welcome home, darling~
hi there !! you can call me em or cherry if you’d prefer, i’ve had a few blogs but i decided it was time to start fresh, a new year new me sort of thing !! i’m mostly maxis match and i’m planning on posting gameplay along with story posts here and there !
feel free to reblog if you post maxis match/mix content so i can follow you :o)
i've moved !!
Are you a trans exclusionary radical feminist? Are you a terf sympathizer? Are you friends or partners with a terf? If yes! Then stay the Fuck away from me and my blog
there's something about the line "i know i'm young but if i had to pick her or the sun i'd be one nocturnal son of a gun" that just feels so right
Calming masterpost:
crisis/urgent support lines and sites
- hotlines/crisis lines for depression, domestic abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, teens, pregnancy, lgbt and more
- mental support community - a forum where you can post that you are in a crisis right now and need peer support as soon as possible
- imalive crisis chat - online one-on-one chat for if you’re in at risk of hurting yourself etc
- self harm alternatives
- si urges alternatives
relaxation/anxiety relief
- do nothing for two minutes
- interactive silk art
- guided relaxation
- watch a dream
- 100,000 stars
- thisissand - create sandscapes on your screen with your mouse
- calming gif
the quiet place project
- the quiet place - find some quiet
- the thoughts room - a super calm page to unburden yourself from bad thoughts
- the comfort spot - a place for anonymous venting with out anybody judging you for who you are
- the dawn room - my personal favourite, especially good for when you feel alone
- know that it will be okay - when a moment is too hard for you - come here.
music and sounds
- my anxiety relief playlist - on 8tracks
- my positivity/recovery playlist - on 8tracks
- ‘stay strong’ playlists - on 8tracks
- coffee shop sounds
- rain sounds
- calmsound - nature sounds
- rainycafe
comfort food
- one minute cookie in a mug
- brownie in a mug
- several cookie recipes
- 25 hot chocolate recipes
- loads and loads of snacks - 533 quick and easy recipes for a range of snacks on studentrecipe
- lots of different in-a-mug recipes
- chocolate pudding in a mug - my personal fave (lil tip: add mini marshmallows for extra gooey yumminess)
advice and tips
- how to be okay with yourself
- 25 resolutions
- life hacks
- more life hacks
- a hella ton more life hacks - so many life hacks dude soon ur gonna never have a day-to-day stress again
- school masterpost - school sucks so bad but hopefully this can help ease the stress
- how to love yourself
- how to bypass restricted wifi omg
- alleviate menstrual cramps
- boost your confidence
- love yourself!
- self help after anxiety
- stop biting your nails
- stop procrastinating
- stop skipping breakfast
videos and movies
- cure to sadness (video)
- the movie blog - a blog dedicated to movie masterposts you will never be without a movie to watch again
- cute roulette - THE BEST PLACE ON THE INTERNET ITS LITERALLY JUST A HUGE ROULETTE OF VIDEOS OF CUTE ANIMALS WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT FROM LIFE
- random acts of kindness caught on film
- disney movies
- movies for angsty teens
distractions etc
- rice questions - answer simple questions and donate free rice to people in poverty!!
- click to give - just click a button to donate (it costs nothing) food to animals shelters, people in poverty and homeless veterans; mammograms to fight breast cancer; therapy for people on the autism spectrum; alzheimer’s and diabetes research; a book to a child; protect wildlife habitat
- break something - good for anger
- loads of cute games
- how to make a blanket nest
- learn something new - a masterpost of hobbies
- exercise like a superhero
- nice words
- things to do when your sad
- slap a bald guy with an eel - this is ridiculously entertaining
- watch a dog lick your screen - it loops, so you could literally watch for hours if you want
- calmingmanatee
- daily puppy
- how to make a comfort box
- download free books
extras
- emergency compliment!
- lots of compliments - they even include ur name aw
- huge list of bloggers who have put themselves forward as willing to listen/chat without judgement
- getting anon hate?
