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As someone overwhelmed at the prospect of reparenting myself, where do I start?

I'm sorry I didn't see this earlier, I've been using social media very sporadically this year. I have a lot of thoughts on this topic to share that are based on my long and ongoing healing journey.

This is going to be a lot of information about something that's already overwhelming, so I've tried to include advice on how to deal with the overwhelm of it all.

Disclaimer: I'm not a mental health professional. With that in mind, these are what i consider the main aspects:

Physical Reparenting (getting your needs met/asking for help)
Emotional Reparenting (understanding what you're going through)
Finding Other Kids to Play With (making healthy connections) (highlighted because it's the one most personal to me!)

#reparenting #inner child healing #trauma recovery #trauma #complex ptsd #ptsd recovery #mental health resource #cptsd #attachment trauma #long post #my thoughts #anyone is free to dm me about any of this #feel free to share your own thoughts or insights

jemeryl

For @miruyumiweek - late forgot to post to tumblr - day 4 and 5: enemies to lover/firelight!

The idea was that Miruko couldn't bring herself to hurt her lover, so the only way to stop her from destroying the city was to confess her love, promise to change sides, kiss her (and perhaps more??), and slip the quirk cancelling cuffs on while she was distracted

#miruyumi week #miruyumi week 2023 #bnha #bnhafemslash #wlw #miruko x fuyumi #my art #fuyumi todoroki #miruko #i'm rly happy with how miruko's muscles came out in this one #especially the lighting on her butt

jemeryl

For @miruyumiweek day 3: Fairytale! It's a Tangled AU with Ryukyu as Maximus and featuring two flavours of transfem Flynnyumi

#miruyumi week #bnha #art #my art #miruko x fuyumi #fuyumi todoroki #rumi usagiyama #miruko #wlw #femslash #fanart #tangled #i'm not sure what i was on #it seemed like a good idea at the time XD

jemeryl

For @miruyumiweek 2023 day 2 prompt: Found Family!

I don't know if this counts exactly, but I love the idea of Rei and Fuyumi getting away and being spoiled rotten by the Usagiyamas. Also yes, I HC Miruko's mom as a big bunny who never has to wear pants (why would you have to wear pants if you were a big bunny??) and you cannot change my mind

#bnha #art #my art #miruyumi week #miruyumi week 2023 #femslash #miruko x fuyumi #miruko #fuyumi todoroki #rumi usagiyama #wlw

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ladysantos

arcadebroke

juelzsantanabandana2

Oh shit? Go white girl go 😳.

wcwit

Her name’s Cynthia Rothrock and you’d better put some respect on it!

she’s part of the old guard of Hong Kong kung fu films where you had to be an honest to god martial artist to play the role correctly. when she started acting in American movies they had to keep telling her to not hit so hard lmao

startledoctopus

love watching her sword very carefully and gracefully missing him

sahonithereadwolf

Cynthia Rothrock is also the inspiration for Sonya Blade and she started doing work in Hong Kong after Hollywood kept saying there was no room for female action stars.

sabinmoon

Cynthia Rothrock is so bad ass and trained her body so much, she defies what a normal body is capable of doing. When she ripped her ACL she turned down the reconstructive therapy because of how much work she had. The doctors told her she wouldn’t be able to walk properly cause her kneecap wouldn’t be held in place anymore. Que their surprise when she walks out, but keeps working without any issues.

Turns out her quadriceps and hamstrings were so strong that they held her kneecap in place even WITHOUT HER ACL. She still hadn’t done so as of 2012 last reported

Let’s watch Cynthia and Oscar winner Michelle Yeoh kick some ass:

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digitalcherry

Jiro and mina look like a cute couple

(old art)

#bnha #minajirou

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hingabee

drew my fav ds9 girlies in silly kpop shirts

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prinnay

Ascendance

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filibusterfrog

now that ive got a text tool i wanted to re write my last orc post

the-haiku-bot

now that ive got a

text tool i wanted to re

write my last orc post

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

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autumnmobile12

Inktober Day 18: Rei Todoroki

...

“I found this old photo upstairs,” Shouto said. “Did Mom used to snowboard?”

Fuyumi lifted her head. “Oh, yeah. All the time. When we were really little, she used to take Touya and me with her. You don’t know true fear or exhilaration until you’re zipped into a coat with your brother like a couple of baby kangaroos and you’re rocketing down a mountainside.”

…

Finding headcanons where Todoroki Rei is more than the submissive daughter, battered wife, and ineffectual mother.

And some happy memories for this family because goddamn if they aren’t one of the most depressing collective of messy bitches I’ve ever seen.

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miruyumiweek

Icebunny Brigade, assemble!

4 weeks to Miruyumi Week, let's go!

We are also on Twitter. And we have an AO3 collection, so if you submitted a work for a previous year's Miruyumi week, feel free to submit it!

jemeryl

I was talking to a younger trans woman today and advising her on SRS stuff. I realised it's been more than six whole years since I had SRS!

It was the best decision for me, and I've never regretted it.

I'm feeling proud of my younger self for having what it took to go through with everything, despite how hard it's all been.

jemeryl

Lady Sylvia Foxley

A noble only interested in throwing her next wild party and bringing even greater shame to her family commits a drunken heroic act for a fae creature in disguise and bam! paladin.

She’s a little worried about it.

#oc #dnd #paladin #woc #g-pen on paper #digitally painted #my art