Hi anon,

LA is Lipstick Alley. It's an online forum that has a lot of fun topics and gossip. Beware it will suck you in until you realize a week has passed and you haven't showered or moved from your bed because you've been scanning juicy gossip. LOL🙃

Possibly. I'm sure he is friends now or has been with those who identify within the LGBTQIA+ community. I don't think he's closed-minded to think everyone should live their lives one way. It is also a smart move considering the field he is in. Your mouth will either grant you a long career or end it quickly.

Definitely think he runs his own IG. You can see his personality so clearly in his captions and even the personal things he posts.

I do however think his team probably gives him feedback after it's been posted which could explain why some things get deleted.

Does anyone know if he still has his "my lucy" post up now with N? LMAOOO

I would look but I don't wanna scroll that long. LOL.

I would be so stoked if he did. He fits it so well.

Then again Idris Elba also fits it well and now I hear Rege Jean Page is also in the running and I'm so torn now. 😭

Oh damn!

Hi anon,

Yeah I was plenty busy and I'm sorry for neglecting this page during that time but I'm back around.

Hi Anon,

Thank you so much for your concern.

I know I fell off for a long, long time. Life got crazy, I'm sure you know how it is.

I am back now. I really appreciate your concern.

I hope you and your family are well.

Amen Anon!

Hiiiiiiiiiiiii!!!

Anon,

This is late but thank you so much for your concern.

I am well.

I hope you are too.

Hey darlin,

This is so so so so so delayed. I am so sorry.

Just a bit of clarification I'm not a Clinical Psychologist. I am in MFT {Marriage and Family Therapy}. I'm getting close to the Clinical Psychologist part though. So Close. LOL

Thank you! It's a fun field with so many rewarding aspects but can be oh so draining.

Advise school-wise? Let's see....

-Keep ALL your books, papers, and even notes. They do come in handy sometimes.

-Develop relationships with your professors and fellow classmates. I can't tell you how many times I have reached out to a past professor who I felt close to that ended up being a mentor to help not only with thinking through a case but also keeping you leveled.

-Organization is so important. Calendars, post-its, a clear plan, it will save you from wasting time and or veering off track which is so easy to do.

-Find a way to maintain a life away from studying because it is easy to become overwhelmed and burned out. friends, family, hobbies, significant other. Do not get so engulfed in the education you neglect yourself and others. The same goes for when you get into the field, it is even more so important because it is easy to want to give, give, give, and actually give, give, give when you have not much to give. It is dangerous.

-Never bring your work home with you. EVER. Leave your clients/patients at the office. Try not to think about them once you leave your place of work. It will be easier said than done but if you fail in this it will be detrimental to you and your work/life balance and mental health.

-Find a therapist for yourself either now or when you've entered the field. I found this piece of advice I got in school so bizarre. I was like look I want to help people I don't need therapy. Then I realized why. It is easy to take on the baggage of others without realizing it. It is easy to get affected by a case and when that happens you need to ensure you separate yourself from them. After all, your job is to be there for them and give them unbiased and helpful solutions without injecting yourself. It will also help you keep yourself sane.

-Find mentors in your field of specialty. If you are going into primary substance abuse, sexual health, marriage, family, etc, find a mentor who has already been in the field for several years. This could be hard to find someone willing to take it on but the right person will.

-Always stay current in your knowledge especially alternative routes and methods, especially in the world that is changing so rapidly with the variety of clients you could encounter. I have known providers who refuse to go the extra mile to be inclusive or educate themselves about the strife of today's population.

-Find ways to broaden your worldwide view. This one is so important. This goes past reading articles and or watching a particular tv show/interview. This is a lifetime/career-long task that mainly means experiences and interactions. I think it separates the good therapists from the amazing therapists that have found ways to bridge the gap with who they treat.

There is so much advice I can give and I would take up the entire character-allowed limit here. I'm around if you want more. Feel free to drop me a line and I'll try to get to you as soon as I can unless life gets crazy again.

I wish you nothing but luck and success in your path!

Awwwww, this would be so precious and cute.

Ummmmmm, wait "She knows men" LMAOOO🤣🤣🤣

She sounds ridiculous.

So buying a house in Florida means something is off? SMH.

People will say anything, literally anything to be heard, seen, or validated. It's insane the number of things people can say about someone they don't know and try to pass it off as fact. It's insane.

I don't even wanna add fuel to the foolishness she was spewing.

I need detailed receipts!

I think he would be down for this. I know he dated Marissa G and if I am not wrong she was of Hispanic descent or something like that. I could be wrong about her background though.

I don't think he'd draw a line for someone who wasn't born British or speaking English. I feel like he is very limited in the people he associates with in his everyday life. He may be exposed to a variety of people for work/filming but I doubt many of those people become close friends.

I have always been interested in how he meets/met his gfs.🤔

I'm not sure I have a third part in me right now. 🥺