I wish I weren’t so fucking sensitive
look! the moonlight shows us for what we really are. we are not among the living, and so we cannot die — but neither are we dead.
this might sound very old of me but i think part of the problem is the obsession with pathologizing every element of our lives. you can't just have a memory of a book leaving a lasting impression on you, it has to be that it "traumatized" you. holes did not traumatize you. idk what i have to explain to tell you that going around saying the books your teachers made you read as a child "traumatized" you is essentially handing republicans a loaded gun.
i just ask that people be cognizant of how they are discussing their childhood experience with books when libraries all over the US are being censored and defunded and grossly underpaid librarians are being doxed and harassed and threatened over children's books.
no offense but if they did this i would become a terrorist
she’s a trend setter
I am cackling right now :D
Luke Kirby as Jack Crew in 2003’s
“Slings & Arrows”
Devil at Heart Vol. 2 by Adan Vazquez
ME: (puts a lidocaine patch on a muscle that’s been chronically inflamed for weeks)
ME: I’m entering my slut phase
just because it “fits” doesnt mean its comfortable or sustainable stopppppppp this shit
There are two main factors at play when someone says that a condom is too small: (1) the band size is too small & (2) the condom is not sustainable
The band is at the base of the condom. It’s latex is made thicker here than the shaft and is, therefore, less elastic. The band keeps the condom secure so it does not come off mid-insertion and so penial fluids do not leak from the condom. To do this, the band has to keep a very tight grip on the base of the penis. This is the main complaint from people using condoms too small for them. The shaft’s plastic can stretch comfortably, but the band is not so lenient and uncomfortably or painfully squeezes the base of the penis.
Condoms in use experience a lot of friction. For a condom’s shaft or band to be stretched farther than it was intended weakens the latex. The band and shaft are then at risk of being broken from the friction. It fitting does not mean it is sustainable.
If your partner says a condom is too small, believe them and cease from doing anything that requires a condom. If your partner says a condom is too small but is trying to pressure you into unprotected sex, kick them out the door.
Thaaaank you please read the above they make large and XXL condoms for a reason and it’s not to stoke men’s egos
A former… friend suggested I try a size or two larger, and yes, they do work.
Yep. At first, I thought that condoms were supposed to be that tight. I’d seen those “condoms can fit on a two liter bottle so quit your complaining,” I had no basis for comparison because dudes don’t talk about that shit, and no one wants to be that “HURR HURR GUESS I NEED A MAGNUM XL” guy.
Now wear that condom on your arm for a while. Ten minutes at least. Still got sensation in your arm?
One of the many failures of sex ed in this country is the notion that there’s only two types of condom, “fits everyone except those elephant-trunk-cock freaks” and “for elephant-trunk-cock freaks or lying braggarts” (and yes, there’s implicit shame in the idea of people needing non-”regular”-sized condoms and the genesis for such is pretty likely rooted in some really nasty viewpoints about certain groups of people but I’m digressing).
But penises come in a LOT of dimensions, and not all of them fit right in a “normal” condom. You don’t need to have a monster down there for a condom to be legitimately painful and/or break mid-act. This can leave a lot of people legitimately unawares that it doesn’t have to be like this. (I was, early on.)
Condom too tight? That’s a real problem for the reasons pointed out above. But it’s a solvable one at most drug stores, which generally have a broader (ha ha) selection than your Walmarts or Targets. Or suck it up (ha ha) and go to an “adult boutique” (a proper one) where they’re likely to have even more options and let’s be real here the people working at these aren’t gonna give you Looks over condom selection. Or shop at said boutiques online if you REALLY need to avoid the in-person thing.
And if you think you’re gonna be doing things requiring condoms, HAVE YOUR OWN. Yes, even if you personally don’t have a penis. Buy a box of large-size as well just in case.
And don’t let anyone give you guff over it, and don’t let anyone pressure you into unprotected sex because of condom size.
For the record, even if you’re doing things that don’t involve a penis at all, condoms are good to have around. They make great dental dams on the fly, keep toys clean, and keep body parts clean if your partner is using their hands. :) Also, keep some non-latex ones around in case you or your partner has a latex allergy. Trust me, there are few places worse to have that allergic reaction. o_o
Here! Here is a condom size chart!!! There are probably! Others! You can check!!! So you can be comfortable when getting up to shenanigans. Because condoms that don’t fit are sooo uncomfortable and also a safety risk. A properly sized condom can really help improve sensation in the person with the penis.
I am so happy to be able to help! Condoms are so great!
I may be asexual, but this is for my followers who are not
Aaand this is why we need better Sex-Ed courses in schools. Stay safe kiddos!
people who are super cute and dorky but also secretly kinky as fuck are very important
My friend teaches high school history and allowed his students to do their chapter summaries on their chosen biographies as originally created memes. He said that he had never had kids read so carefully to find the most obscure detail from chapters to make their memes. [pro-tip, for younger middle school/elementary school students, make a folder of popular meme templates, to avoid uncomfortable internet searches}
This reminds me of my class watching the 90s film and when it got to this scene some guy in my class shouted out ‘hoe don’t do it’ and then 5 seconds later -sigh- ‘he did it’.
Shakespeare would have loved this 😔
Me, using my strainer to rinse some rice and shaking it to get the extra water out: naughty rice goes in the rice wiggler 😈
Me @ me: who even are you
Shanah tovah! please look at my rosh hashanah apple tart it took. so long
Shanah tovah and everyone look at this apple tart.
Shanah tovah i want to eat this so bad
ya know i wonder how ebony dark'ness dementia raven way is handling gerard way looking like the preppiest motherfucker ever in a custom taylored cheerleader dress
the human urge to ask the people around you a question you have before googling it
it's about the process of reasoning through a question and connecting with the people around you but it's also about seeing who's right. good sportsmanlike fun.
L'shana tova
this one is for the Jewish TLT fans particularly (source: https://twitter.com/EmmaTolkin/status/1573864115525001216?s=20&t=d_VbN7u2b16o5Qjj-aeS7g)