can i use this real quick? *sits down on ur cock and fucks myself silly*
just some PSA's to subs:
- hard doms really are like that. they aren't joking.
- it's okay not to be into certain kinks. aftercare. ect. set the boundary.
- babe, him being an online dom doesn't mean he's experienced. on that note, MOST doms are only online doms with no experience.
- learn how to get yourself off. and never be scared to tell him how to.
- there's someone into that weird thing you like.
- oh, there's also someone into that deep dark one you'd never admit. trust me. it's literally fine.
- hookup with other subs. trust me.
- take care of your bodily health first.
- ask for what you need. ask for it. if they refuse to give it to you. find someone who will.
EVEN AS A SUB. TAKE NO SHIT. DONT BE WALKED ON.
Open it and read it nice and slow sweetheart. Just act like nothing is happening and I'll keep going.
Silently repost
*flirting*
I keep getting doms in my messages and I just have to say: I don’t think even half of you understand the type of commitment it takes to have a submissive.
A true d/s relationship requires high prioritization. A submissive is trusting you to care for their emotions while you are wielding power of them. This isn’t a dynamic for someone who just wants kinky sex. You need to learn your submissive’s triggers, their trauma, their blindspots, and their nonverbal cues that they are past the point of being able to safe word. It’s not just about pleasure and getting off. You need to be prepared to reassure your submissive that they’re valuable to you as a person. Sometimes you’ll need to know that they need this when they might not know themself. Because to be a dominant is a power role. That power can easily become unbalanced and easily become abusive if you’re not constantly communicating and being conscious of the impact of your words and actions.
To any subs reading this: you deserve a dom who is educated about d/s and truly cares for you as a person. Have high standards. It can suck not to have a dom, but it’s so much more damaging to yourself and your future relationships to have a bad dom than it’s worth.
Degrading her and then making her degrade herself until she's fallen so deep into subspace that you could take advantage for her and do whatever the fuck you wanted.
I love it when they push your cock out of them when they've cum and I have to grab them and force their legs back open to continue to fuck them while they shake and beg me to stop. While I remind her that we don't stop when she cums we stop when Ifill their insides up.
Si, así de se sencillo 🤷🏻♀️
You are never asking for too much. You are just asking the wrong person. The right person listens and pays attention. This exists. It really is that simple. Stop having scarcity mindset when it comes to love.
the duality of subs
Sure fuck her brains out, make her a drooling mess that can't think for herself.
Then draw her a bath, wash her, brush, and braid her hair.
Aftercare isn't hard.
The last few days have been lonely, although I have been with family. This year I went out of my way to give gifts to everyone, I was excited to select things that I knew everyone would enjoy and love. I didn't even get a hug.
What I did receive were accusatory and painful comments about my weight and how I looked. I just wish I was loved like my cousins or my brother.
It just hurts so much.
I mean, I want both 👉🏼👈🏼
I love affectionate degradation. Like yeah, you're a little slut but you're a very good little slut. Call them desperate and filthy and dirty names, but do it in a praising tone 🥺
I don't really ask for more 🥺🥹