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Thinker vs. Feeler

@intpandinfpfreaking-blog

Two friends, an INFP and an INTP. Weird things are about to happen, come and see. Two geeks, one with a lot of feelings for fictional characters and tragedies, and one with a lot of feelings for everything. Note: most of these conversation have actually taken place.Check our other blog @aestheticforeverything
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vevehagoromo

Fumo

Morivamo un secondo prima di aprire quella porta e un attimo dopo…

Amnesia.

Spazio e tempo se ne fregavano delle leggi fisiche, e stavano lì, nascondendosi tra il denso fumo che saliva e sbatteva contro il soffitto tra un tiro e l'altro… Forse per riuscire a fuggire dalla realtà un po’ come facevamo anche noi.

- vevehagoromo -

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“Most quit when progress is slow and never fully grasp that progress, is still progress. This is what defines the strong willed from the weak.”

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Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!

alternatives without harming yourself:

  • holding/squeezing ice.
  • splashing your face with water.
  • getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).
  • take a hot shower or bath.
  • eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)
  • massage where you want to self-harm.
  • get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.
  • remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)
  • describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).

killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.

you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in. for example;

  • having a family.
  • getting married.
  • to watch the sun rise.
  • to watch the sun set.
  • to save someone else’s life.
  • finish school.
  • get your dream job.
  • to laugh.
  • to smile.
  • to go camping.
  • travel to new places.
  • to wake up every morning to the person you love.
  • friends.
  • family.
  • to keep that promise you made.
  • to accomplish a goal.
  • to meet your idol.
  • to listen to new music.
  • theme parks.
  • video games.
  • chocolate.
  • to be able to look back and say “i made it”.

what you’re going through is temporary.

in case you need to hear this:

  • you are loved.
  • you are wanted.
  • you are needed.
  • you are beautiful.
  • you are handsome.
  • you are important.
  • you are not alone.
  • you are okay.
  • you are strong.
  • you are worth it.
  • you are smart.
  • you are not a failure.
  • you are useful.
  • you are going to be okay.

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bristlee1

for those who might need it

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EVERYONE NEEDS TO SEE THIS

Ok I agree with this post 100%

Especially that chocolate is a reason bout to commit suicide

But please do reblog to save a life

If it wasnt for that “paint red paint on yourself” one id be covered in scars by now

Also, I know this sounds silly, but watching reruns of Mister Rogers Neighborhood is literally like getting free therapy. You can find it on YouTube.

I just needed that…. Please reblog

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I fucking managed to not lag behind my schedules. Wow it's a new record for the life of me.

-INFP

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Okay,

Wanna talk about how INTP's town is hosting an overfreakingfucking chocolate fair?

Yeah, you can hate on her before she logs in :)

-INFP

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Hey. Do you need a hug?

Maybe you’re having a stressful day. Maybe you just need a deep breath. Maybe you just didn’t realize how stressed you are. It’s okay! You deserve love and warmth in your life.

Are you comforted by words? 

Do you need to hear some pleasant ambient sounds?

ASMR? Stimming? 

How about a game or activity distraction?

Do you need something soothing?

How about a laugh?

It’s going to be okay. Today may be the worst day of your life - but tomorrow won’t be. Life is a series of ups and downs, and that means there’s going to be good and bad. Drink some water, let yourself cry if you need to, and get a good night’s sleep. You’ll feel better in the morning. 

Reposting for future use

Reposting for people who need it

Use this, folks.

-INFP

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Anonymous asked:

Hey uhh... you letting people tell you all about them. Before I take you on a date anywhere, I wanna know about you first.

