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Blocking You Is A Boundary

@shiretomordor

Lover of heroes and villains, ghosts and dragons, fantasy and sci fi. Fandoms may vary.
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Anonymous asked:

I think it's disgusting you only fuck men whose partners don't know about it

Hmm? Last time i posted anything about my sex life, it was that I was married and demisexual, a branch of asexuality. I mean, i’m not married, but I am still very demi. Where are you getting such lies?

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Cyberbullying will not be tolerated on any of my accounts. I responded to this to use it as an example of the kinds of messages I will not be acknowledging moving forward. Also, asks are turned off moving forward. Sorry somebody’s immaturity ruined a good thing.

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Anonymous asked:

I think it's disgusting you only fuck men whose partners don't know about it

Hmm? Last time i posted anything about my sex life, it was that I was married and demisexual, a branch of asexuality. I mean, i’m not married, but I am still very demi. Where are you getting such lies?

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I haven’t been active in a couple of years, but i am still here. May discuss Rings of Power if I am so inclined. If so, i will use the following tags for it:

#rings of power

#rop spoilers

#rop [season]x[episode]

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If ever there was a paragraph that described Canadian-Brand Racist Jackassetry, THIS IS VERY IT.

‘When you believe niceness disproves the presence of racism, it’s easy to start believing bigotry is rare, and that the label racist should be applied only to mean-spirited, intentional acts of discrimination. The problem with this framework–besides being a gross misunderstanding of how racism operates in systems and structures enabled by nice people–is that it obligates me to be nice in return, rather than truthful. I am expected to come closer to racists. Be nicer to them. Coddle them.’

It’s so good to see this articulated!

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Since there seems to be some confusion: "demisexual" does NOT mean "waiting to have sex"

It does not mean “deciding not to have sex with people you’re not dating”

It does not mean “deciding not to have sex before marriage”

It is literally not about sexual decisions at all.

Demisexuality is about attraction. Like asexuality.

People who are demisexual don’t experience sexual attraction to people they don’t know well.

This can make it hard for them to date because they don’t experience sexual attraction to strangers, so gauging sexual attraction can be difficult.

Demisexuality is real. It is valid. Do not erase the experiences of demisexual people. They do not need to be more oppressed than people of other orientations in order for their orientations and identities to be valid.

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This. “Waiting for the right partner/time” is not the same thing as “I need to get to know you for a while before I even know if I feel attracted to you.”

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