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TrashEXitOr007

@trashexitor007 / trashexitor007.tumblr.com

I'm hungry 24/7
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The only thing y'all should be shipping your k-pop idols with is good vibes and matching foundation.

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Change the way we comment on Kpop videos

Imagine it. You’re a Kpop idol. You’ve trained more or less than five years, enduring countless hardships to get where you are. You’re debuting. It’s exciting. For years, you’ve spent every free moment practicing your singing/rapping/dancing, and now your fate depends on how the public views you. So you click on the comment section. There, you’re pleased to see many people who are supporting you, uplifting you, and… Oh. 50% of the comments are about your looks. Not about how good your dancing is, or about how talented and hard-working you are, but about how cute your smile and laugh is, how good you look in that outfit that you didn’t even pick out yourself, or about your hairstyle that was colored according to your concept. It’s rewarding to see so many people supporting you and your ambitions, but you were hoping to see more praise for something within your control. Something that you worked hard for. Something that you’ve devoted your life to perfecting. You’re grateful to your stylist, your choreographer, and the people who selected your music video concept. You couldn’t have done any of this without them. But… You couldn’t have made it this far without the long nights you spent rehearsing, worrying about what people would think about you, telling yourself ‘just one more time before I go to sleep. Just a little extra practice.’

The truth is, idols find all positive comments to be rewarding. They enjoy seeing us compliment them on their hair/figure/smile. Those are things that they’ve managed too. They have to undergo a difficult diet to look the way they do. And in a way, that is something within their control. But as idols who are passionate about what they do, they want to be unique. They want to stand out. And how they appear isn’t always 100% within their control. And as an idol, their fans are their motivation. We’re the reason they can feel like all of their hard work was worth it. (That, of course, and their paychecks.) But think about your favorite Kpop idols. What draws you to them? Of course, you stayed for the members, but what about them first caught your attention? Their sound? Their aesthetic? Regardless of the reason, here’s the thing. Idols are humans too. And human beings need feedback. It’s what keeps people going. Of course idols want to hear how beautiful they are. But they always want to hear about what kind of person they are. Tell idols they are interesting. Tell idols they have a good sense of humor. Tell idols that they are talented. Tell idols that they have worked hard. Tell idols you love their voices. Tell idols what they mean to you as a person. Tell idols why you believe they are a good person.

Tell idols that they’re loved for who they are.

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I’M DONE GET OFF THIS SITE

I read all these posts being like “MY LIFE HAS BEEN GREAT SINCE I LOST ALL THIS WEIGHT.” well like is indeed NOT GREAT since i lost weight. clothes don’t fit me. nothing is ever in my size. my friends don’t compliment on my weight loss, they comment on my “weird looking ribs.” my young siblings are scared of them. my family are worried and thinking of putti. me in a hospital instead of being happy. my knees hurt when i go to bed. boys (and girls) don’t like me, because “thick is in.” and on top of all of that, food looks gross to me. all the foods i used to love i now find gross. when we’re out eating dinner people stare at me, probably wondering why i didn’t order anything. my friends don’t invite me out places as much. my girlfriend said she’s trying to deal with my problems but doesn’t know if she can. and i love her so much. i’m suffering. this is suffering. i’m. not. happy. PLEASE SPREAD THIS MESSAGE. YOU SHOULD NOT SUFFER. SEEK RECOVERY. GET OFF TUMBLR.

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So I’m on my way to my cousins house and I’ve just seen an article about the lastest of many acid attacks on South Asians and like many of the other attacks, it had taken place around 10 minutes away from where my cousins live.

And suddenly I want to get out of London as soon as I can, but then I recieve a message from an aunt as at 10pm the night before someone had poured acid on her friend’s “for sale” board outside their house in Leicester.

And honestly, I’m terrified. I’m scared when someone walks too close or when a motorbike drives past. I’m scared when someone stares at my hijab or when I’m walking close to the roadside.

There are people out there who consciously go out there and buy acid with the intent to disfigure or even kill another person and I’ve barely heard a thing about it. And its disgusting.

And I know it doesn’t mean much for people on tumblr to reblog a post… But I haven’t seen a single post and it just feels like people just don’t care if the victims aren’t white or American.

We matter. And I wish people would be willing to care about us like they show outrage for other victims.

Please keep the victims and their families in your thoughts and pray for all the South Asian people who are currently terrified simply because they exist.

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