ticket last year". No more "Oh they seemed like the wrong crowd"

Rn, there is a case. A Black girl's white roommates recruited a bunch of other racist ass white bitches to frame her. They said she was theating to stake people in the dorm with scissor when she never did such thing or had plans to do such thing. Campus police called SWAT and at 3 am in the morning stormed her room as she slept.

This easily could have been another Breonna Taylor. She a reason to say Black Lives Matter.

A little black boy had a nerf gun in the frame on a zoom class room. His teacher and school district labeled him a threat, expelled him and had the cops called to his house. She's a reason to say Black Lives Matter.

Sandra's Bland had a wrong turn. Black Lives Matter

Mike Brown was on his knees, hand on his head. Black Lives Matter.

We kneel they complain

We chant they complain

We march they bring out the riot gear, the pepper spray, the dogs, the clubs, the tasers and you dare say it's the protesters who cause the chaos?

They give us constant injustices, bs excuses, ridicule and mockery and suddenly we are the barbarians for ripping shit up after centuries of angry and suffering?

I'm tired of arguing. Dont drag me into shit to argue mfs who nitpick and find every minuscule twist to say my call for action and damned rage at the malicious, intentional and systematic injustice of my people- wrong.

BLM was founded by 3 black mothers who had enough. All you gotta know is I feel the same fucking way.

I'm done with arguments

Chapters: 9/? Fandom: The Vampire Diaries (TV) Rating: Not Rated Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Bonnie Bennett/Damon Salvatore, Caroline Forbes/Stefan Salvatore Summary:

Before Stefan knew it, he had started a written record of ‘It’ – the Bonnie and Damon something or, as he secretly referred to, the Bamon chronicles. Hell, he needed to occupy his time somehow. (Or - the one where Bonnie and Damon are adorably in love but only Stefan has noticed.)

—————————————————————————————-

“Psst. PSST.”

Stefan swats the sound away with a groan.

“STEFAN,” the sharp hiss retaliates.

Groggily, he lifts an eye and what the fuck. Miss Cuddles’ plastic eye is glowering at him, thoroughly unamused.

“What the fuck do you think you’re doing?”

HAPPY BTS-MAS! 🎄❤️️

Magical Creatures in Dreams

*all meanings are affected by the context of the dream

Dragon:

Dragons in dreams often represent a strong and “fiery” individual or a personality trait. They are a symbol of passion - passion that may have gotten out of hand and calls for some control of.

Metal dragons represent a tough and unyielding individual, while water dragons represent quietness and confidence. A fire dragon refers to a competitive spirit, as well as leadership qualities and an earth dragon is a symbol of stability as well as a representation of a sociable person. 

A dragon from the East may refer to good fortune and luck.

Elf:

Elves represent a situation or person in your waking life that doesn’t harmonise with you. Something is unbalanced. 

It may also be advice from your subconscious to be more carefree and positive.

Fairy:

To dream of a fairy is a sign you are searching for something, whether it may be a physical object or advice and guidance. It may also be a sign of you wanting help but being less than eager on voicing it.

An evil fairy is a sign you need to express a hidden aspect of your self you may have repressed.

Fairies also act as a symbol of your soul and more feminine characteristics.

Harpy:

To dream of a harpy is a sign of emotional turmoil or distress. Emotional conflicts in your waking life.

Mermaid:

To dream of a mermaid is a nod to your more, mysterious, feminine traits and vulnerabilities. If you’re more masculine, it may be a sign of fear towards the feminine, while if you’re more feminine it may represent doubts over your femininity.

To dream of a merman reflects your feelings of wanting to belong or be part of something.

Phoenix:

Phoenix’s are a symbol of transformation, renewal of the self and of immortality. They are a double-sided coin - they may mean you’re ready or starting a new phase in your life, or your past still haunts you.

Unicorn:

Unicorns are a symbol of high hopes, inspiration, creativity and also an intuitive person. Unicorns are an image of strength and purity but may represent views that are one-sided.

Vampire:

Vampires are a representation of a seductive and sensual person or situation, yet also a manifestation of fear. They may be a symbol of nobility or of wild, unrestrained aggression. To dream of someone as a vampire may be a reference to their charm being used for less than favourable motives.

Vampires may reflect energy or mental blockages and a lack of strength. They can also act as a symbol of an obsession or addiction.

Werewolf:

Werewolves are an indication something about a person or situation is not quite right. It may also refer to any repressed anger or a violent person who may lash out when angry.

To dream you are a werewolf is a call to reflect on aspects of your personality that may be harmful to others as well as yourself. You have been driven off your desired path in life.

Zombie:

Zombies are a representation of someone who may be emotionally or mentally detached from a situation or person. You may feel “dead” inside.

Being attacked by zombies is a sign you are feeling stressed and overwhelmed by forces in your waking life, whether by tasks, people or a certain situation. You need to take time to relax.

Dreaming of someone as a zombie indicates the relationship between them and you is dead and/or gone. 

ref: x x x x