Foxiest Mom

I'm not sure if this will come out right but:

Being loved is NOT a reward for being beneficial or useful in any way. You don't become less deserving of being loved if you aren't productive for a day or if you have a bad day and can't get out of bed.

I promise. Being loved has nothing to do with how you "help" the world or those around you.

wouldnt it be nice if they waited for him to be slightly awkward first

my addition :)

The funny part about the "I'm not going to coddle my kids, the real world isn't going to be nice to them" kind of people is that once their kids are grown and out of the house, they spend years being continuously astonished to learn that people as cold and mean as their parents are actually extremely rare.

We’re all goin here right

Imagine if play was something encouraged in adults, places to run and jump and climb because it's fun

I never know what the machines do at the gym, but i will clamber to the top of the tower to slide into a ball pit

I am 100% certain I would be in better physical condition if adults were allowed to play in ways that focus on fun and aren't competitive.

"Malice? No, not anymore. I love this world too much to let it go."

ok really not a lot of people tell you this but its ok if it takes until youre 26 or older to feel fine. reaching a point were youre finally able to say that youre ok shouldn’t have an age limit. “oh but arent you sad how you lost the prime years of your life?” i didnt lose the prime years of my life, but i did lose years i could have spent feeling ok and happy and good.

youth culture Needs to be taken out back and shot. that shit had such a grip on me back then and all it did was make everything so worse. i was spending the supposed best years of my life wasting away at home and wanting to die and most birthdays were fucking miserable. i shouldnt have had to dread getting older, i shouldnt have had to sit in bed having day long breakdowns for my 18th 19th 20th 21st 22nd 23rd 24th birthdays.

i didnt deserve absolutely despising myself just for developing a binge eating disorder on top of everything else in my brain and gaining 70 pounds and therefor “wasting” the height of my ~~~youthful looks~~~ i didnt deserve to be literally fucking ashamed and humiliated to just go out in public and be seen by people.

im 26 and i have crows feet and bad knees and ive got loose flabby skin from losing 50 pounds and im covered in stretch marks but holy fucking shit who CARES. im fine now im happy now and i dont want to hurt or kill myself or quietly die in my sleep at night. the prime of my life is actually the rest of my life, not whatever my late teens/early twenties was.

Adult Swim making an unholy amount of sense.

yeah man let me smoke the fucking dog poo j. let me get a hit of the fucking sidewalk puddle swisher. get fucking real

get okay with being some level of burden on others, seriously

you know what’s a real burden? a person that is so scared of leaning on other people that they try to be completely self sufficient and you end up either having to help them indirectly to save their ego or they have to break down in order to receive help, both of which are so much more heavy to the person that loves them than just being leaned on casually

john karkat is entering kindergarten this fall

john karkat will be graduating first grade this spring

happy eighth birthday john karkat

today in homestuck

“Sunset over the Grocery Box,” by me. The view from my father’s front yard in January 2014.

“Sunset at the End of My Driveway (Excluding Pavements Covered With the Shite of One Million Dogs)” by me.

“Sunset from My Front Yard Taken on an iPod Touch in 2010″

“Sunset in Nov 2021 Taken in the Parking Lot of the Pharmacy”

“sunset from the parking lot of the diner taken on an iphone 5 in 2016”

the view across the road partially eclipsed by house, 2017

Taken from a stepladder putting up Christmas lights

-2014, front yard

“Brewing Storm on an Evening Commute”

And “Finally, no Power Lines”

-Sept. 30, 2020, passenger seat of a moving Buick

Behind a near-defunct mall in super small-town OK. HUGE rays.

Park And See The View 2020

(it took seconds to happen)

Waiting for The Pharmacy Line to Move, 2021

Outside the McDonald’s Drive-Thru Window, 2018

The sheer effectiveness of pspspsp

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