Ray Stantz (The Real Ghostbusters) Pony Cosplay Sleepwear outfit

what do you mean he's fictional, we sleep in the same bed every night

the ghostbusters

i am once again saying that there is nothing wrong with being a non-sharing selfshipper. there's nothing wrong with blocking people who share one (or multiple) of your f/os. there's nothing wrong with telling doubles not to interact with you. setting boundaries for yourself and your online space is a moral neutral and has nothing to do with being "insecure" or some other negative. if you find that insulting or belittling, that's on you; not on the person setting the boundary. quit trying to make non-sharers into bad guys.

FIRST KISS - Ray Stantz | Ghostbusters

Warnings: Angst. A little bit at least. But it has a good ending!

Requested? Yes!

Words: 1590

Ray Stantz stimboard...

with book related stims!

requested by anon!

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trevor venting to slimer :3 they are best friends

Scary dog privileges are great, but imagine getting cutie patootie privileges with your f/o.

People smile at you good-naturedly as you walk by, thinking to themselves how cute you look together. Maybe some of them even tell you so.

A shop owner insisting on cutting off the odd change from your purchase because “you sweethearts are adorable.”

Sometimes you hear someone whisper “I want a love like that” to their friends when you’re in public.

You are just way too cute together <33

Dan aykroyd, a 70 yo, has more swag than you will ever have in your entire life.

self-indulgent, but… if people in your life have ever told you that you are “overreacting” — your f/o never thinks so.

they know you just feel things differently, more strongly. they know you can get so very excited or happy that you can’t help but be giddy, louder, that you may bounce around. in fact, your f/o thinks it’s endearing, because such a reaction truly shows how content you are at the moment.

they know and understand something negative can affect you more than others, that you may cry easier or need more time to deal with challenges before you can get back on your feet. and your f/o thinks that is okay.

no matter the reason or just how strongly you react, your f/o doesn’t think you’re “too much” because of that.

shoutout to selfshippers who depend on their f/o. who can't ship them with others because it hurts to imagine them having another partner.

shoutout to the selfshippers who are touch starved or lonely, who can't bring themself to love anyone like they love their f/o. who rarely ever (or never) crush on others because their love for their f/o is too strong.

shoutout to those who print out pictures of their f/o, have them as their wallpaper, imagine them next to you, draw and write about them. who treat them like an irl partner.

shoutout to selfshippers who don't just like their f/o because they're "your type," or they're attractive. shoutout to the selfshippers who have a deeper connection with them than that.

shoutout to the selfshippers with many f/os, and the ones who only have one or two.

shoutout to the selfshippers who kin characters from their f/o's source material, even if it creates some weird rarepairs. (i've been there.)

shoutout to the selfshippers who hate what happened to their f/o in their source material, and to those who love every direction it went.

shoutout to selfshippers with quote unquote "weird," f/os, or nonhuman ones. shoutout to selfshippers who are open about that fact, or who are nervous to tell others about it, even other selfshippers.

shoutout to ALL selfshippers.

you're great.

and remember, no matter who you are, if you fit all these boxes or not, your f/o(s) love you very much!

(PR//SHIPPERS DNI, THIS ISN'T FOR YOU)

"are you alright [name]?"

your f/o speaks in a soft tone, calling out to you- pulling you out of your dark train of thoughts. your mind wanders but ultimately, your mind is filled with thoughts of your f/o as you rant to them, feeling comfortable with them and in their arms. your f/o's gaze softens, hurt you were thinking these things. your f/o pulls you closer to them, stroking your head softly

"it's okay now, i'm here and i won't leave you, ever."

the softness in their voice made you smile as you hugged your f/o back, feeling more at peace with them. you felt safe, you felt reassured, but most of all, you felt happy. your f/o will always be there for you- no matter the relation; romantic, familial, platonic- what matters most is they get to see you smile. you will get through this, tomorrow will be a new day.

[proshippers aren't welcome here.]

(transferred from @/sea-of-yume)

LOOK AT HIS HAT LOOK AT HIS HAT LOOK AT HIS HAT

can't believe they made a character (my f/o) so deserving of my affection just for me (i love them) (they love me back)

I know it's supposed to be a pale red but, I like to think that he wears pink pajamas. (*/ω＼*)

As a side note, I also love Egon's pajamas, looking like he would hold a candle while wandering out in the night.