kitten
man. what on earth.
ok i flipped it. sorry
sorry i cant today i have to sit in my room take a deep breath and think about every mistake i have ever made
One must always pay the cheese tax
Caption: [A stitch with user @/sapphicyuji. The text on screen reads, " "you can't misgender cis people!", you have never had your gender questioned outside of your transness and it shows. sincerely, a trans poc".
I'm actually super glad we're having a conversation about this. The masculinization of black and brown women, because for years I felt like I endured this unique form of trauma until I realized other people went through the same thing too. And if there's one thing that I'd like to add to the conversation, there seems to be this misconception that this is something that starts at puberty. Like boys tell you you look like a man to hurt your feeling when that's so far from the case.
The first time I was purposefully misgendered was in kindergarten. I was constantly referred to by the masculine variant of my name, I was chased out of the women's restroom, and I had grown adults questioning what my biological sex was before I even knew what the difference was. And those behaviors persisted into adulthood because now if I present as anything less than 100% feminine, people will either compare me to men or animals.
And for myself and for many other brown and black women this is a life long act deliberately intended to humiliate, shame, and other us for the features we were naturally born with and I'm glad we're having a discussion on how harmful it actually is.]
I have exactly one thing to say:
“Did they send me daughters when I asked for sons?”
Tell me again you can’t misgender cis people. TELL ME AGAIN. It’s literally a mainstream joke.
like it’s one thing to be on the outside of it all and be like “wow swifties are annoying”. how do you think WE feel
i still think about "aye moira am oan the protein" way too often
not now mom i’m wasting my life on a website the entire internet believes to be dead
everything going on rn is reminding me of when someone reblogged this and tagged it as mash. girl no the show from 1972 is not queerbaiting you.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer 1.08 | 6.20 // 6.21 // 6.22
Tis the season. Whatever that means
My gift to you is Faith textposts pt 7.
Everyone says that reading fanfiction is a useless pastime, but let’s not forget that I learned how to cook grilled cheese from a kiribaku fic
OH MY GOD YOU’RE THE ONE WHO TAUGHT ME HOW TO MAKE GRILLED CHEESE
A touching reunion