Woooooo. How brave. Okay. Male, Italian (a bonus huh?), 5'9, hair brown blackish and curled long most of the time, eyes are kinda dark brown, sometimes green-shaded. Usually grow my beard. Ectomorph type. More on the hobbily side, I most often read about trivia or subjects, often linguistics or sciences, or even travelling, do archery, sometimes listen to music, used to read a lot and write but quite less these times. Oh, I can be quite an argued over many issues. Have tried picking up coding, swimming, karate, binge watching, enigmistics, legos, poetry. Meaning I have a glimpse to them and may pick them back, but not currently. Can quite handle small talk. Oh, and I conlang. Flaws for a fair game: unable to push past 52kg with fair physical weakness, lack of high assertiveness, tendency to close off mode. Enough to know? -INFP

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Anonymous asked:

(Part 2) I tell you my order, a fish fillet sandwich, small fries, and a vanilla milkshake. As you are order food I go and set up the table, making the napkins into swans. You come back to the food and sit down. We’re both feeling a sense of regret and embarrassment for breaking the norms and drawing attention to ourselves. However we are in this together so I grab you hand and give you a reassuring look that the people around us don’t matter and we should just be ourselves and have fun.

Wow. Well. I mean... Pink is not my favourite colour but... God. If this all is something you would make for me on a date, you'll probably REALLY REALLY take me aback. I'm down for it. -INFP

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Anonymous asked:

18, Female, 5’4, Eye: I see brown, some people see hazel, Hair: like a chestnut brown but I wanna dye it like a pastel icy pink. I have no money to do that though and I hate going out to hair salons so i guess if I ever do it, I’ll just diy. My favorite flower is the tiger lily. I think a fun date idea is we go to Mickey Dees. We both dress over the top like we’re going to the grammeys or something. I bring a nice table cloth, fine china, and a plug in candle light. (Part 1)

(Part 1)

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Anonymous asked:

Dutch, INTP, male, 6'5", dark blonde hair, blue eyes, love playing piano (improvising à la Ludovico Einaudi) and learning languages (currently I'm on a 4 year Italian 'streak', love it! plus got to practice it on Sicily ~2 weeks ago which went kinda OK). First date would be an escape room, because games is where you get to know each other best.

You do sound interesting to me but I'm a guy. Wanna hear INTP's opinion? Resend if affirmative. -INFP

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Things

Do you want to know how INTP look like? Because I have a buch of photos in which I feel confident, maybe I can post theeeeem, idk I do random stuff in my life (I said that because INFP hate photos)

INTP

(All grammar error are here because INFP didn't correct this post)

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Anonymous asked:

Okay, this sounds fun. INTP female, 18, 5'6", honey blonde hair, and I've got central heterochromia, so my eyes are green in the middle/blue on the outside, thought it isn't super glaringly obvious. I love reading/writing (aspiring author), and I get super passionate about my stories, because I strive to create beautiful little secret worlds that help readers the way other authors have helped me. Date... um, at a cafe--some coffee/tea over a deep discussion and hearty laughs?

Wow you presented yourself very well here. I like the idea and well, I'm amazed by those heterocromiae, too. What else to say, I feel on board! -INFP

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Anonymous asked:

I’m a female INFP. I’m 26, 5’7” with short light brown hair and large medium-brown eyes that are offset by round cheeks and high cheekbones. I definitely have a baby face but it’s in the cute way! I’m fairly thin but curvy, as cliche as that sounds to write. I’m nervous but excited for new experiences. I love working with dogs and animals in general, and singing is one of my favorite things in the world. For a first date maybe we could hang out and show each other our favorite Netflix shows :)

Hanging out sounds nice. :)Besides, huh... You're 8 years older than me. But even with that aside, I suppose you could attractive? I'm not so much into rounded cheeks but... I liked the rest. And if you taught me to sing it'd be great. 80% on board. -INFP

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Anonymous asked:

Greetings! 23 year old male here. 5'9", heavyset, short-medium dark brown hair, with a form of heterochromia. My eyes are blue-green with a ring of yellow set in. I'm into video games, good movies and music, and nature. I'm a bit old fashioned, so first date would likely be dinner and a movie, or something classic like that. Being straight, I'd like the INTP to respond, if she's available.

Okay, I actually started screaming in my head when I read heterochromia. You’re eyes are wonderful, and again, dark hair with light eyes? My favourite combination.And I also love music, nature, films, and also videogame! That’s like literally a match! First date? Perfect, I like it!

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