The best way to live life.
Do you check her account?
Kanino..? Account ba ni Notthemermaid..?
Di po siya nagchi-check ng account ko. Malakas na po loob niya. Matured people message other matured people ng hindi anonymous. ems not ems
I like dates. I like healthy communication. I like room to grow. I like quality time. I like reassurance. I like reciprocated energy.
signs that your family is abusive:
- you feel the urge to hide from them whenever you’re vulnerable
- you cannot bear the idea of them seeing you cry
- when you’re hurt or in pain, you don’t go to them because you feel they’ll tell you that you deserved it or that it was your fault
- you don’t feel like you can confide in them, either because they don’t seem to care, or try to control how you act, or yell at you and punish you, or use the information against you
- you feel very self-conscious around them and keep expecting criticism and insults
- you can’t tell them about your struggles because you already know they’ll side against you
- you keep things in your life secret from them because you have a feeling they would ridicule, humiliate, and judge you if they knew, or take everything away from you
- you feel scared of letting them know when they hurt you
- you feel scared and guilty when you so much as think about them in a bad way
- you feel the urge to remind yourself of all the things they did for you, whenever something bad comes up, to be sure that you’re seeing them the way they want to be seen by you
- you’re scared of being accused of being a burden to them
- you’re scared to hold them responsible for things they did to you, because you know they would argue otherwise, and insist they had full right to do what they did, or that you made it up
- you have the inner sense of dread that nothing you ever do or say will be taken seriously by them, and your life will always look like a joke to them
- you dream of living far away from them and feel guilty for wanting to cut them from your life
- you don’t feel like you’re really important in comparison to them, it feels like it’s better to just step aside and let them be important, your life doesn’t matter as much anyway
- you’re worried about how your every action might affect their life, their reputation and social standing
- you feel that they’re ashamed of you and you’re trying your best not to bring further shame on the family
- you feel like you’ll owe them for the rest of your life and nothing you ever do will be enough to erase the debt, and this fills you with dread and feeling of being trapped
- you don’t count on their help when you’re in trouble, you’re scared of them finding out and punishing you for being in trouble in the first place
- you don’t count on them sharing their resources with you, you know you have to be grateful for how much they’ve given you already and feel like you have no right to ask for anything more, even if you need it
- you can’t feel warmth or safety when surrounded by family, instead you wish you didn’t have to be there, and seek a place to hide and protect yourself
- holidays spent with family are just painful and something you try to endure instead of enjoy
- you can’t imagine a world where you’re free and not defined by these people
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Jopay, kamusta ka na?
This is like an appreciation post to a friendship i have for 9 years.. this is like my longest friendship i have.. we have met here since 2017..pero sana naman diba!!! Mag meet na tayo!!! medyo matagal tagal nadin pala talaga.. we build a crazy, bardagulan, sad, fun, chismissan,, through out the years…
Pero thank you sa lahat lahat sa ups and down (paano yung down di naman tayo usually nag aaway pero bet mo ba na may mapag aawayan?) charottt.. kung kaya ko ang mga bagay bagay kakayanin mo din iyan.. we got each others backs padin kahit papaano!! Wag mo iintindihin yung mga ka bullshitan sa paligid ligid di maganda sa beauty natin ses.. i am proud of you keep on pursuing your dream.. maybe god hold onto something for the best pa para sayo.. gawin mo muna daw yan pagiging P.T future mo!! Will be the proudest tumblr friend you have!!
Sana kako wag ka mapapagod!! Lab you na nagasgas char 🤣🤣
Forward of meeting you soon na @yusinophil sana wag ka kiligin char hahaha
PTRP NA KO. THANK U MARIAAA 💛👀
send wholesome and pure messages and asks through anon <3
high time to share this playlist i made 🙈 enjoy your gloomy day, hihi.
hi! if u're playing codm and wala kayong clan, sali kayo sa'min. gaguhan lang naman, friendly game & trashtalkan. message any of us if u want to join ü
cc: @chieesecake @aynahko @greatexpectation-s @thebrypolar @x-channn @eccent-rieth @thanyupsal theo at ronnel hahahahaha
Di ako naglalaro but support? Sali kayo sa kanilaaa.
Sa totoo lang hinihintay ko na lang makita yung sarili ko na sumusuko na. Tanggap ko na. Minsan naaalala ko na lang talaga lahat.
body shaming men is also wrong and not funny
Miss ko lang f2f school. Dati madaling-madali ako gru-graduate. Potek.
yakap sa dilim -> panalangin -> mabagal?? HAHAHA
did a short cover of walang hanggan using my trusty ukulele ✨
ok it's raining here, and i'm sad. fight me