- :) tag - all the posts that i’ve tagged for making me happy
- 7cupsoftea - free, anonymous, confidential talks with trained listeners
- get a hug
Calming songs, playlists and instrumentals:
- Sing Me to Sleep
- The Boulevard of Broken Dreams
- Boost your Mood (peppier and happy songs)
- The Driving Mixtape
- Study
- Summer Nights
- It’s Going to be Fine
- Calm & Collected
- Once Upon a December - Piano (song)
- Clair de Lune (song)
- The Moon is a Harsh Mistress (song)
Calming/distracting Websites
- The Quiet Place
- Rainymood.com
- Calm.com
- Soundrown.com - calming sounds to mix and match
- A website to distract yourself
- A recovery masterpost
- A post of interesting things
- Ungruntle yourself
- Press a magic button and fix everything
- Play cute games
- Almost every movie your little heart desires (i suggest you use with adblocker)
- How to love yourself
- A website that compliments you
Crafts and activities, easy and fun DYI projects
- Glitter calm jars
- A list of things to do to curb anxiety
- Make a blanket nest
- Silky summer legs
- Lots of food recipes; mostly desserts
- For bad days masterpost
- Make some microwave snacks
- Five minute fudge
- Make a phone case
- A bunch of hobbies!
- Self care list!
- Pretty gold-dipped feathers (for decorating or anything)
What to do when:
- You’ve been triggered
- You’re having an anxiety attack
- You’re having a panic attack
- Your face is red and puffy after crying
- You just had a fight
- You hate yourself
- You want to avoid being stressed
- You want to get over your ex
Meditation and breathing
Simple things
- Pretty Tree
- When You Feel You Have Lost Everything
- See Some BLOOD
- Press a Button to Make Everything OK
- Calming Manatee
- Calming Gif
Make Something!
Other Nice Things
- A Page To Help You Recover!!!
- Coping Skills & Distractions
- The Quiet Place. Shhhhh
- For When You’re Upset
- The Nicest Place on the Internet
- Player 2
- 10 Most Relaxing Online Games
- Talk To Someone That Will Listen
- Not Having a Good Day?
- How-to Love Yourself
- Ground Yourself X X X
- Mood Chart
- Do Nothing For Two Minutes
- Rainymood
- The Comfort Spot
- Weave Silk
- Seed Plant Breeder
- This Is Sand
- C.A.L.M
Calming/Relaxing Music:
dc and american mutuals/followers, if you’re anxious and stressed due to the current situation, here are a few mental health and checkpoint carrds!
- https://checkpoint.carrd.co/
- https://comfortpack.carrd.co/
- https://mentalhealthhelpsite.carrd.co/
- https://mhresources.carrd.co/
feel free to add more links!
a resource for housing and transportation tonight for those in the city. please get out before 6 PM.
Happy Kwanzaa to everyone beginning their celebrations today!
Some of you may be aware, if not now you are. There is a person on here who was called out over her partner being a t**f and this person may have (I believe) was complicit and was aware. They deleted but reactivated under oakdawn. If you see sapphicssword or oakdawn on your blog, please block immediately. At this point no one knows who this person truly is or their true intentions. For your own safety, please block them as they are closely affiliated with extremely hateful and violent opinions on specific people. Love y’all, be safe.
UPDATE
she is back and goes by @/cinnamoonhaze !! please block her for your own safety.
- malcom landgraab invited darlene out for love day !
🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄
🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄🍃🍄
im sorry for making this post so close to the holidays but unfortunately im homeless again.
its freezing outside and even snowing so me and my younger brother were indoors most of the time yesterday (it was his birthday so i let him roam around some of his favorite stores. safely ofc!!!)
i do work a part time job and have been applying at other places to try and get more hours. im scared of my brothers safety when im at work tho so i would like to get him into a hotel room but i dont have enough to do so rn.
we have been in an abusive situation for quite a long time and now we're so close to finally being out of it and somewhere we can thrive but not without any hardships. my older brother will help us get a place when we manage to make it to where he lives as well but like i mentioned before, my job is only part time and it doesnt pay enough to even really keep us fed thru the week.
anything helps. if u cant donate, pls reblog. but if u can spare anything heres a few of my links:
https://www.paypal.me/cuckaleks
update: i got sick this week due to being homeless during a pandemic ❤ and have lost my job because of this...pls help
- maybe painting isn’t for everyone..
just popping in to say that my blog has always been a trans safe space and literally always will be
𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍𝚖𝚘𝚛𝚗𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚜𝚞𝚗𝚜𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚎 ☼