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we've updated it again. woe!!!

Hiya, I'm Tommy (or Leo, Eli, 5P, etc) I use any/all prns/neos plus bro/bros neos I’m the host of the Lonely System (or Sharkfeed System). We have a strawpage here full of info, though it's REALLY outdated, and a system blog here which we'll use for yk. Journalling and stuff I am Irish/German, and take a lot of pride in my identity as an Irish person. I'm not a fan of England suck-ups, if that wasn't obvious

I’m otherkin, disabled (AuDHD, chronic illness) and mentally ill (C-PTSD, NPD, Atypical Depression, ARFID, etc. playing the fucking disability olympics over here /silly)

I mainly reblog stuff, but I will on occasion actually Post My Own Things (like 75% of the time that will be me mental illness-blogging. for the funsies) We're the right hand arm man of @critical-collective, and the Flesh buddy of our beloved mutual @semisentient-entity

#intro post#its the pinned post youre not gonna not find it lol
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demilypyro

I don't know much about lady Gaga but I saw this clip on my timeline once years ago and since then I've been ride or die. idc. she a real one. I need this energy from more cis folks

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melomenon

She is absolutely a real one.

[text: It’s appalling to me that a post about National Women’s Day by Dylan Mulvaney and me would be met with such vitriol and hatred. When I see a newspaper reporting on hatred but calling it “backlash” I feel it is important to clarify that hatred is hatred, and this kind of hatred is violence. “Backlash” would imply that people who love or respect Dylan and me didn’t like something we did. This is not backlash. This is hatred.

But it is not surprising given the immense work that it’s obvious we still have to do as a society to make room for transgender lives to be cherished and upheld by all of us. I feel very protective in this moment, not only of Dylan, but of the trans community who continues to lead the way with their endless grace and inspiration in the face of constant degradation, intolerance, and physical, verbal, and mental violence. I certainly do not speak for this community, but I have something to say. I hope all women will come together to honor us ALL for International Women’s Day, and may we do that always until THE DAY that all women are celebrated equally. That all people are celebrated equally. A day where people of all gender identities are celebrated on whichever holiday speaks to them. Because people of all gender identities and races deserve peace and dignity.

May we all come together and be loving, accepting, warm, welcoming. May we all stand and honor the complexity and challenge of trans life—that we do not know, but can seek to understand and have compassion for. I love people too much to allow hatred to be referred to as “backlash.” People deserve better.]

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froody

people who say “I’m a pretty good judge of character.” are usually not a ‘pretty good judge of character’

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froody

“I just know when people are lying.” do you? bc you sound like a cop

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froody

so true. and then 250,000 people die because of medical errors each year. many because they weren’t listened to.

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critical-collective
#god. REAL#especially the “i know when people are lying”#“im just like really good at manipulating people its so easy <3” you are a fucking idiot#<- regarding prev
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flashy-mf

Things my cluster b folks understand that others (probably) don’t

  • Unable to love someone and be mad at them at the same time. Anger automatically equals hate. I’m angry at you, I hate you. I’m not mad anymore, I’m done hating you.
  • Several months of psychologically damaging social isolation followed by one shallow, purely transactional friendship you’ll purposely torch into flames at the first sign of a reason.
  • All the hindsight in the world and almost no foresight.
  • When someone insults you so now your whole identity is ruined and you have to discard that one in favor of building another
  • Being so irritable for no reason. You just start getting angry at strangers for existing in your vicinity, and your personal space gets multiplied by ♾️ Now everyone feels way too close even when they’re nowhere near you.
  • Being totally convinced others are using you based solely upon how many things you didn’t want to do but agreed to anyway because you forgot you have feelings and needs
  • Raise the bar so high that you don’t have friends, get so lonely that you just straight up get rid of the bar and have no standards, get hurt, raise your standards exceptionally high to prevent yourself from letting anyone near you again. But now you’re lonely… so you get rid of the bar-
  • Moving on from everything really fast. Emotions last seconds, minutes, a couple hours. Even largely complex, traumatic emotions like grief and mortal fear. It’s Tuesday, the end of all that’s alive, and then it’s still Tuesday.
  • Always craving some specific form of emotional void-fill. You don’t know what you need, but you do know it’s never anything you obtain. “I’m so goddamn thirsty, but all this water I’m surrounded by has no effect no matter how much I drink.”
  • Every want and need has to be a dilemma for some reason. Because being on the same page with yourself is just illegal for us. Love me, hate me, want me, and leave me alone. Yes, all at once. You physically can’t? Well, shit. Screw everything, then.
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apotheoseity

i wish people were normal about fat characters. god bless

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eucowlyptuscreek

But I can't be normal about them. They're much better snuggle buddies then the reanimated skeleton in the kitchen.

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apotheoseity

this is the exact type of response this post was made about . so. blocked forever

#real “the only worth fat characters have is for soft fluff fanfics”-core#my man i will make you meet god#like yes. of course. you can have nice soft fluff cuddle fics with fat characters but thats ALL anyone does with them usually#like have a fat character rend someone to dust with like. a big fucking sword#thats all i ask actually#sincerely- a fat guy#also dude “i cant be normal about them” fucking good for you i guess? you missed the fucking point
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bromantically

god i hate how normalized diet culture and shit like bmi and calories are. bmi is based on eugenics. calories are a measurement of how much energy something gives u and not at all of how much weight or fat ull gain. diets have been proven to be harmful and ultimately unhelpful in actually losing weight. fatness has been largely proven to not be inherently unhealthy and doesnt inherently cause health issues.

if anyone has more good links to add on then please do and if anyone knows more on this stuff than me then dont hesitate to correct me!

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more-beanies

FOOD IS GOOD. FOOD IS GOOD. FOOD IS GOOD!! if you’re eating, ever, and even/especially if it’s hard, know that i am personally SO SO proud of you

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normal-horoscopes

The BMI was invented by Adolphe Quetelet, the 19th century statistician who invented phrenologist anthropometry. He wasn’t just a eugenicist, he was one of the founding fathers of racist pseudoscience. Please do not listen to anything he has to say about your body.

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uglymelon

“And get this: While epidemiologists use BMI to calculate national obesity rates (nearly 35 percent for adults and 18 percent for kids), the distinctions can be arbitrary. In 1998, the National Institutes of Health lowered the overweight threshold from 27.8 to 25—branding roughly 29 million Americans as fat overnight—to match international guidelines. But critics noted that those guidelines were drafted in part by the International Obesity Task Force, whose two principal funders were companies making weight loss drugs.”

Source: https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2014/08/why-bmi-big-fat-scam/

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Why BMI is a big fat scam
Body mass index is used to sell weight loss drugs, set insurance premiums, and counsel patients. There's just one little problem.
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bogleech

I always thought everyone knew this by like the early 2000s but instead I see more people than ever believing this stuff is real medical science

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